ok so there is this guy i like and he is really hot. I hug him sometimes and he really nice to me and sometimes flirts with me. he stares at me alot and i really want to go out with him. one of my friends is going to find out who he likes..... wat if he doesnt like me and my friend screws up and then things between us would just be akward? wat would i do?
2006-10-18 13:56:07 · 14 answers · asked by lovely brunette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, now he is like completly ignoring me!!! wat the hell did my friend do? tomaorw is the dance and i really want him to ask me out.... HELLPPPPP PLZ wat should ido? and idont want stupid answers
2006-10-19 12:21:06 · update #1
Are you sure this guy is the right one?
Just because he is so hot dosen't mean you need to go out with him? But those are signals that he is flirting so I would just go and ask yourself if he likes you. Guys like bravery in a girl. I found my guy and I have been with him for two years and he is perfect!
2006-10-18 13:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by hangmeinpearls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid that your friend might mess things up, then it's best you do it yourself.
I think he likes you already, if he's hugging and staring at you, so just be casual, and ask him, if he'd like to see a movie with you sometime.
Maybe just a burger and fries somewhere simple. If he likes you, and it seems so, that's an easy first step.
It's not the end of the world, if he doesn't like you as much as you like him. You can still be friends. It shouldn't be awkward at all.
2006-10-18 21:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what kinda happened to me my friend kinda got things screwed up she told him i like him and he said he doesn't like me that way just as friends but now everything is ok because i talk to him on his cell phone now and the first time we talked he wouldn't really talk he would stay quiet so the second time i called him that's what i did i stayed quiet and he asked me how come your so quiet and i think he may like me cause he was asking me questions trying to get to know me better and he had to hang up cause he said his brother is going to call him but then he said he doesn't want to hang up so we didn't and then he did have to hang up and before we did he told me to call him back in 5 minutes. So what i am trying to say is try and get his phone number so you can talk to him and try and straighten things out
2006-10-18 21:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, finding out the guy that you really like doesnt like you back, if he does then dont be shy ask him out strait away, but if he doesnt then see what kind of girl he likes and try your best to be her
2006-10-18 21:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Birds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah! to be young again!! You will expeience this several times in your life. I think its a good learning experience. I think if he doesn't like you and finds out that you like him, that will make him perk up to noticing you more! I don't think it would be akward, just another opportunity!! Good luck!
2006-10-18 21:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lovies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, guys have less patience that you girls, keep being yourself and if he likes you, he wont wait around!
Sending friends in to do your dirty work is never the best of ideas, its childish! show him you have confedence and talk to him yourself! use text messeges or IM/e-mail as it can remove alot of the fear and embaresment from the sittuation and people tend to open up!
Good luck !!
2006-10-18 21:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it feels awkward after that happens then talk things out and tell him how you really feel instead of having some one else do it and ask him if hes all right with it if hes not then go on about your business
2006-10-18 21:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel about him relationships starts with the truth but if he is dating someone than that might piss of his gf so if hes dating someone than that might make it akward
2006-10-18 20:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Dauski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like a boy and you know he likes you and your to nervous to ask him out ask some of your friends to that worked for me
2006-10-18 21:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Brittney A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez grow up..if u like him give him a little look or a nice smile..we usually know when a girl likes us and then let him do the rest...unless u want him to play with you, then stare at him and show all your cards..come on girl..
2006-10-18 20:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by jmol72001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋