I date this guy for almost 2 years. From the first time we went out until now I am still not sure about sexuality. I dated many guys before him and I’ve never felt this way about any of them. My boyfriend really cares about his appearance. He is not reach but he buys his clothes from Gucci store. He loves interior designing. His favorite TV channel is HDTV. He likes Pet Shop Boys,Depeche Mode and disco music from 80's..There is something in the way he act sometimes, that makes me wonder whether he is gay or not. He also avoids sex with me. We have sex every other weekend. It takes him about 5 minutes...I don’t feel he is attracted to me. We never make love. We just have quick sex sometimes. It is like that from the very begining of our relationship.I dont enjoy having sex with him.There is something missing in it.He is often angry and yells all the time. He blows up for no apparent reason. I feel like maybe he feels guilty inside so he reacts with anger. Please help.
2006-10-18 14:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I asked him 3 times but he denied.He got angry at me.
2006-10-18 14:31:51 · update #1
Dump the guy. It sounds like he's leading you on. Probably one of those guys who needs to show everyone he has a girlfriend because he's trying to hide the fact that he's gay. The same thing happened to my sister years ago. We'd always question this guy's sexuality. A few years after they broke up he started hanging at gay bars and finally had an operation to become a woman.
2006-10-18 14:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well anything is possible, and I am sure you would not be the first person to date a closet case. Being gay myself I might suggest buying a copy of Playgirl and see if it gets any attention from anyone other than yourself. I have know guys to be with women for 15 -20 yrs. and have children before they come out.
Love that Depche Mode myself but not sure that is a gay requirement. I have best friend who is straight and he's all into the Bogey Fever, but even he says he last longer than five minutes.
Girl, if I was you, I might seriously start shopping for a new boyfriend. By your description of the relationship you would only be bettering yourself.
2006-10-18 14:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by yar_tenrag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, the way you position it, he does sound a touch on the gay area. provide it a touch extra time and if he does extra female issues with then you definately sit down him down and ask him flat out without being rude or disrespectful. you do not opt to damage his thoughts, so the perfect element to do is to easily ask him on your human being sweet way. Now don't be very much shocked if he receives offended in the start, the first reaction is in a number of of situations the staggering one. in basic terms tell him that you're literally not attempting to damage his thoughts, you in basic terms opt to carry close the position you adult males stand in relationship sensible. and then in case you sense like the relationship isn't getting any extra constructive, advise friendship. you are able to't flow incorrect with friendship, and there is no longer something like having a gay guy as a buddy. they in a number of of situations make the bestest acquaintances. Oh yea, and in basic terms because a gay perhaps a male cheerleader, that really doesn't make him gay. attempt to imagine in case you spot yet another male cheerleader that possibly he did not make the football team. i desire each and every thing works out for you. God Bless
2016-12-04 23:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say hes gay. but asking people on yahoo wont give you the right answer cuz none of us know him. but clearly you're not happy with him so you shouldnt worry about if hes gay, you should worry about if you should even be in the relationship, gay tendencies or not.
2006-10-18 14:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be gay, or questioning. He could also (sorry to say) just not be attracted to you. My suggestion is that you try to engage him in a non-accusatory way and express to him what you're feeling and why you're feeling it. I hope this helps.
2006-10-18 15:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Selym 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don' t feel right in this relationship, you should just pull back and step out of it. Find a new relationship
2006-10-18 14:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if he is treating you like that you need to leave because you are just a piece of AZz to him as i see it and you really deserve much more you need someone who will love you and treat you right and make love to you don't you want that it sounds to me like you do . so don't stay there and go through that any longer .
2006-10-18 14:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say if your feeling this way then you need to tell him how you feel and ask him why he acts the way he does...if you reallt think that he is gay then ask him if he is and give him the reasons why you think that he is gay
2006-10-18 14:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by num1lovagurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not be gay, but you might not know for a while, if you dont like the sex, and you dont think he likes it, then dont have it, its that simple.
2006-10-18 14:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by jeri b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes
we should chat sometime
mattthemechanic1@yahoo.com
if you want to chat send me a message with ur im please
take care
MATT
2006-10-18 14:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋