Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

He has been given only a few months to live. I want to send him a card. Obviously I can't send a "Get Well Soon" card because we have to come to terms with the fact that he's not going to get well. What can I say to him to comfort him and show him that I love him without pitying him or making him depressed?

Also, how I can I prepapre myself emotionally for his death?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-21 14:45:11 · 16 answers · asked by hhhh 4 in Family

2006-10-21 14:44:45 · 20 answers · asked by Nice 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you knew that they were going to die very soon, and they were the love of your life, what would you say to them to let them know how much you love them?

2006-10-21 14:44:37 · 14 answers · asked by pupcake 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

premature ejacu awe damm there it goes again

2006-10-21 14:44:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 14:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

this boy who ive known since i was 4 and i like him and he actually told me he liked me, BUT he has a gf......and we talked online like every night, and then school started and we just didnt really talk about it anymore, and now i dont know what to do??:(

2006-10-21 14:43:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated one of my best friends and now that we broke up, it seems like it's so hard to be just friends. I still have feelings for him, but I don't want to; how can I get over him?

2006-10-21 14:43:21 · 12 answers · asked by Stina 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother is telling my mom all the stuff. Should I continue to talk to my grandmother.
She lives across the street.

2006-10-21 14:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend whom my son and I live with and I have been having really bad problems lately. I know alot of it is my fault and I have realized that I need to make changes. We have been having really nasty arguments and discusions about if our relationship can work. I know alot of it has to do with me and how I have treated him after some trust issuesAnyway, hs mom has always been supportive of us so I decided even though I knew he wouldnt lke it that i was going to email her telling her how i was sorry i had treated him so bad and about some of our serious problems that are making us almost break up. I did it only as a desperate attempt to save us. Anyway, he is completly furious at me saying I backstabed him. HIs mom was really nice to me about everything and said she was going to talk to him about it and that she tought it was good for me to talk about it. He is now saying he isnt coming home and I have only one more chance. Is what I did really wrong? I only did it to try and save

2006-10-21 14:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know he likes me! My friends even think so. I invited him to my party and he said he wouldn't miss for anything. Is that a hint?

2006-10-21 14:41:45 · 18 answers · asked by hot stuff 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl that ive known since grade 5 she is a year younger than me, we have become friends over that time.im 17 now and we talk everyday, i flirt with her and she does to. should i ask her out and see where it goes or should we just stay friends? lately shes been paying alot mor attention to me and asking for hugs everyday does this mean anything?

2006-10-21 14:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by Massimo D 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got a new bf and I dont know how to tell the rents cus getting my mom to...how to put this niceley..? be quit bout it and not ask questions and my dad wont leave me alone about it. so the question is how do I tell them I have a bf? or do I even tell them bout him? plz help!!

2006-10-21 14:41:39 · 3 answers · asked by Lacey 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 years old i like this girl in my english class. i talk to her once in a while but wen i asked her if she liked me she said NO !!! but the problem is that now she looks at me with a smile on her face. like for example i was talking 2 my friend b4 class and i was standing by the door and she was looking right at me smiling. like one time i gave her a note and told her 2 stop calling me chi chi, because i dont like it. anyways i saw her walking in the hallway and instead of saying HI chi chi she called me by my first name and wen she said it she had a smile on her face. then the other day she asked me if i can lend her a pencil. then after class she was about to give it back but she was about to call me chi chi then she smiled and called me by my 1st name. i don't what is happening does she like me or she doesnt or is playing with me and one time i asked her to get 2 class just playing around or either she ignored me or she just ignores me i think she thinks i lost interest in her

2006-10-21 14:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I got married at the wrong time. I fell in love with my best friend. When he told me he did not have the same feelings for me and rubbed it in my face by flirting with another girl I guess i lost my mind. Shortly after that happened I meant a guy. It was only supposed to be a one weekend thing to help me get over the hurt. But He asked me to married him and two months later I was married. I don't love my husband and know it was a big mistake. I moved to be with my husband and even quit my job. I told him about 3 weeks ago why I married him and he wants to work on it knowing full well I don't love him. I really want to try but I don't want to hurt him because I don't think I love him or ever will be able to. I need some help. This is destroying me.

2006-10-21 14:40:54 · 22 answers · asked by babydove1821 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Damn It High School Friggin SUCKS

2006-10-21 14:38:57 · 11 answers · asked by tolkienrules2123 2 in Singles & Dating

her as hard as i could in her stomach,,why dont i feel bad at all ,i loved see her rolling on the ground gaspping and gagging so hard for air,.HISTORY-she stole him away from me while we were together behind my back..we are both in our early 20,s,,,does this make me a bad person?

2006-10-21 14:38:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-21 14:38:12 · 13 answers · asked by kennychen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friends call my mom a MILF. i hate that. it gets me soo pissed off. when they say MILF and my mom, i want to throw up. they all say it over and over again. some say they come over just to look at my mom. WTF? i want to kill them for that. ( no i'm not actually going to kill them" but i want to. how do i make them stop? i tried reverse phycology but that didn't work.

2006-10-21 14:38:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do you say never change yourself for other guys.... but then you hate hoo we are..... I dont wanna change for a guy.... but NO guys like me..... im not young either.... i should have a serious bf by now..... but all guys think the same way.... and dont come my direction! What do i do??

2006-10-21 14:37:53 · 10 answers · asked by limey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 14:37:25 · 22 answers · asked by hockeymonkey20042003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

see i like this boy he'll flirt with me a lot one day, then the next day, not really, and back and forth/ I can't tell if he likes me but he likes this girl and he flirts with her a lot like tickling and stuff. i think she is prettier than me but everyone else thinks shes ugly but a lot of guys like her. I don't think im prettier enough, how do i get him to notice me more?

2006-10-21 14:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by Taylurr Babee. 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wants to know.

2006-10-21 14:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...if my boyfriend sings about me in the shower. I think it's weird, but I want to see what you think and why.

2006-10-21 14:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by honeyfairy5 2 in Singles & Dating

my wifes bestfriend just reaveled to me my girlfriend of 9 yrs wife of one mother of two was never faithful sexualy she cheated on me three times with no guilt i never know she was able to do this our new baby was only 2yrs how do i get over this how do i give her my trust back or is it over we just bought a house too i cant give up everything i worked so hard to get any advice would be nice

2006-10-21 14:35:49 · 9 answers · asked by downnout 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I met a guy online. We started talking and he's really really nice! Then I found out that he's 35. I'm only 19. He doesn't think that it's a very big age difference... but I'm not so sure. What do you guys think?

2006-10-21 14:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by deepwaters05 3 in Singles & Dating

i know that alot of older people say im too young to understand love..and that i dont know what love is yet. but i do i really realy truly love my boyfriend. im just wondering why im crying.. i jsut saw him last night and i feel like i havent seen him in forever! i cry because i love him so much and i want to know if he loves me the same or less. i think its less but i think everyone thinks that about there boyfriend. i jsut feel reallly sad and idk what to do, i cant call him or anything bcuz my phone got turned off and this is probly retarded for putting this on here but i had no1 to talk to and i really had to get this out for some reason. and i love him so much that i cry because im really scared to lose him and i cry [happy cries] bcuz i have never felt this way about anyone in my whole life, not god,family,friends,pets,exboyfriends whatever its just really wierd and i have no idea why im crying right now but someone plz respond to this jsut to tell me something thank you =[

2006-10-21 14:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by sexxi_baby06 2 in Singles & Dating

Gurls im in the 10th grade and my gf is in the 12th do yall think she is gonna still want all this greatness in college? Or should i cheat on her and break up now?

2006-10-21 14:35:27 · 12 answers · asked by Buddy22 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 14:34:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you bring up it up like "are you trying to make me jealous?" like will they most likely admit and deny it?

2006-10-21 14:34:29 · 10 answers · asked by questioner 4 in Singles & Dating

I have recentley built a community online and looking for members now. It's a free social community where many of us can meet around the web in one community and share thoughts ideas and opinions.

The reason for my post is that I am having problems promoting it. Not sure if it's The set-up, the lack of interest in these types of online communities, or just failure to promote in the proper places.

I am looking for level headed adults and teens to take part and provide comments and suggestions that would make the site a little more interesting.

Thank you for your time,
James P Reardon Sr.
BetterMember Site Administrator
http://www.bettermember.net

2006-10-21 14:33:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family