He is a talker and tells me exactly what he wants. I have a hard time doing that. He wants me to tell him what I like and what feels good. I'm a little shy and don't feel comfortable talking like that. I know I should, so he can understand and satisfy me better.(which needs to be done). How can I get up the nerve to talk to him that way? We have been together for 4 years and you would think the shyness would be over, but it is just hard for me for some reason. Can anybody help me communicate better sexually? I want to tell him that I hardly ever reach orgasm, I think he knows that. But the truth is, I really don't know what to say to help him help me. I don't know how he can make things better, because I actually don't know what it would take for me to reach orgasm. We are supposed to get married in November, but he has a case and may do some time in the County Jail. I like to be loved on and kissed and held and he's not really into all that. He's getting betterat that now. please help
2006-10-21 14:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look this what going to do. 1 talk sweet sexy things in his ear, lay in down on the bed. And just look a into his eyes and let him know how you feel inside and let him know what you want and when you have orgasm. Just talk sweet in his ear and you will get result we you both been having sex. You should what know what comes next, It natural its what you feeling inside.
2006-10-21 15:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by ronrmrll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is to figure yourself out. Find out what exactly will get you to reach an orgasm. The best way to find out is to experiment by yourself. Once you know yourself better, you can communicate your needs to him. If you are uncomfortable telling him, just show him. When you are in bed, place him where you want him or give him subtle hints on what to do.
2006-10-21 14:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are u going to satisfy him when he is not satisfying you? and sometimes you have to take control of the situation and do some role playing. a cup of wine and a good slow song might do the trick. but help yourself first to get full satisfaction
2006-10-21 14:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by mikki n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth that u don't feel comfortable talking about that but u really want something with him
2006-10-21 14:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh, to the left a little more, right there baby!!! Faster, faster, faster... YES YES YES YES YES... OHHHHHHHHH...
You could do it like a cheerleader... Push it back, push it back... WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY back... Gimme an O, Gimme another O, Gimme another O... What's that spell.. OOOOOOO!
2006-10-21 14:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gave hime your answer huggs and kisses.
2006-10-21 14:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Elisabeth C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time he opens his mouth,shove "something" in it
2006-10-21 14:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just close your eyes and say what you feel, and say what you want.
2006-10-21 14:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want, like Harder harder.
2006-10-21 15:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋