2006-10-21 15:24:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have forgiven my husband though we're separated.
2006-10-21 15:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I can. As a woman I have had the opportunity to cheat but just couldn't do it. My marriage vows-said till death so us part,and when I figure there is a 99 per cent that he is, I am totally devastated. I do not know if I am coming or going
2006-10-21 15:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sariee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. My fiance' cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship. It took a big chunk out of our relationship as a whole, and shattered the trust... and just as everything else, it took a lot of time to heal those wounds. =) Now we're getting married in July, things have never been better... Sometimes people mess up. It's life. Live, learn, laugh and love...
2006-10-21 15:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What would be the point? You would only be making excuses for him and tolerating being deceived. WHen your mate cheats, he is showing his true colors and making his choice.
People lie for one of two reasons:
1- they are ashamed because they know they are wring
2-they are afraid to accept the consequences and take responsibility for their actions
When you excuse it, you are condoning it and not holding them accountable. Girl, you can do better than that!!!!
2006-10-21 15:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did the one time I knew about, then found out she was up to it again and had been for many many years. Never again, once the trust is gone for any reason the relationship is over for me.
2006-10-21 15:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i forgave my first husband, and believed it would never happen again, how stupid of me. today he is married to the one who broke up our marriage, and for years i wondered if i could have done anything different, but found out from my daughter that they were arguing one day when she was visiting, the argument was over a woman he had been seeing behind her back, so no i would not forgive or forget, i would simply move on.
2006-10-21 15:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiven yes forgotten No!Made it plain that if it should ever happen again that he would be wearing his balls for earrings and his pecker for a scarf!
2006-10-21 16:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have. unfortunately so has he. when we were first together i cheated with his best friend (only once). we broke up a couple of months later and then got back together a couple of months after that. he then cheated on me with a whore he knows i hate (he says only once). now we are trying to make a life together with NO ONE cheating.
2006-10-21 15:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by jasonslove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i was married i was with a real a_ss hole! i did forgive but the forgetting wouldn't come so easliy and it was there everyday! i could not go on with him for any longer than 1 month after i did forgive him.
2006-10-21 15:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have, but I haven't found peace of mind yet. I keep working on, "Forgiving is not forgetting....Its remembering with your mind at peace!"
2006-10-21 15:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋