i love my husband very much. i really do. but i love the idea of flirting and do it every chance i get. i get a thrill out of the idea of sleeping with another man....does anyone else feel this way?
2006-10-18 14:24:18 · 35 answers · asked by don't mind me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try flirting with your husband. Try bringing the fun back to your marraige. My wife has told me she is leaving me. I am devistated. After working with a marraige theripist I see that we stopped flirting with each other. I stopped dropping litle love note around for her to find. things like that stopped. Not becouse I do not love her as much. Just they slowly stopped. I no longer got the thanks for doing it and slowly stopped. Now she does not feel I love her. I do.
Bring the fun of dating and flirting back to your marraige. Date and flirt with your husband.
2006-10-18 16:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Left Alone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, You are a liar because if you loved your husband "very much" you wouldn't even be thinking these thoughts. If you do cheat then your a liar and a S L U T!!! I hate people like you!!! If you don't want to be with your husband then get a divorce. Then go sleep with who ever you want to..Seconded of all I just need to say one word "guilt" that is what you will be feeling if you do this and you have to live with it for the rest of your life!!!
2006-10-18 14:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a load of judgmental crap from all these yahoos. If it makes you feel any better , I feel the same way. And I'm sure that if most of these yahoos where older and married for many, many, many years they would understand that feeling, and probably understand. So go ahead and fantasize. you might have fun in the process. I do.Oh and by the way . As john paul seems to think, woman need providing for and that's why you love him. that's a bunch of crap. I make twice what my husband makes,and I don't need a provider. also , I do love him . it has nothing to do with love.I think it's about being bored, and needing more attention than your husband can give you.or wants to give you. Mines favorite past time is sleeping.
2006-10-18 14:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by jassy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have thought about sleeping with another woman, because there is nothing in our house.
If you really love your husband, does he know that you want to sleep with another man?
Ask him how would he feel if you slept with another man. That may be the answer you are looking for.
Maybe he wants you to sleep with another man.
Good Luck on your decision.
2006-10-18 14:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. The guilt (if you really do love your husband) would ruin you. It is not worth it. Go to a bar seperately from your husband and "act" like you two just met. Have him dress and act the total opposite of how he does. You, wear a wig, etc. It will appear as you are having sex with a different partner, but you won't be screwing your life up.
2006-10-18 14:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you feel that way then maybe you dont love your husband as much as you would have us or yourself to believe. Flirting serves one purpose and that is to attract people, sleeping with another man could serve the purpose of ending your marriage.
2006-10-18 14:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband now about you fantizing about this? Or have you already done sex with another man? If your just day dreaming about it then it may me all you need to satifiy yourself.
My motto is "the joy of sex", some ppl are just born to want and desire more from one person. It your body the only thing "your own" its yours to discover in which ever way you desire.It also your descertion to allow to be open and tell him what you are thinking and may be it may not be the best thing either. Only you can decide that.
2006-10-18 14:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of people feel like they want to flirt and do something different. But whatever you do, do not act on it!!! Trust me, you make think you want it now, but you will lose the best thing that has probably ever happened to you (ur husband) for just a little fun. Its ok to imagine it, just dont do it!
2006-10-18 14:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all try to tend that way and I feel that's the excitiment behind that you are married and the flirting excites you. I honestly feel if given the chance you wouldn't cross that line.
As married women we need to feel we are still wanted and need those compliments. Our husbands give that to us, but it gets to a point where you feel he has to say it or he will be sleeping on the couch.
2006-10-18 14:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do it all the time too, but when i posted the questions i got bad reviews. go ahead and flirt until your hearts content. I love having fun. if you sleep with someone other then your husband do it for fun no serious attachments
2006-10-18 15:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋