Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

Many girls I meet say "I don't like guys that are too big and bulky" why is this? I would think it would be a turn on for a girl to be with a guy who is big and strong...

2006-10-18 13:20:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 13:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by ♥JAMIE♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Now I am Very Angry with this situation, i live in a 3 bedroom house with my granny and 9 of my other relatives and we all were getting along perfectly until one of my relaitives decided they wanted to preach and get their life right so they have been holding up ruckus with everyone else in the house. They have called me all types of names like "satans child, eve's sister, and many more" but today topped it off when they got into a conflict with another house memebre and i was caught in the middle due to where i was standing when it began, and when i tried to calm the other house member down they spit in my face, and it really ticked me off. I am always trying to move out but when i do they come up with every excuse as to why i shouldnt move out, but i need to get away some one please help tell me what you think i should do. Now Keep in mind i am grown, a college student, and i work 32 hours a week.

2006-10-18 13:17:56 · 16 answers · asked by beautifulpersona 2 in Family

I keep approaching women and some like me and some perhaps dont, but i always find that when the girl likes me that her friends cause difficulties or my friends end up causing problems. Ive tried approaching groups of women on my own but even then, say if there are two girls, ive learned that i have to talk with both women. If i just talk to one girl, the other girl will get bored and take my girl away. But if i talk to two women by myself, theres no chance to show real interest in my girl, when we can be alone and talk some more by ourselves. Pretty much all of my friends are rubbish at helping out, so is there a better way for me to meet a girl i like without running into huge difficulties? I rely more on bars/clubs as my job means i move from area to area so dont have the opportunity to know people through activity groups (e.g. salsa)

2006-10-18 13:17:50 · 20 answers · asked by lucas m 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl i really like,,,, i have been seing her and talking to her..... but she is the singer from a band i play i am afraid this might not be good for the band.... and she is different than me,,,like she likes to drink and is fine wiht me but i think she likes craxy guys... i think i am notmal

2006-10-18 13:17:42 · 6 answers · asked by james o 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends had said that they were not me and my other friend friends anymore.Then the next day they said they were our frined.Then at lunch time they said that they were not our friend.It was happening for about a week.Then today they asked if we wanted to be their friends and said no.Now they are bothering us just because we are not there frined.Wjhat do i do?

2006-10-18 13:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by rosiet718963 1 in Friends

Listen, i cant help but notice alot of people still think in stereo types.Myself i'm a diffrent animal maybe i'm ablack male born in brooklyn but later on moved to long island went to a private high school and attended college. I'm not neccasarily "ghetto" in the sense of hte word, but i do hold my own. Now what truely annoys me to no end is that teh successful black percentae is ignored, banash and banned from its own "race". Since i'm " black" ( haitian-dominican-cuban) but my appearance is "black". I have an obligation to speak a certain way, walk with a swager, have a record lol? In my humble opion stereotypes are purely media and whats marketed out there, Because you never notice something about someone until its pointed out.Why cant people just realize or even analyze, that darker skinned people from the southern hemisphere are dark because its HOTTER in those places and lighter skinned people in the north have no need for pigment.We point fingers with-out asking....WHY

2006-10-18 13:17:07 · 5 answers · asked by George D 1 in Friends

My MIL is nuts ...

She is 100% Italian and wants to try to tell me how to do everything. Correction -- she DOES tell me how to do everything.

She wants to buy my daugther her "first" everything and wants to be there for every "first" moment, and when she isn't? She goes nuts.

I have tried telling my Husband that his Mom already had her shot at doing the whole "first" thing with her 2 kids. I have tried to explain that it is my turn and that these are some of the things that I have looked forward to as a Mother and that I feel as though I deserve them.

My Husband tells me that he can see where I am coming from but that he has never told his Mother "NO" and that he doesn't know where to begin.

I have been told that my MIL acts this way because HER MIL acted this way to her.

Is that my problem to deal with? I had nothing to do with that but for some reason, I am being expected to deal with those repercussions. Sometimes I want to tell her to butt the hell out. Help!

2006-10-18 13:16:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont know if he likes you! I dont know if he will call you! I dont know what her friends think! I dont know what your friends think! I dont know what you should say to make her like you! I dont know what his friends say about you! I dont know if you should give him you number! PLEASE SHUT UP! You should be doing homework or even playing video games. All of these STUPID QUESTIONS!!!

2006-10-18 13:15:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the 411: Idiot breaks up with me 2 months ago. Then recently decides to text me because he "misses me" and "wants to be with me" but when I try to pin him down for a serious answer he says: "I don't know"

Now he is moving to California "sort of" to go to college (party college) and he wants me to move with him. When I asked him if he was serious, he said "not really, wouldn't be a good idea"

Is he really worth my time or should I just toss this douche-bag in the recycle pile to mature?

thnx

2006-10-18 13:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by h2omizu2002 2 in Singles & Dating

I am meeting a girl in a few days at a club. but heres the problem. i have no experience with girls. As in no sex no kssing nothing(i know its lame but im working on changing it). What Im wondering is will she wonder why im not making moves or being more sexually aggressive. By the way im 20 (just in case someone asks). I dont want to look like in a** who isnt acting like im interested in her but i am.. so what should i do? should i tell her of my lack of experience or not?

2006-10-18 13:14:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is the first guy that i really like, i like him a lot, but he has a girlfriend. I wouldn't go out with him with him while he's with his girlfriend, and he doesn't know that i like him but he is given me a feelling that he might like me too. What should I do?

2006-10-18 13:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by Frances N 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends totally stressing about her bf living in a different town. she told her mom and now shes not allowed to see him at all - should she sneak into the movies and see him? ahhhhh idk what to tell her. any suggestions?

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2006-10-18 13:13:41 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah.* 1 in Friends

okay.. so about 5 years ago, these two new boys came to my school. we weren't very close or good friends. we just casually talked i guess. and i was very interested in what they were up to these days. they moved that same year that they came back to their old home. and i was wondering.. how could i find them? they live in texas and i live in ohio. and all i know is their names.

know any websites that actaully work without having to pay a fee?
or, any tips?

thanks for the help! : )

2006-10-18 13:13:35 · 4 answers · asked by mally_00 1 in Friends

My bf is in the military and he recently left for guam. we only been together for 3 wks and he just left last week. he's goin to be there for 2 yrs. i already have a vacation planned to go see him sometime next year... i know that the feelings i have for him are really strong and i know he feels the same... so my question is, do you think it can work? with him being so far and all we do is talk on the phone at least 3-4 times a day, and i wont see him till next year in may..?

2006-10-18 13:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by soldiersgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer long hair or short hair on a woman? Just curious as to what answers I get.
Thanks a bunch!!

2006-10-18 13:12:48 · 35 answers · asked by Humming Bird 4 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends is trying to break my friendship with another friend. Also like 4 of my friends are stealing my friends who i met before them they like meet them at soccer or something. And then whenever my friend brings a friend to church my friend treats me like im nothing! Also some people annoy me on purpose and some people who i know when i my friends fight and i get into the conversation they start butting in. i don't know what to do with my friends

2006-10-18 13:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♥♪Jenni♥♪ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are you girls generally more attracted to

asian guys
or
black guys?

2006-10-18 13:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

but she still had on some makeupand her hair was brushed,an no one at home but her .do i have reason to believe she is cheating. because this is out of the norm for her to be so groomed this late at night at 1:30 am.

2006-10-18 13:10:34 · 13 answers · asked by lagunsrockx4me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok some people say women has a higher sex drive than the man. other people claim that men are the one who have the highest sex drive. which one is true?

2006-10-18 13:09:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is a woman I work with who is 30 years older than I am, but she is beautiful and intelligent and very sexy. We have had meaningful eye contact and I think she is attracted to me. I have a girlfriend who I will probably marry, so I'm pretty sure I will never have another opportunity to be with a woman like this. What should I do?

2006-10-18 13:08:57 · 20 answers · asked by Whatever 2 in Singles & Dating

you can be a nerd for almost anything these days, how about you???

2006-10-18 13:08:51 · 10 answers · asked by Erikawithasmile 4 in Friends

Does it really make you feel better when you get the "gory" details?

2006-10-18 13:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by yuhgyrlmoe 2 in Singles & Dating

i think he's really hott!! his name is billy matteson...he asked me out but i froze....i don't know wat 2 say??

2006-10-18 13:08:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I got really, really annoyed with my boyfriend, who I've been almost seeing a year. He kept suggesting to me to wear all black, sexy shoes, and my hair down. Well, me and my friend brainstormed, and found out that is what his ex-crush looked like, who said she wanted to be 'friends with benefits' but it was barely that. I do not know this girl personally, but my friend did. So I dressed up like her, complete with darkened hair, big sunglasses, and black clothing. I even borrowed a designer purse from another one of my friends. When he saw me, he started acting in awe, I know I looked good, but he acted like he was around her again, all anxious, and he told me how I looked like her. He went into shock, but later snapped out of it. He started asking me, "Do you still have feelings for me?" "I think I'm starting to love you," and all this other crazy stuff I know he said to this other girl! I don't know if he thinks I'm her now, or he's into that kind of look in a girl?

2006-10-18 13:08:04 · 21 answers · asked by Jen B 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl has been playing hard to get,and the girl hates the guy who asked her if she likes me. But yesterday i told her "i said i like you because you were trying so hard to flrt with me", and she said "I don't understand you". So should i keep flrting or leave her alone for a while. ..... And yes this is the same girl that i have posted all the other questions about.

2006-10-18 13:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend is coming to visit me this weekend. I don't get to see her much, and she told me she is having her period. She said we could still have sex, and asked how i thought about it. I told her i didn't know, and she told me to think about it.

Does anyone have any experiance with sex during a period, and have any tips or sugesstions? is it gross? etc.

2006-10-18 13:07:12 · 24 answers · asked by John W 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u think ( I need major help)?
he keeps asking me who I like and I want to tell him especially cuz he says if I tell him who he likes he will tell me who he likes and I really want to date him, he is my best guy friend and we sit together in everyclass I mean he acts like he likes me, my friends say it is a given what should I do. and I know he doesnt like like any of the other girls in the school (small school) cuz I asked him but he wont tell me who he likes, there is another girl and we r pretty good friends he says he kinda likes her, but he says there is a girl who he likes in OUR school, but he wont tell me and this girl who it is (we r trying to figure it out) we no it aint any of the other girls I mean I guess it must be me and this other girl maybe he likes both of us and cant decide, but he says shes is okay and I am with him like all the time in school (we r in the same grade all the same classes to) and he says the other girl is ok but he dont like any other girls

2006-10-18 13:07:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister and i fights all the time and she always starts it she starts to punch kick and all that violence i dont no whats her problem i tried mining my on business but then she comes to my room then beats me up when ever i try fighin her im the 1 who ends gettin in trouble and i only need 1 year till i dont see her again and i cant wait that long its just to long!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-18 13:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-18 13:05:29 · 20 answers · asked by Simon J 3 in Other - Family & Relationships