Does it really make you feel better when you get the "gory" details?
2006-10-18 13:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by yuhgyrlmoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel all of the responses that came in... thanks! I have noticed that when I tell my husband certain things... yeah, eventually he ends up using it against me. When I stop talking about it... he tells me that I am hiding something... what part of the game is that?
2006-10-18 13:20:05 · update #1
Well, they insist on knowing so they can throw it all back at you some time or another.! No man or woman benifits from knowing everything in your past, that's been proven so many times. So take my advise and just say NO when they want too know details about what happened in your past.
2006-10-18 13:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to know why your significant other needs to know you will have to ask him because i'm sure there is not a one size fits all answer.
I personally like to know some of the past because if he blames everything on the ex then he probably hasn't learned from his own mistakes. But that's just me.
2006-10-18 13:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people want to know, as a way to get to know more about you, and to see it is that your ex's did that you are looking for in a guy so that they can do the same or do point some of the things you want in a dude, that they were not doing. If that makes sense.....lol
2006-10-18 14:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by ill_state00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like my significant other who was engaged to 2 women in 8 years and tried to have children with one of them? like really really tried and fortunatly failed and to this day regrets the relationship and wonders where he went wrong and what he could have done if he could go back??? those gory details? i didn't want to know but he told me anywayz.
2006-10-18 13:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does give me leverage when we fight. I can bring up all the gory detail about their past wrong to humiliate them
2006-10-18 13:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man i know what you mean. But what they really want is for you 2 lie, and say, "baby ur the best lover, my exs where lousy in bed" And stuff like that. Its annoying. Its just that everyones so insecure.
2006-10-18 13:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anoukens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it` a mind game. they ask about your past to use it a gance you later on. i wouldn`t tell any one of my past,it`s really none of there bussiness.
2006-10-18 13:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not always true. Atleast not in my case, thank God!
2006-10-18 13:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋