Why he did not get back to me?

Question

I have a crush on that guy that I see every week. 2 days ago he invited me to his party. Then he sent me the invitation and I replied yesterday by asking him out since we always talk in my office...He has not replied yet. I am mortified. He indirectly told me that he was single and not gay....Why does he act like that? He always compliments me, we seem to have a great connection. I need some advice and help.

Answer 1

you need to go up your self and ask him whats up and find out instead of wondering . why put yourself through that .

Answer 2

Hi Frenchie,

You have nothing to worry about. You did a very brave thing because it is not often that a woman invites a man out. Good for you. I would suggest for the future though to talk to the guy rather then send an email. Because you never really know if he really got the email/messenger.
He could have deleted it by mistake.
Then there is the famous saying (but very very very true statement that we sometimes forget in the heat of the moment when we feel attracted to some guy) There are many fish in the sea. There are so many men out there, that you should not attach yourself to someone who is not absolutely amazing and makes you feel good. Anything short of that is a big NO.

Good luck and I hope he will answer soon, god bless you.

Answer 3

Maybe he is only intrested in you as a friend or maybe he is just playing hard to get. You should just call him up to see where things stand between the two of you. I have found going directly to the source is the best way of getting a straight answer.

Answer 4

He propabley dosen't know what to say if he likes you. But if he wants to say no then he dosen't want to see you get hurt.

Answer 5

maybe no guts

Answer 6

he hates you