Yes Im asking this question twice, im looking for more feedback.
We are both adults, and just recently hung out for the first time, just the two of us. We had a blast. And he told me I can calle him whenever i want too. The thing is, should I be the one to call him? I heard men are getting more insecure and scared to make the first move lately.. Should I call? and how soon?
2006-10-18 14:07:23 · 8 answers · asked by Indiana Jonas 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've always been one to say screw the 2-3 day rule or whatever. If i had the urge to call someone ill call them. It sounds like you two get along well together, so i would think he'd be delighted to receive your call. I personally think girls need to call us guys more because we're always the one having to call, make plans, etc. It's nice to get a call from calls from you girls, shows your interested. Some people may think calling all the time makes you seem desperate, but i say as long as its not 4+ times a day, its all good. So basically, my opinion would be to call whenever you want, to set up your next meeting/date or to just talk it up. He'll probably be happy to hear from you.
2006-10-18 14:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by PhanCsn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're very interested in him and he told you you can call him anytime, then YES call him. He won't mind. He'll probably be turned on by that move from you. The more you speak to him, the more you'll get to know eachother and find eachother more interested. Or maybe not. It's a chance we all have to take in order to meet "the one". Good luck, girl.
2006-10-18 14:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah give a call, come up with some no-pressure activity to have him join you.
I'd say wait a couple days to not look over eagar but less than a week so he doesn't think you're not going to call
2006-10-18 14:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should leave a message, or maybe go out with him once more before you actually call him .maybe you should just lay back and let what comes, come! if hes thinking about the great time you guys had together maybe he'll work up the erve to call you. men are unexplainable.
2006-10-18 14:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he said to call him I would,I know the man I'm seen I made the first move too. good luck and be safe too!
2006-10-18 14:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by linda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're brave enough you should call as soon as possible
2006-10-18 14:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by goobercoolgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want him call him.
2006-10-18 14:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2016-11-06 20:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋