i have been dating this girl for 6 months and i want peoples opinons if she has broken up with me a week ago?

Question

in september we got into a fight and she asked if the relationship was working out and i said yes Two weeks later we got into a fight and didnt speak for a week After we got back together she said she might be pregnant knowing that i did not want a baby In May she told me she had a hard time conceiving due to her daughters birth and that she was on the pill One night we talked and i told her we need to see a doctor to see if she is pregnant and she needed to quit smoking If she didnt i wouldnt help her out if she smoked. she hung up on me The next day she called twice and was as nice as can be Later on my way to meet her for dinner she started antagonizing me calling me names and i told her i wasnt going to meet her for dinner if she kept this up so i told her i would call her later She called back upset and i told her i was tired of her antagonizing me She asked what are you saying and i said to stop picking fights with me She said i dont have time for this and hung up.

Answer 1

Sounds like a real witch to me. If she has hung up on you like 10 million times and then called you back what makes you think she won't do it again? I think she needs you and tell her if you want the relationship to work she needs to be more appreciative.

Answer 2

If you got this girl pregnant, you have the legal and moral responsibility to assist monetarily and emotionally in the raising of this child, whether or not she agrees to quit smoking. When you have sex, you should be using birth control of some sort (male and/or female) and this should be discussed prior to getting together. You are both young and not mature enough to handle a relationship. If you are not having a child with her, you can make the choice of seeing other girls, but with a child, you must maintain a civil relationship with her for the sake of that child. Having a child puts a whole new light on things, and you must grow up and realize that there will be a helpless individual relying on both parents for its care. And don't assume that your parents are going to raise the child; they've raised their children and don't have to raise yours. So get your act together: If there's a baby, deal with it, see a doctor, get counselling through school or public health. If there's no baby, go your separate ways, at least until you can both learn to deal with each other in a relationship. If this sounds harsh, then that's how life gets when children try to be adults when they are not equipped emotionally to do so. Good luck.

Answer 3

Tobacco is very addictive. Being addicted to nicotine is a difficult problem to solve because in an addiction, the substance satisfies the body chemically, and if the body doesn't get the substance, it is distressed. If you put a requirement on her to put her body in distress and threatened to withdraw your support, that could be the reason she became antagonized and unhappy with your "deal." If you keep quiet about the addiction to nicotine, I'm sure she will calm down. If she is pregnant, she needs you unconditional support.

Answer 4

Dr. Phil I'm not, but you wrote a book , so that tells me you really have some feelings for this lady.. You seem a little clingy back off a little, not so far as she thinks your gone, but some space. Just let her know that you think about her.. But if she still treats you like a little boy, take a few more steps back.. Seems you got your heart in a real bad place... It looks tough but if it was meant to be it will be.. Good Luck..

Answer 5

Sounds like shes just really upset. Women aren't very easy to read sometimes. 2 things are happening 1 she is pushing you to leave. riding your back all the time and now telling you she is pregnant. 2 Shes mad as hell, and feels she can speak to you any way she wants ... why?? She has no respect for you as a man. Once the woman looses respect for you.. you'll never get it back ... you need to call and ask her what her intentions are.. be forth-right , a man face her and ask her

Answer 6

i thin so cuz when people in a relationship get in a fight more then once i 2 weeks and then one of them calls u or antagonizes u then that means it's over

Answer 7

If she really is Pregnant you need some proof . How about you buy a pregnacy Test & have her take it . Sounds like she is playing games with you though . If she doesnt have time to talk out problems with y ou then evidently she isnt really concerned about the relationship

Answer 8

sounds like a break up to be, it's been a week?
Even if she does call back she's playing major games with you, unless that's something you really want I'd call it quits.

If she does turn out to be pregnant, be responsible get a blood test and if it's yours help take care of it.

Answer 9

If I were a guy, and I knew I didn't want to be a father, I WOULD NEVER LEAVE BIRTH CONTROL UP TO THE WOMAN! It is just as much your responsibility as it is hers. You can never assume that a woman is on birth control, never. Now look at you, you may have fathered a child with an immature ***** who has no business having another kid. I feel sorry for you. CONDOMS, CONDOMS, CONDOMS!

Answer 10

i think she got a lil tired of the relationship....although it's only been a week but what i think is....she's staying away to see how long she can go without you, just to see if she really needs you there or not! don't be surprise if you get a phone call from her....cause usually we don't miss it til it's gone, if i were you i wouldnt call her....let her call you b/c if she wants to be bothered she knows where to find you....she's just acting like a kid in a candy store that can't get their way....so let her call you.... ppl only think about you when your not around anymore...take care.