Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

okay..
this guy i've known since 2nd grade (my little brother's best friend's big brother--i kno, confusing) asked me out yesterday. He said (and this is the important part) "Are you free on Sunday? Because if you are, maybe you can go to the movies with me?" But, of course, being the weirdly-shy girl that I am, i said, "I'm not sure, maybe.", because... well, to be honest, i didnt know why i that. because i've had a crush on his since like, 5th grade. but i DID say that.
and so then, when i got home, and went on my AIM account and asked one of the guy's best friends if he thought i shud go out with him. he said, "i dunno, maybe." and so then, i went offline and went i went back on, the guy's bff IMed me and said, "he didn't ask you out. he just wanted to go to the movies."

and then, now, i'm really confused. because the way he said it, a girl wud think he was asking you out. and yet he says he didn't. maybe he was embarassed to admit to his friends that he got rejected? HELP!

2006-10-18 14:33:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 14:33:16 · 8 answers · asked by babygyrl19832000 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating someone we get along great he is 36 and I am 31. He was in a long distance relationship and ended that.However she texts him still. He has been totally honest with me about this ..he seperated from his wife in 2003 ..we had a talk last night he is not ready to commit right now ..he tells me he loves me " i know he does" he said he wants to see where we will go ..but doesnt want to commit ..ok i am confused " we have been dating since march pleasewise ones give me advice

2006-10-18 14:33:08 · 19 answers · asked by aquaris01975 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I find myself logging on to YA just to see if this goddess "impeccable_tayst" is logged on too. I think I am falling for her, I lie awake at night thinking about her, she seems to know me so well even though we have never met. Can an online relationship work? Even a slightly weird one?

2006-10-18 14:32:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is disrespectful, unsupportive, and selfish?

2006-10-18 14:32:56 · 11 answers · asked by traci s 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

For some reason, whenever I get close to people they start calling me names , or telling me to shut up. Doesn't this piss you off? People telling you to shut up? I don't know how I can make them stop. Please help

2006-10-18 14:32:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well he left, so that he can find a job but all of a sudden he told me that he doesnt wanna come back, he wants to take us over there. and i relly dont wana go over there! and i really need some help so that i can now wat to do!!! plz give me some advice!!

2006-10-18 14:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by sexygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have noticed that alot of prople on here are young like still at school asking stuff about relationships??? why you guys are young go with the flow you have your whole life ahead of you.

2006-10-18 14:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he says i mess with too many dudes....he likes me but want 2 wait till the middle of the school year..every time he gets really mad at me he calls me a hoe or i'm turning into one

2006-10-18 14:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by num1lovagurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been involed with this guy for two years now, yes i do love him very much but the thing is that he lives abroad and hardly keep in touch with me. He says he loves me but i don't feel that way and what's more hurtfull is that his sis bestfriend likes him and he is falling for her but he keep saying that he loves me and he want to be with me. How could i belive him, should i move on?

2006-10-18 14:31:13 · 9 answers · asked by Keisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I date this guy for almost 2 years. From the first time we went out until now I am still not sure about sexuality. I dated many guys before him and I’ve never felt this way about any of them. My boyfriend really cares about his appearance. He is not reach but he buys his clothes from Gucci store. He loves interior designing. His favorite TV channel is HDTV. He likes Pet Shop Boys,Depeche Mode and disco music from 80's..There is something in the way he act sometimes, that makes me wonder whether he is gay or not. He also avoids sex with me. We have sex every other weekend. It takes him about 5 minutes...I don’t feel he is attracted to me. We never make love. We just have quick sex sometimes. It is like that from the very begining of our relationship.I dont enjoy having sex with him.There is something missing in it.He is often angry and yells all the time. He blows up for no apparent reason. I feel like maybe he feels guilty inside so he reacts with anger. Please help.

2006-10-18 14:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do women always go on about how men should treat a women like a women? i.e open car doors, move the seat out for her, pay for them going out, make the first move etc..

Yet those same women don't want to do what the same sterotype says women should i.e cook, clean etc..

I think it's only fair if women want treated like women then men should be treated like men.

2006-10-18 14:29:52 · 21 answers · asked by dif f 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm not cheating.
nothing. im not even flirting.

should i just end it?

i mean, i don't want to be cold hearted
i just hate a guy who
accuses me of cheating
dayin and dayout.

thank you for your
advise and opinions.

xtegan

2006-10-18 14:29:49 · 27 answers · asked by xtegx 1 in Singles & Dating

my brothers freind might like me but i don't know why he won't ask me out already.help me please

2006-10-18 14:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I spoke to this guy that I have a crush on and who has a girl, I told him that im upset because I cant call him when i want to or see him when i want to. So he said he knows how i feel, so then i asked him what should I do about it and thats when he told me that i have to decide for myself and let him know tomm. But see the problem is that he's confusing me, 1st he tells me because he doesn't have a ring hes not taken and he came to me 1st. Hes the one with the other person, but yet he wants me to choose what i wanna do. I really like him alot and I don't not want to talk to him, but I dont wanna get hurt either. What should I do plz help I have until tomm morn to figure out what im gonna do...

2006-10-18 14:28:46 · 4 answers · asked by minnie26ny 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at school i like and i think she might like me weve talked a couple times and i want to ask her to maybe get some coffee this weekend should i ask her or what

2006-10-18 14:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by bill m 1 in Singles & Dating

She was a cow. i picked an expensive place to meet her thinking she was hot. I tried to be polite but regretted it. I only ate with her because I was dressed up. After dessert, I went to the bathroom and snuck out and she got stuck with the check. Now the fat load leaves me angry e-mails complaining and saying I left her and she didn't have enough money and it was a problem. How can I block her?

2006-10-18 14:28:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K How old do you have to be to get birth control and is there one that works better than others???

2006-10-18 14:28:10 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

High school and middle school to be specific, what do u look for in a girl how should she dress, act
clothes, accessories, attitude, after school activites, makeup, hair

2006-10-18 14:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how to get along well with a girl?

2006-10-18 14:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by ctruth 1 in Friends

2006-10-18 14:27:33 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not all that good at trash talking when someone says something about me then i don't know really what to say. Are people naturally a good trash talker or do they always get trash talked on and they're just used to it? HELP ME OUT! plz

2006-10-18 14:27:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ladies only please

2006-10-18 14:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really understand anothers "quirks" . I have been seeing someone for a couple years off and on. Nothing dead serious......but.........just when I think I have her figured out its like suddenly I dont. Does this ever change?

2006-10-18 14:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 14:25:59 · 5 answers · asked by jmol72001 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so theres this guy that i really like alot but i cant find the right words to tell him I like him i really dont want to mess up are freidnship but i really really like him and everythime im around him i just love it but i dont know how to tell him hes not the normal preppy boy hes a country boy and he takes things differnt so how do i tell him that im falling for him badly

2006-10-18 14:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known him for a year and the two of us are really really close but I wonder if he does want to be more than friends,but im afraid to ask. My friends think were going out anyways but I want thid dream to become a reality....

2006-10-18 14:24:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my husband very much. i really do. but i love the idea of flirting and do it every chance i get. i get a thrill out of the idea of sleeping with another man....does anyone else feel this way?

2006-10-18 14:24:18 · 35 answers · asked by don't mind me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

No I'm not desperate, no I'm not under the influence of any drugs and/or alcohol, (well, not yet anyway).
Just curious.

2006-10-18 14:23:59 · 31 answers · asked by Sentinel 3 in Singles & Dating

Do your feel that your relationship is better because of your trust in God???? Do you go to church together??? Explain!!!

****I truly think so, im just curious about others on here.Thanks****

2006-10-18 14:22:35 · 12 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce