We broke up after 1yr 5months becuz she started drinkin nd smoking. Soon after she kept messaging/calling me telling me she missed and lovd me.She said she would wait for me even tho i told her i didnt know if or wen i wuld go bak to her nd quit smoking.A week ago she tells me shes over me after 5months. Now shes been dating this guy a couple days later and it hurt me alot so then i realized that i always loved her and i missed her.i told her to comeback to me but she wont becuz she says shes having fun and hes difrent. I told her its always fun in the begining and she should just come back to me becuz i love her nd i never wronged her.So wat ive been pretty much doing is reminding her of past fond memories so maybe she would realize to stop wasting her time and comeback to me.she waitd for me now im waiting for her. So now im feeling wat she had to go through and its terrible. Wat shuld i do to get her back? or should i just wait it out? shes only been w/him for a wk
2006-10-21 14:58:13 · 3 answers · asked by underoathprophet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you've heard this saying time and time again "there are more fish in the sea". I used to be in your shoes, but one thing you will learn is that one person is not all there is to your life.
As guys, we tend to get in a "possessive mode" when someone else has what we use to have, whether she left, or we left. The fact that another man is now in the picture has kicked in that male "its mine" mode. You broke off with her because of her developed bad habits, and was ok with everything when it looked like she was pining over you. As soon as she found fun in the arms of another man, all of a sudden the breakup didn't seem like a good idea. It's not love driving you, it's jealousy.
Best advice, leave her alone and let time take care of everything. The more you beg, the more she probably will view you in a much less light. Let her have her fun. You move on and do your own. What will be will be, and what won't, just won't be.
When you start doing your own thing, you will get a more honest view on your feelings for her. You may be surprised on how much you may not really be attracted to her. How much the reasons you left her are actually the reasons you will not want her back.
2006-10-21 15:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rugah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i only read the first sentence - your are p u s s y whipped and being a wussy snap out of it - she is not better then you and there are 3 billion woman out there
if she wanted to be with you - she would be
please go into your bathroom - look in the mirror and say I AM A BIG CRYBABY WUSSY!!
It goes against logic but the faster you forget about her and replace with a million other girls the faster SHE will come running back to you - and then - trust me - you won't even want her.
Be a man - we have all been there! I have been to biggest suck a s s wussy i know - cried over girls - wrote them poetry - all kinds of stuff - it hurt my manhood - woman ran from me - they resent little wussy boys BIGTIME!
Stand for your own worth man - you are the s h i t - the king of the freakin jungle! Now start acting like it!!!!
2006-10-21 15:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a lil more time,n if it looks like she's really movin on then jus let it go n move on 2.it makes no sense wastin ur time,casue time wasted can neva b regain ,i mean u prolly really luv her,but think about it,is it really luv?
2006-10-21 15:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋