Iasked question awhile back and gave him the benifit of the doubt,but recently found condoms in his pocket again, and now he told me they were his friends. I think I am a fool Any one Please Help Me
2006-10-21 14:51:33 · 27 answers · asked by Sariee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's a cheater. I would not put up with the lying and cheating anymore. And no, you are not a fool. It's hard to think that someone you love so much and is supposed to love you back would do such a thing. If you do whats best for you and leave, he'll be the one feeling like a fool..
2006-10-21 15:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once he got away with it he decided to work the same thing again. How many guys keep track of their friends' condoms? You know what is going on - you just don't want to see it.
Time to take a good look at your life. Is this how you want to live it? I had to start over at the age of 42 with two children. It wasn't easy, but it sure beat living with a cheater. Now my kids are grown and I have met my true soul mate. I could never have found this happiness if I had keep my cheating husband instead of divorcing him.
2006-10-21 22:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe u r and please don't be offended. Everybody plays a fool sometime in their life. But in your situation you definetly need to be asking some questions and forget that whole thing about "it's my friends". Come on thats a bunch of bull. Guys don't hold onto condoms for each other. They carry it around for themselves and their use of it. Open ur eyes up missy poo he may be cheatin on u.
Hope everything works out.
2006-10-21 21:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him any benefit of a doubt! He is getting it somewhere else than home. No friend carries around condoms for a another friend. I cannot believe he told you this. I cannot believe you accepted his deceit.
You two need to talk. Get marriage counseling too!
2006-10-21 21:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, pls., you know the answer. He's a liar and a bad one. You must love him and want very badly to believe him but don't.
Why, logically, would any man carry another man's condoms for him? He wouldn't.
I do wonder why he'd let himself get caught with condoms more than once.
Be firm with him. Say he must be truthful AND faithful or it's over. Your health and marriage are too important.
It's his fault for cheating. It's your fault for letting yourself be lied to.
Best to you.
2006-10-21 21:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more doubt. Obviously from what you say there is no reason for him to have them? Then, what a fool HE is - you are definitely not the fool. Talk to him about it, if you are not satisfied and if he just keeps lying - time to do something about it. So sorry, girl!
2006-10-22 06:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife had a habit of going through my stuff and the cars all the time. I bought some condoms and hid them in my car. When she found them the accusations started to fly. I never told her about me planting them to catch her snooping.
2006-10-21 22:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to hire a real professional detective. So if you have to go through a divorce, you will have the evidents beyond reasonable doubt in adultery to win your case.
2006-10-21 21:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't use them with you then he is using them somewhere. he's not in middle school anymore so they are not his friends condoms. thats the dumbest excuse i have ever heard. yes, you are a fool if you believe that
s hit.
2006-10-22 00:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by krystal s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally would wonder why is he holding his friends codoms. Was he going to follow his friend as he did the act. I would talk to him about it calmly. Everything that is done in dark will come to light. Don't sweat it!
2006-10-21 22:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋