him what would u do?...if you have no money, no family, no job yet?
2006-10-21 15:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by texascomet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just hate ? i loath him but of course if i don't have any resources i would search for a job as early as possible & then move out. for ever. divorce him ask for a very huge alimony & make him struggle to pay me the amount.he shoult regret each &every moment of his life for treating me like that.
2006-10-21 15:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he spit in your face? You dont deserve that no matter what. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you at all. If he did he wouldn't do those things. Do you all have kids? I think that I would play dumb and maybe take his **** a little bit until I could get a job and then leave his *** with nothing. Email me if you want to talk at cpolston1@aol.com
Best of luck to you!
2006-10-21 22:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out got to a shelter if you have to. He knows you have no where else to go so he figures he can get away with this sort of behavior. Leave now or next time he will do worse than spit at you.
2006-10-22 12:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My exhusband actually did spit in my face in the car one day taking me to work. I wiped it off, walked to my desk, called my father and filed for divorce the very same day. No one treats me that way. I deserve better. I also deserve respect. Eventually had to move in with my parents for short time with a baby until I found a place to live. It all worked out. btw - he is still single and lonely after 19 years and I am happily married to my cuban stallion..he adores me!!!!!
2006-10-21 23:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by galanca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a woman's shelter and raise my standards in men.
No, wait a minute.....I wouldn't allow any man to treat me like that in the first place. There are signs (BIG red waving flags) of a control freak from the start. You just need to stop making excuses for them (and tolerating them) because you fear being alone......
2006-10-21 22:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband spit in my face one morning 2 years ago when he was leaving to work. I guess he hated me since I was not working back then. But one thing I learned is it's all up to you how they treat you ... you have to put them on leash.... guys are dogs and can only think with their pen.. so don't try to treat them like humans... the more you **** on them the better they'll like you.
2006-10-21 22:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up, start walking and never look back. It takes too much energy to hate. There are shelters and agencies to help people in these situations. If you depend on him, he will always abuse you.
2006-10-21 22:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, even after this you have to wait for few month. Try to know is he really sorry for his action and is there any possibility in the future. And In between you can make your self independent, or try a way to make your self independent. Do not judge some one for their one action, try to understand them. As Mother Teresa said “Try to understand other , do not expect they will understand you. But there is one person will surely understand you. And that’s god.”
2006-10-21 22:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by bhaveshiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would hate also .thats real messed -up and he's suppose to be a man.. i think he;s on a power trip.he knows your situation.there;s always batterd womans houses that could help you till you get on your feet,,,i;ve been thru all the abuse i;ll ever had... lifes too short for that bullshit.... good-luck
2006-10-21 22:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your better then you think, there is help out there, its call a shelter for abuse women. Find one and get out, job source will help with the job hunting, there is also DSHS... good luck ...
2006-10-21 22:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by dee's page 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋