Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

in september we got into a fight and she asked if the relationship was working out and i said yes Two weeks later we got into a fight and didnt speak for a week After we got back together she said she might be pregnant knowing that i did not want a baby In May she told me she had a hard time conceiving due to her daughters birth and that she was on the pill One night we talked and i told her we need to see a doctor to see if she is pregnant and she needed to quit smoking If she didnt i wouldnt help her out if she smoked. she hung up on me The next day she called twice and was as nice as can be Later on my way to meet her for dinner she started antagonizing me calling me names and i told her i wasnt going to meet her for dinner if she kept this up so i told her i would call her later She called back upset and i told her i was tired of her antagonizing me She asked what are you saying and i said to stop picking fights with me She said i dont have time for this and hung up.

2006-10-18 14:08:39 · 24 answers · asked by drisco21 1 in Singles & Dating

We are still together, and making things work, I just need help to forget, and forgive, and stop holding it in my heart. It hurts so much. I want to get rid of it.
I just dont know how.

2006-10-18 14:07:56 · 28 answers · asked by zxgirl04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not soliciting
have sex w/me and do it anal style
make out
and have aregular relationship

im not trying to be perverted and i know thats the way this is coming off but anyway

im 16 6'2" 240 of muscle football player

and if it makes a differance im 6.5 inches

2006-10-18 14:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by d93end 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for almost four years. i love him, there is no doubt about that but in high school i drank waayy too much one night and slept with another guy. i regret that more than anything. two years later he does the exact same thing to me. he slept with a girl that he had promised me was just a friend. they hang out every weekend and she is constantly texting him. he works with her and he wont leave his job. ive forgiven him for sleeping with her cuz i understand but he wont stop talking to her and he works with her all of the time. it makes me feel like ****. when i try and talk to him about it he completely brushes it off, it's like he doesn't even close to regret doing it. does he have feelings for her? what the hell? he had been hooking up with her when he and i broke up for a few months and then when we get back together he sleeps with her? should i stay with him? he wants to move in together but i don't trust him and he isn't doing anything to help that.

2006-10-18 14:07:27 · 27 answers · asked by justme 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes Im asking this question twice, im looking for more feedback.

We are both adults, and just recently hung out for the first time, just the two of us. We had a blast. And he told me I can calle him whenever i want too. The thing is, should I be the one to call him? I heard men are getting more insecure and scared to make the first move lately.. Should I call? and how soon?

2006-10-18 14:07:23 · 8 answers · asked by Indiana Jonas 4 in Singles & Dating

what do you like in girls???---in there personality or there apperance----thanx

2006-10-18 14:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 14:07:03 · 9 answers · asked by La Femme 2 in Singles & Dating

PJ's? underwear? nothing?

2006-10-18 14:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i get my mom to treat me like more of an adult, which includes not being grounded

2006-10-18 14:06:46 · 7 answers · asked by makemesomefuncookies 2 in Family

if there is a guy that is ur friend and u guys act like u r brother and sister but u like him how do u know if he likes u 2 and how do u tell him or whould u help me please? !!!!

2006-10-18 14:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I Love this girl whos been my bestfriend for a while and tonight I'm going to tell her how I feel. Anyone have any good/romantic things to say that could make her love me? Any advice. Please help

2006-10-18 14:05:18 · 9 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got married last month and I still guilty about this today: I have 3 siblings and my sister was the MOH and my younger bro was an usher. My older brother was not in the wedding because I already had enough ushers. So I asked him if he would be my music man for the ceremony since it was outside, but he rejected. Given that, it was time for pictures and we were all so rushed that we didn't even get a family shot on my side of the family. Therefore, my big bro was barely included in my wedding at all. I still feel so much regret that I bought him football tickets to a game a couple weeks ago. Should I feel like the biggest ***** in the world? I tried to include him. The day just didn't go as planned. I know he felt bad too because he cried when he danced with me during the dollar dance. During the reception, my mom kept telling me "Go talk to your brother" And all I wanted to do was have fun because it was my wedding night. Any thoughts on this? I can't quit feeling bad.

2006-10-18 14:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by Lacey 1 in Weddings

i was just wondering if this was a good way to tell a girl to like her...would it be wrong if i told you i liked you?...or...wat would u say if i told you i liked you..which one is better..and if u dont like either give me a good way to tell her..

2006-10-18 14:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by cold_killa 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I live together .Been together 7 months he tells me he loves me but says he isnt ready for a commitment right now . he is 36 i am 31 i have never been married and i am ready to settle and i am confused please help me

2006-10-18 14:03:49 · 33 answers · asked by aquaris01975 3 in Singles & Dating

Well we dated for about a year, and it ended because of several reasons including my parent being against the relationship, a little negligence on my part, busy schedules. We have recently started "dating/talking" again. She recently revealed to me she still loves me, and I love her too. But this time around she doesnt seem as affectionate, well at times, idk. But we are two hours apart and only get to see each other every so often. what should i do?

2006-10-18 14:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by Ja p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 14:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by mandi_star86 1 in Friends

Okay well my friend Kelsey (she is 2 years older than me) likes my older brother! Tonight she told me that she does drugs and cuts herself! My brother and My friend Ben both know! I told my mom and she is going 2 talk 2 Her mom about it! Did i do the right thing? What if she did it just to get attention! She cried when she told me this! Please give me advice and when she finds out i told some1 she is gonna be mad at me!

2006-10-18 14:02:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my friend a;ways gets jelous of me!!!! i cant ell her anythingthat makes m e happy like if i say that im going to disneyland tommorrow she'll just change the subject!!! i hate that abouut her please i need sum friends advice hela fast!!!! before its to late!!!!

2006-10-18 14:01:57 · 4 answers · asked by funnyfun92 1 in Friends

I love my boyfriend, we have our good moment, but like every couple we have our down ones. Lately he is doing really stupid stuff and being VERY annoying. (climbing bridges and such) Our winter dance is coming up and I am going, with or without him. He doenst want to do claming that 15 dollars is to expensive and that he would rather go to another schools which NEITHER of us attend! How do I get him to get his head out of his butt and focus on the REAL world?

2006-10-18 14:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it because dick is nickname for richard and thats what he is?

2006-10-18 14:00:49 · 31 answers · asked by boobooshonee 1 in Family

my friend shes way to dramatic what do i tell her to shut up!!! its like every day she likes a new GUY. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

2006-10-18 14:00:29 · 5 answers · asked by Lilly L 1 in Friends

When I am at school he is alwayslooking at me and it seems he wants to ask me out or be my boyfriend!
HELP! I NEED ADVICE!

2006-10-18 14:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Friends

Like when in the showers after football or when going to the bathroom at a club? I never deliberately look, sometimes when someone is walking around in front of you it is impossible, but I always catch people looking at me, and most have girlfriends. Is it just an interest thing? Comparing? Tell me why

2006-10-18 13:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on that guy that I see every week. 2 days ago he invited me to his party. Then he sent me the invitation and I replied yesterday by asking him out since we always talk in my office...He has not replied yet. I am mortified. He indirectly told me that he was single and not gay....Why does he act like that? He always compliments me, we seem to have a great connection. I need some advice and help.

2006-10-18 13:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Singles & Dating

i gave up my career in banking to become a stay at home mom 5 years ago. now my husband works out of town.....and i am always alone. i cannot afford to leave. i am bitter and cannot go like this any longer. i am not in love anymore. but i do not want to escape into a new relationship. i just want to move on and be on my own. any suggestions?

2006-10-18 13:58:36 · 40 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im so close to just IMing this guy and bieng like "dude.. i love you" it feels like im flirting like insane and he doesnt notice me. i really dont know what to do. what do i say? i love you, you idiot.

2006-10-18 13:57:21 · 13 answers · asked by lees 2 in Singles & Dating

Meand my friend Shanna always get in fights. But this one is kinda bad. I kicked her and another friend out of my house cause they were making me upset at my party. Like 3 ,momths or more and she is still upset. And now she is telling people she could have gotten gang raped an other things with a .1 chance of happening and got a friend of mine to think that I was klinda horribel. But she is over reacting. So we were talking once and she told me she had been lieing for a while about me and her being close friends and turns out im like 3-6 on her list after other people who she gets infights with. But she says theres arent as bad as ,mine so she will forgive them easier. What do I do just dump her as a friend or try to make up?

2006-10-18 13:57:09 · 3 answers · asked by Shelby E 1 in Friends

ok so there is this guy i like and he is really hot. I hug him sometimes and he really nice to me and sometimes flirts with me. he stares at me alot and i really want to go out with him. one of my friends is going to find out who he likes..... wat if he doesnt like me and my friend screws up and then things between us would just be akward? wat would i do?

2006-10-18 13:56:07 · 14 answers · asked by lovely brunette 1 in Singles & Dating

THINKING



SEATING THINKING ABOUT THE DAY WE MET
AND THE TIME W E SHARED TOGETHER IT’S HURTING MORE THEN EVER.



CRYING ISNT BRINGING YOU BACK ITS JUST MAKING ME SADER.
THINKING ABOUT THE DAY I SEE U WITH SOME OTHER GURL
IS MAKING MY LOVE FOR YOU STRONGER.
BUT LIKE I SAID SEATING THINKING ABOUT THE DAY WE MET
AND THE TIME WE SHARED TOGETHER IT’S HURTING MORE THEN EVER.


NEVER SEENING YOU WAS ALWAYS A PROMBLEM.
BUT I TRUSTED U.
I TRUSTED U WITH MY HEART MY SOUL AND WORLD.
YOU WERE ONE WHO MEANT SO MUCH TO ME.
AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE IM LOSING OR ALREADY LOST ONE OF THE BEST THINGS TO ME.
BUT SOMETIME S I JUST SEAT AND SEATING LEADS TO THINKING.
ABOUT THE DAY WE MET THE TIME WE HAD, THE LOVE WE SHARED
AND THE TIMES WE LAUGHED TOGETHER ITS HURTING ME MORE THEN EVER.


PRAYING IS ALL I CAMN DO TO HOPEFULLY SAY I CAN COME BACK TO U.
FOR THE LOVE 9I HAVE FOR U WILL FOREVER BE TRUE.
I LOVE U AND WONT U TO FEEL THE SAME.
BUT HOW CAN I DO ANYTHING TO GET U YOU BACK WHEN ALL I DO IS SEAT.
AND THINKING BECOMES ABOUT US AND THE DAY WE MET.
THE TIME WE SHARED AND THE TIMES WE LAUGHED TOGETEHR
ITS HURTING MORE THEN EVER.


By: GWNEQ
1/28/06


D:Marcus

2006-10-18 13:55:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive got a 28 year old guy friend i think he likes me we're even going out next week! I'm afraid to tell him I'm a virgin (he's had a lot of women)! Will he laugh at me or will he like it? Or am i jumping the gun should i wait to tell him for a while?

2006-10-18 13:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating