i'm not cheating.
nothing. im not even flirting.
should i just end it?
i mean, i don't want to be cold hearted
i just hate a guy who
accuses me of cheating
dayin and dayout.
thank you for your
advise and opinions.
xtegan
2006-10-18 14:29:49 · 27 answers · asked by xtegx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have fourbrothers. i grew up around the boys.
i skate with them. drink. party
2006-10-18 14:34:36 · update #1
He's like that because you're too good for him and he knows it. Leave him before he starts becoming possesive and psychotic..
2006-10-18 14:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you may think you're not flirting....but sometimes it can look like it especially to a boyfriend who has insecuritues. My man used to be the same & it just ends up getting worse. I looked at your photo and you seem to not be shy of showing off your looks - so he probably fears that every other guy thinks you're hot and he may even feel like you don't do anything to try to stop other guys flirting with YOU, like if another dude is obviously perving on you or trying to chat you up....you as a good girlfriend should walk away & not want a bar of him....do you do things like that??? In the end darlin, as i said, the jealousy generally only get's worse, so spell it out for him that he is the only man in your life & he has to trust you.....otherwise....bye bye. Good luck.
2006-10-18 14:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant be "friendly" with your guy friends when you have a boyfriend. Guy can definitely tell when you are flirting. guys knows guys. Just like women knows women. In my opinion you don't have to end it with your guy friends,ask your boyfriend what did you do or says or acts with around your guy friends that makes him jealous and uncomfortable. In the end if you can meet him half way. If you think he's not worth it then don't meet him half way.
2006-10-18 14:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by angelbeauty8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "being friendly with other guys" .. then define "flirting" . What do you do ? .. Maybe he has a right to be upset .. If I was in a serious relationship, I wouldn't mind my girlfriend having friends .. female and male .. but if you are doing it around your boyfriend all the time .. that seems hurtful to him. Move on if you don't like being restricted. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-18 14:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys AND girls get jealous cuz they know what they would do and they are afraid YOU will do the same! If he gets super jealous you might want to ask yourself...does he fall in this category? If you grew up with 4 bro's, it comes natural for you to talk to dudes...cuz we all know with 4 bro's that put even more dudes around you cuz they got friends!
2006-10-18 14:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either your boyfriend is an insecure child or you're not exactly the type of girl a guy can trust. In either case, end the relationship.
2006-10-18 14:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Writer of Truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that is a real picture of you I would think he is trying to keep him all to himself! He could be insecure and knows that you are maybe out of his league. I would let him know that you enjoy being social with both sexes and he needs to accept that. That being said, don't rub his face in it when you are out, spend the major portion of the evening out with him and stoke his ego! If that doesn't work you need to move on.
2006-10-18 14:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Big Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you his possession or girlfriend? The reason that he reacts the way he does is because he's jealous that you spend any time with anyone else.
He's not mature enough for you... Unless he pulls a 180 and starts trusting you, I think you're headed for heartache...
2006-10-18 14:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know if u talk to him about it, well u should and at least he should trust u because with out trust there is no love and having alot of male friends doesn't mean u r cheating. He need to chill out.
2006-10-18 14:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by Keisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please find another guy because anyone who is overpossessive can become dangerous; also, you can start to feel a bit smothered in this kind of unhealthy relationship. The red flag is waving very powerfully here, so STOP this romance immediately. You will be very glad you did.
2006-10-18 14:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous. His jealousy will only get worse. Think long and hard before committing a lifetime to this man.
2006-10-18 14:31:42 · answer #11 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋