There is this person i dated just once 2 months back. I asked her out for she flirted with me for a long time. I am positive me and her really enjoyed. Then i asked her very shortly after the first date if she would like to go out seriosly. She said she was "kinda seeing someone" and that she would like to casually go out. I took the refusal extremely well and behaved extremely calmly and said it was not a problem. I walked away.We exchanged some emails over the summer. I met her again a few weeks back and she behaved really "nicely" with me. What is all this supposed to mean? Both of us are in the same high school but this sem i got no classes with her. What do i do? I kinda like her still
2006-10-21 14:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Arjun C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always say go out with her as a friend, friends last forever relationships don't. Just watch her maybe she is just toying with you or maybe she is just real shy and you came on too strong.
2006-10-21 15:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sybil Sr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with her first statement, she meant she wanted to see you on a dating level but not seriously because she did not want to date just one person. It is great that she was honest about that and let you know up front. If you are okay with dating her while she is dating someone else, then go for it. But if not, you may be setting yourself up for heartbreak.
2006-10-21 22:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably being nice because she likes you and wants to be your friend. However, she may be seeing someone and so wants to limit your relationship because of it. I would say be nice to her and very casually ask her if she's still seeing someone. If she says yes then you'll have your answer. If she says no then ask her out again.
2006-10-21 21:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya realy like her, Check in with her once in awhile to see where she is at. If you have her email adress maybe you could get in touch online every month or so. If she is too busy just let it go I think.
2006-10-21 21:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she realy cant see a relationship with you. I think you should just give it up bud. There are hundreds of other girls in your high school. Im sure one of them is checking you out. Just open up your eyes abit and watch those mysterious masses of eyeballs as they trickle pass you.
2006-10-21 22:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out casually with her. She just doesn't want something serious right now, she just wants to go on dates.
2006-10-21 21:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?
i'm "kinda seeing someone".
according to my book, you don't date when ur already seeing someone.
make sure she's single and the person she was "seeing" doesn't find out.
try not to get urself in a mess, k?
2006-10-21 21:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by concrete_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to know if she is not going to be with someone else.
because then it will not work out. she cannot have two guys at the same time.
2006-10-21 21:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes u, be like, "I kept thinking of u last night and wondered if u like me."
2006-10-21 21:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by zktnl27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have her email tell her how you feel silly.
go for it.
good luck<3
2006-10-21 21:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by cherise c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋