im scared, i just found out my husband lied to me and he sez he is going to atlantic city when really he is going to a party and didnt tell me and keeps it a secret from me. should i be worried, do i have a right to be upset? thanks
2006-10-21 15:21:47 · 18 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank you, i knew i had something to be worried about. he sez i dont and shouldnt, but know i should be. now i know im right. atleast you people see it from my way. thanks alot.
2006-10-21 15:25:37 · update #1
The party is probably going to have naked dancing whores there.
2006-10-21 15:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably want to give him the benefit of the doubt and not nag him to much and trust him....but he kicked all of that out the window when he lied...for something as simple as a party...which basically implied that he had something planned. YES, you should be worried...but not too much to start following him and stuff like that...just be more inquisitive.
2006-10-21 22:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by trezequa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh YES
This is coming from a guy,
He is probably making out with another chick or doing other stuff with her behind your back, He's a cheater.
How did you find out by the way?
Yes, you do have the right to be upset.
2006-10-21 22:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u have the right to be upset trust is the most important thing in a marriage and if he is lying to you how can you have trust,,,
if he lies about where he is going what else is he lying to you about .. how would he feel if the roles were reversed i don;t think he would like it at all,,, i would be worried cause what is going on at that party that he doesn't want you to know,,,
good luck to you,, and if i was you i would be leary,,,
2006-10-21 22:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he really doing something sneaky, because if he hasn't tried to tell you the truth and even lied about it in the first place. Then he is really into something shady. Probably have another woman involved or some habit he is ashamed of telling you about.
2006-10-21 22:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what everyone else seems to. Something's up. Sadly, I played the deception game once upon a lifetime ago, and what I wanted to add is not to let him make you think you're nuts to feel that something's wrong. It's a terrible thing for him to do, but in the middle of denying that anything's wrong, he'll try to make you think that something must be wrong with you not to trust him. You know. Trust your gut. Take care of yourself. all my best to you, sweetheart.
2006-10-21 22:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jemmalassosthemoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely you have a right to be upset. atlantic city isnt much better anyway. sounds to me like he doesnt have much of a sense of responsibility. if he is not respectfull enough to tell the truth about something like that hes not respectfull enough to be faithfull.
2006-10-21 22:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband lied to you...yes worry. What else has he lied about that you don't know about yet? I would get a private investigator. How did you find out that he was lying?
2006-10-21 22:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a right to be upset. Why would he lie to you? What is he trying to hide? A man who doesn't intend to do anything wrong would not have to lie about his actions.
2006-10-21 22:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you know about the party? Call him on it see what he says....he's holding something back for a reason.
2006-10-21 22:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by L.lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋