allright well theres these two girls ive been intrested in for awhile i dated one and am now intrested in the other. the girl im intrested in has a boyfriend but her and i have been keeping up with this banter for awhile now and she seems to be intrested in me but im not quite sure how to approch this i usualy have a rule to never go after any one with a boyfriend or significant other and never to date friends but so far she has broken every other rule ive had i dont want ot hurt the other girl but also i dont want to mess with there friendship so help would be appreciated
2006-10-21 14:48:30 · 5 answers · asked by pow_neverforgotten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok first i might be a guy but you see she is the first real girl that i have been able ot sit down and have a real intellectual conversation with her personality fits jsut to well and her friend and i had a bit of a falling out over something morally wrong that she did
2006-10-21 15:13:12 · update #1
depends on how long the girls been friends? and how close they are. well, either way they're not going to be friends. did she break up with you or you break up with her?
2006-10-21 14:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by questioner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm ok, I'm going to work this one out as I answer. It should be interesting.
First issue-her and her friend...You need to evaluate how close they are to each other. Keep in mind that girls usually talk about everything (ever watch sex in the city?). Is there some bad stuff her friend could have told her about you? More important than whether you would date the friend of your ex, would she date the ex of her friend!? This is something you first need to evaluate.
Next, the issues of bf's are REALLY complicated. You need to be really honest with yourself in this field. Don't try to flatter yourself, you absoultely have to know one way or another whether she likes you or not. Girls have a habit of being attatched to their bf's no matter how crappy they are. Is he an ___ or is he someone that bores her (too nice, wishy washy, etc.). Best advice, start flirting with her and see how she responds to this.
Last, you're concerned about hurting your ex's feelings. This all depends on how attatched she was to you and the terms of the breakup. There is a good chance that by dating her friend she might be pissed at her, but then again, if she didn't like you mutch, she might just tell her friend bad stuff about you when the friend asks whether she should break up with the bf for you.
Best of luck!
2006-10-21 22:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had to be a guy......are you trying to prove something or what?? you trying to prove that you could date both girls if you want to? you want to prove that you can break up a couple?? Leave the girl alone, she has someone, and she probably doesn't like you, since she has a boyfriend......Go find someone else......you are so selfish, leave the 2 friends keep being friends, and let that girl keep her boyfriend, she is with him, she must have some feelings for him.....Jeez, all you guys always want to screw every single girl, grow up.....
2006-10-21 21:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone. She has a boyfriend, and it would not be good to come between friends.
2006-10-21 21:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no wait. if she lieks u then shell dump other guy for u. just make it known to both of them u like her
2006-10-21 21:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by watev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋