She was a cow. i picked an expensive place to meet her thinking she was hot. I tried to be polite but regretted it. I only ate with her because I was dressed up. After dessert, I went to the bathroom and snuck out and she got stuck with the check. Now the fat load leaves me angry e-mails complaining and saying I left her and she didn't have enough money and it was a problem. How can I block her?
2006-10-18 14:28:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so are you fat and ugly too? well i hope you will be later just because shes fat and you obviously liked her for her personality asking to meet her and everything now youre a jerk. Go away
2006-10-18 14:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, similar situation. You meet the girl and she's nothing like you expected. But if you decided to go through with having dinner, you should have stuck it out instead of sticking her with the check. If your intent was to be nice, you undid it and then some by taking off like you did.
I had dinner with the girl I had been talking to on a chat line. She was good company. I paid and then wished her a good night. You should have too. Damage controltime now. Why not explain that you were confused about how to handle an uncomfortable situation and tell her you just aren't interested but are no less VERY DEEPLY sorry for hurting her. Your call as to whether you should offer to send her the money for the check.
2006-10-18 21:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just rude. Why would you assume she was hot?? Did she say she was? I can understand your dissappointment, but you made the date, so you should've at least followed through with it, and then ended the relationship. You are sort of responsible yourself for finding out more about someone before making an expensive date with them. I guess you've learned that much from this anyway! Better luck next time.
2006-10-18 21:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is mean for what you did,...First of all any people can lie online because it's easy and to be something that they are not... Second, you are the one who assume that she is hot and you didn't ask her to see her picture or at least see her online.,... You should be decent enough to stay through dinner and when the check comes spilt it and leaves and never see her again instead scram... Now just create a new account with a new name or just ignore her mail.......
2006-10-18 21:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure how you block her emails, maybe you should post a question saying only that, but if you're going to meet people from here and you're going to be shallow minded, at least get a photo of them first so you know if you like the look of them otherwise you're wasting their time too. i'm sure she's just as pissed off as u, especially since she got the bill. funny story tho but if i was fat i probably wouldnt think so!
2006-10-18 21:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to quit the insults and just tell her look I am not attracted to you, you are not what I thought if she says is it because I am fat. I would say personally yes. You seem like a nice person, but physically I don't see it going anywhere because I am not attracted to you
2006-10-18 21:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I can't tell you how to block her, I can tell you that you need to be careful how you treat people because it's bad karma. What goes around comes around. When screening prospective dates, you should require an up-to-date photo and perhaps arrive for the date well in advance to check it out...
2006-10-18 21:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by love,peace&happiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that was so drrty!!!!! I don't care how fat a chick is you don't do stupid shyt like that. But n/t/wayz you can just call her or meet her face-to-face and let her know how you really feel in a mature manner.
2006-10-18 21:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Aleria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard of ignore? clicking delete? i think it serves you right! lol you shouldve known better, or shouldve at least asked her if she was fat or not. and if you did, then well she deserved to get left with the check for playing you. good luck!
2006-10-18 21:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanniegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're an *ss......how dare you screw her over like that just b/c she wasn't your idea of a "hottie"......you need to get with her and pay her back for the meal as well as for hurt feelings....I hope other girls stay away from you for that.....its sad that in this day and age we still have jerks like you in this world.......
2006-10-18 21:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋