I have a guy friend that i really like. he is a huge flirt to girls who love public attention, but thats not me. weve had a couple of serious convos and we chat casually almost every schoolday. he is really busy so outside of school the only times weve hung out are a couple times at football games.
Sometimes we will look into eachothers eyes and i get this REALLY intense feeling and it seems like time stops. i think he feels it too cuz its happened several times and sometimes he will come up beside me and catch my eyes and well have one of those intense moments.
we can totally relate to eachother and out of all of his friends he only has a few REAL friends and told me im one of them. i text him and/or call him a few times a week and he responds like 70% of the time...
He likes this other girl, but he told me he likes a lot of girls...could i be one of them? what should i do? thanx!
P.S. Advice on getting him to like me?
2006-10-21 15:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, there is this other girl that i know for a fact he likes cuz i asked him and he said yeah and she likes public attention so he overflirts w/ her openly and shell sit on his lap in the hall and theyll talk and flirt, but in private moments he pays attention to me and its really confusing.....whats up w/ that?
2006-10-21 15:32:47 · update #1
I only have one question for you. If the world was going to end tomorrow what would you tell this boy? Well, pretend that the end is going to happen.
You can say something like this, "I've been holding in my feelings not sure how you would react. I even get a little jelous when you are flirting with (other girls names) I am not sure why but I do know that I want you to know that ...( You fill this part in and come from you heart).
You only get this day, you only get this life, you only get one moment. Don't have moments keep passing when you are hiding the truth from one of you closests friends. Good Luck and let me know how it goes.
If tomorrow was the end, what would you tell him?
2006-10-21 15:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know one of the guys in the popular clicks, like one of the football or basketball players. From there you can network. The person you get to know will probably ask you to hang out with the other guys like at the mall or eating place. Then from there once they get to know you and think you are cool, the sky is up. But you would have to drop a certain amount of shyness to make that approach to the initial guy. You do have to be careful with the hanging out with multiple guys as people will think you are giving up the goodies in order to be cool with them. The worst thing that could be said is the entire football team ran a train on you whether its true or not, that can be damaging.
2016-05-22 08:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the type of guy you should "LIKE". He is into other girls he is not into you. You need a guy that will like only you. DO not waste your time on this guy. NO advice on getting him to like you. You are not the type he likes. Move on! The quicker you move on the quicker you will find a great guy that will love you!!
2006-10-21 15:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by sandiiiiii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think your friend likes you... probably because you have these intense eye catching moments... good luck girl. i think you should tell him that you like him probably he's scared to ask you that thing cause you're good friends. but beware of the prerequisites, if you broke up there's a lesser possibility to be friends again...
2006-10-21 16:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by c254_111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same issue with one of my guy freinds. I say talk to him about it. I've talked to my guy friend and i know hes not intrested in any of the girls we go to school with, so its a hopeless situation in my case
2006-10-21 15:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I already answered this. That means I'm spending too much time on here, right?
2006-10-21 15:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself but he is a flirt be careful
2006-10-21 15:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by city 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stick it to the man...
2006-10-21 15:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by llama_lover6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋