Why do you say never change yourself for other guys.... but then you hate hoo we are..... I dont wanna change for a guy.... but NO guys like me..... im not young either.... i should have a serious bf by now..... but all guys think the same way.... and dont come my direction! What do i do??
2006-10-21 14:37:53 · 10 answers · asked by limey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess you looked in the wrong place at the wrong time like me
i personally don't think you should change for anyone
however, i don't know you at all so i can't tell if it is right or wrong......
2006-10-21 14:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by matt0424 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to ask, how old are you?? To say that you should have a serious bf by now, makes me think that you are pretty young... maybe highschool??
Personaly, if you are happy with yourself, then you shouldn't change... on a different note, find out what it is that is stopping you from having a boyfriend, and see if it's something you think is a good thing, or bad thing...
2006-10-21 14:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you must change yourself, then let it be so if you believe it would help you first and foremost, if it's something that you see would be good and useful to you. Don't change just because of what he says
The question here to think over is "Would you be comfortable with yourself if you change to this kind of person or mannerism"
Think positive, as best you can. Maybe try humor. Just believe in yourself and don't give up.
2006-10-21 14:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by J.D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be liked....if someone is going to be with you, that person should accept you just the way you are....Don't try to change for anyone, if you decide to change you should do it, ONLY for yourself....Be patient, you'll see that you will find someone who accepts you just the way you are.....don't act desperate, and give it some more time!! Good Luck
2006-10-21 15:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
improving one's personality and habit to impress someone can be taken as a great change. but changing the personality to meet a trashy demand can be upsetting. both boys and girls like it when the love of their lives improve....this is a matter of pride after all. "I hope u never change" is rather a line made to fill up the coversation chain. don't take it for granted.
2006-10-21 14:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't sound like you're looking for the perfect guy, so put yourself out there. Sleep around.
2006-10-21 14:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by stezus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might have to change, but nothing serious like dying your hair or anything like that. Just try to be more confident, and be more bold.
2006-10-21 14:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't change 4 NO1!
2006-10-21 14:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by It's killing time again..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be yourself to find mr. right but theres no such thing unless you be yourself.
2006-10-21 14:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. . . .heres an ansewr for your question.
DoNt!!
2006-10-21 14:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋