okay well my friend is mad at me because i dated her ex-boyfriend,when she moved and went to a different school.now she went out with 2 of my ex-boyfriends and i didnt call her a back stabber well i am the new girl at this one skool because i moved and she did too and went to the same school,cause i new her 4rm old skool and the thing is i go to a small skool where there are only about 100 students so yeah u mite go wit her ex.now she is moving back amd she is coming back to our skool and she said she aint gonna talk to me,my friend,and my boyfriend(her ex) so am i really a backstabber?
2006-10-21 15:27:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are not a backstabber. While there is an unwritten rule that you should never date a friend's ex, the fact that your friend did the same means she is a hypocrite if she expects you to follow a rule she didn't follow.
Plus that rule is wrong. A good friend wants you to be happy. Just because their relationship with a guy didn't work out doesn't mean 1) there's something wrong with that guy (unless, of course, there is) and 2) you can't be happy with him.
2006-10-21 15:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Donna Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be a backstabber if you agreed not to do something and you went ahead and did it anyway, you screwed a friend over just to get what you want.
If you date someone's ex, well, they're called an ex because the two of them are no longer together. Neither of them has any claims on the other unless they've made it known that they are trying to get back together with that person, then you might be intruding. Or if you had said that you wouldn't date that person.
Oh, and judging by your grammar you need to do more in school than worry about boyfriends or what your friend (???) thinks of you.
2006-10-21 22:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend got issues, and is a hypocrite. If she did it, why can't you? Why is she making such a big deal out of it and blames it all on you even though she did it too? Your not a backstabber, she is. Shes just trying to blame everything back on you.
2006-10-21 22:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with dating other people's ex's? I mean its their fault for breaking up... No I don't think you are a backstabber.
2006-10-21 22:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by N/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-10-21 22:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweetirsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are, sorry to say. One of the rules of friendship is to never date your friends ex.
2006-10-21 22:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter..he's her ex..right..remind her of that...and let her know,her not talkin to ya over this,is childish..and to get over it...too many people dwell on the past..and should just move on,and live life to the best..lifes too short for stupid stuff like that... good luck.. :)
2006-10-21 22:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by curious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU N3V3R D4T3 YOUR FRI3NDS EX!
ITS 4 FRIEND L4W
2006-10-21 22:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥OUR LOV3 WiiLL FiiND A WAY♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER date the ex of a friend, even if they do. Period.
2006-10-21 22:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firt of all , im not entirely sure what you said. it was kind of confusing the way you said it. second it sounds like your friend is being unreasonable.
2006-10-21 22:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋