Well we dated for about a year, and it ended because of several reasons including my parent being against the relationship, a little negligence on my part, busy schedules. We have recently started "dating/talking" again. She recently revealed to me she still loves me, and I love her too. But this time around she doesnt seem as affectionate, well at times, idk. But we are two hours apart and only get to see each other every so often. what should i do?
2006-10-18 14:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by Ja p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well we dated for about a year, and it ended because of several reasons including my parent being against the relationship, a little negligence on my part, busy schedules. We spent the entire summer just being friends until about two or three weekds ago. We have recently started "dating/talking" again. She recently revealed to me she still loves me, and I love her too. But this time around she doesnt seem as affectionate, well at times, idk. But it has been growing as the days go by, she seems to reveal herself more to me everyday. But we are two hours apart and only get to see each other every so often. what should i do?
2006-10-18 14:11:13 · update #1
The reason why I cannot move closer is because I am a full scholarship football player, and I have to live on campus :(
2006-10-18 14:16:34 · update #2
Just try to be friends for a while. Your relationship will appear to you later on whether or not ya'll should be together.
2006-10-18 14:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say for sure, but maybe she is hesitant because of your family interferring and there is the distance thing also which makes it very hard, not impossible, but hard. She may have reservations about getting back with you because of all the past things. You can love someone but have reservations because of outside influences. You need to talk to her and if it's meant to be, why not move 1 hour closer to each other.
2006-10-18 14:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would still see other ppl.. it could be that ur not involed at the moment and neither is she, so u guys keep goin back to each other... i think shes just bored and so are u... theres a reason why it didnt wk the 1st time... move on...
2006-10-18 14:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by soldiersgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are your priorities --- her or your life without her --- are you willing to move to be closer???
If you are not prepared to make some changes to the relationship where do think its going???
If you want to be friends then do so if you both want a deeper relationship you need to discuss it
2006-10-18 14:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time...she'll come around. She's reluctant because no doubt she doesn't want to get hurt again. Time will tell. You'll know.
2006-10-18 14:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its worth all the hastle i would move on if she is lovey douby towards u anymore
2006-10-18 14:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dauski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then stay with her
2006-10-18 14:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋