Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

This is the second time he said he would and did'nt, the third time he pretty much left it up to me to call him. He called on his own ONCE. I really wish I did'nt have to appear so needy and possibly desperate in order to get his attention. Should I tell him that?What should I say? It's only been a week since he gave me his number. I don't know, HELP? I just got out of a four year relationship where we did'nt have these problems!

2006-10-21 15:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by Ladii 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that i really like. he is a huge flirt to girls who love public attention, but thats not me. weve had a couple of serious convos and we chat casually almost every schoolday. he is really busy so outside of school the only times weve hung out are a couple times at football games.
Sometimes we will look into eachothers eyes and i get this REALLY intense feeling and it seems like time stops. i think he feels it too cuz its happened several times and sometimes he will come up beside me and catch my eyes and well have one of those intense moments.
we can totally relate to eachother and out of all of his friends he only has a few REAL friends and told me im one of them. i text him and/or call him a few times a week and he responds like 70% of the time...
He likes this other girl, but he told me he likes a lot of girls...could i be one of them? what should i do? thanx!
P.S. Advice on getting him to like me?

2006-10-21 15:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 15:31:04 · 22 answers · asked by Alexzander 1 in Singles & Dating

My 3 daughters are fed up with weddings. I want to keep this one private with no witnesses needed. Where can I go for a private wedding and it not be at a magistrates office?

2006-10-21 15:30:50 · 18 answers · asked by Cereza B 1 in Weddings

with your cousin, asked you to go but knew you weren't really ready, or wanting too, and then at 10:00 says "OK, well we're going." What do you do? This is the man who don't drink, and comes straight home from work to go onto World of Warcraft until 1:00 in the A.M. I didn't really think he'd actually leave the game tonight. He hasn't left it for ANYTHING in over a year. Our relationship is pretty much OVER, partally because of that F@*%ing game....sorry, I'm just upset. I guess we are really only together for the kids..it sucks.

2006-10-21 15:30:50 · 5 answers · asked by 123..WAIT! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 15:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by wood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not a shy girl at all, but there is this boy that i really like, and i think he likes me to, but i talk to him a lot on myspace, and on one of my pics under it i put "sexy hu?" and he put a comment saying "yes u are" anywho i cant ask him out, cause im scared. but i dont know why because (IM NOT TRYING TO BRAG) im a hot girl (im told) and i talk to guys all the time, but i cant talk to him for some reason. PLEASE HELP

2006-10-21 15:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate my dad he's an asshole and well he pisses me off. he calls me fat alot and he like makes me misserable, and know I have to go live with my mom. I don't want to meaning that I have to move away from the school that I go to and now I'm just so sad. My birthday was today october 21st and I got nothing I didn't even get to go to the mall with my friends because I got picked up. he has abused me before but I don't know what to do... I live with alot of people who make sure it doesn't happen and i don't want to leave them/ :'( please help me

2006-10-21 15:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, me and my friend are fighting about if he's part japanese, he says he 2 % japanese. And said that his great ancestor moved from japan to the phillipines. And he married a filipino woman. Which makes him half filipino, right? not 2 %?

2006-10-21 15:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what is your ratio in your taste of the opposite gender between their looks and personality?

2006-10-21 15:27:45 · 6 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

dont u hate it when ur friends always get on ur nerves.
my friend, erika doesn't listen to the things i say, she always plays around which is fine but when ever i get serious she still thinks i'm not serious she thinks i'm just playing around with herr!
and when i want to tell herr that i don't want to be friends with herr i know that she gets emotional.
shud i tell herr that i'm not herr friend or not?

2006-10-21 15:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this guy last sunday at this store he works @. ive spotted him b4. so when i was there this past sunday with my mom, he came over & formally introduced himself! my mom actually told one of the ladies who works tehre that i liked him, and she happens to be his good friend. I thikn she may have told him to go over and talk to me, considering I kno he saw me too. she said hes a really sweet guy who wouldnt try anything, i can tell shes not lying. he is going back to him home country, Spain in about 6 months or so. long story short, i left him a note with my # cuz we seemed to hit things off, i also said i'd be back next week with friends. So, its been all week and he hasnt called, but I went back nontheless. i get there & hes not there! he was running an errin and i was short on time. I ended up having to leave b4 he got back. i talked to his friend again, she asked if he called, she then said he has been really busy lately. another problem: im 17, hes 22!

2006-10-21 15:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well my friend is mad at me because i dated her ex-boyfriend,when she moved and went to a different school.now she went out with 2 of my ex-boyfriends and i didnt call her a back stabber well i am the new girl at this one skool because i moved and she did too and went to the same school,cause i new her 4rm old skool and the thing is i go to a small skool where there are only about 100 students so yeah u mite go wit her ex.now she is moving back amd she is coming back to our skool and she said she aint gonna talk to me,my friend,and my boyfriend(her ex) so am i really a backstabber?

2006-10-21 15:27:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It will either go great and I'll have this enormous weight lifted off my chest, or horribly, and I'll be miserable and heartbroken. I'm not ready for the latter...

2006-10-21 15:26:09 · 17 answers · asked by DeAnna 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently an ex and I have been spending time together. The past three weekends have been spent together. Each weekend he is very loving, telling me he cares, telling me I am beautiful, even asking me to run away with him and marry him. A couple of weekends ago he told an old friend of his that I am still the ONE. However, then he gets distant with me. We live an hour away so during the week he is distant and then during the weekend he is great. I don't understand. He has mentioned to me that he doesn't think he is good enough for me. Is this just an excuse or is that what is holding him back? I am confused by his actions. Oh and just to answer any unasked questions, no we are not having sex. So that isn't a factor.

I will add this piece of information. He and I are both dating other people and he brings up my dates quite often. Is he reacting out of jealousy and that's it? Or does he really care.

2006-10-21 15:24:58 · 15 answers · asked by Meg 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 15:24:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to pretend that i cant open a jar, just to make my husband feel strong.

2006-10-21 15:23:01 · 26 answers · asked by sparky_butt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im scared, i just found out my husband lied to me and he sez he is going to atlantic city when really he is going to a party and didnt tell me and keeps it a secret from me. should i be worried, do i have a right to be upset? thanks

2006-10-21 15:21:47 · 18 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Family

I have been in and out of school for the last couple of years due to various suspensions, ect. I have a lot of friends who I hang out with occasionally but don't have any close friends. I'm about to start college with all my friends still in school. Another thing is that I'm not outgoing in a social sense so I rarely make friends at places like work, school, ect. How should I manage not to end up a hermit in 5-10 years?

2006-10-21 15:21:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

him what would u do?...if you have no money, no family, no job yet?

2006-10-21 15:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by texascomet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 15:20:28 · 33 answers · asked by rachel h 1 in Singles & Dating

reminds you of a raptor, trys to rewind a dvd, forgets what she is saying, thinks she looses papers and goes out to her car to find them but there they are right in plain view on her desk?

AND comes to school w/ 2 diff shoes on, constantly cant pronounce words (ENGLISH teacher might i add) like she kept trying to say ubiquituos as ubiquious, leaves her mouth open like way wide for about 5 min, and one time she made us write name poems (like you write your name down the side and add sentences) and she told us that she had a ton of no-name papers.. ?!!?!?!?!! wtf.....like holy crap
so what would you do?

2006-10-21 15:19:48 · 14 answers · asked by Caitlin T 1 in Singles & Dating

i like one of my good friends, i have for many years now. he used to like me to but then he got a gf, anyhow one of my friends said i should tell him, but to me that seems like it would be inappropriete. agree??? disagree???

2006-10-21 15:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by char 2 in Singles & Dating

I really have a happy halloween with my bf! but how do I spent it with him? options options...

2006-10-21 15:19:00 · 5 answers · asked by Lacey 3 in Singles & Dating

but my bestfriend has a boyfirnd 2 and i think i like her boyfriend more than my own but its not jelousy its just thati like her boyfriend more and like mi boyfrined and her boyfriend and i flirt alot and she and mi boyfriend flirt alot and dont know it what do i do [p.s.i kno this is alot of drama =p]

2006-10-21 15:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by whitz 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend Bri are having a sleepover and we need some suggestions for things to do!

2006-10-21 15:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by bananana_327 1 in Friends

and people keep telling me she's in a better place, etc. How do they know? Maybe she's just a body in the earth. Secondly, my wife's family keeps telling me to get over it.

2006-10-21 15:17:53 · 26 answers · asked by zane k 1 in Family

Me and my boyfriend are planing on getting married soon. We have recently gotten back together and were seperated for about 2 months. The breakup was my fault and he was crushed, I was stupid and fianly realized it and he took me back. While we were seperated he started seeing some random girl, and she is saying that she might be pregnant. What do I do, give up my prince charming who I cant see myself without or just deal with it. He has been dying to have kids and I know he wouldnt want her to give it up. Im so jealouse and I have always imagined us having our first children together. I dont think I could deal with her being around all the time and seeing the child. Should I still marry him or move on. I dont want to be jaelouse for the rest of my life!

2006-10-21 15:17:06 · 10 answers · asked by Tabbie 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends is really kind of dont care guys.i can see that he is so talented in everything and he can learn so fast but the point is he cant see himself and i think i have to do something about it.
he is older than me (20) so i dont wanna make him feel that
i think i know everything and i am so good,u know!!!how can i tell him to pay more attention to what he is doing and make him choose his friends wisely.
(plz people upper than 19 answer it)

2006-10-21 15:16:45 · 3 answers · asked by karen 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay my cousin is 11 and he is dateing a 6 year old no joke is that bad?

2006-10-21 15:15:19 · 19 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Singles & Dating