I keep approaching women and some like me and some perhaps dont, but i always find that when the girl likes me that her friends cause difficulties or my friends end up causing problems. Ive tried approaching groups of women on my own but even then, say if there are two girls, ive learned that i have to talk with both women. If i just talk to one girl, the other girl will get bored and take my girl away. But if i talk to two women by myself, theres no chance to show real interest in my girl, when we can be alone and talk some more by ourselves. Pretty much all of my friends are rubbish at helping out, so is there a better way for me to meet a girl i like without running into huge difficulties? I rely more on bars/clubs as my job means i move from area to area so dont have the opportunity to know people through activity groups (e.g. salsa)
2006-10-18 13:17:50 · 20 answers · asked by lucas m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
instead of having the goal your bedroom you should have your goal as having a relationship ..
2006-10-18 13:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either be satisfied with getting a number from your girl, discretely, after you've bought them both drinks, or only try to hook up with single women. Most single women at bars are open to a quick hook-up, most women in packs are not (but some are).
Be careful that if you buy a group (2 or more) drinks, them may leave when their bored and the only thing you'll get is a 200 dollar tab. Best to stick with single girls, or get a girl in a group on the dancefloor, or somehow split the group if you can.
2006-10-18 13:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy anwsering this...... I've done alot of approaches and I know what works ( for at least..) Sometimes woman aren't aware of what "works" for them I do not use typical "pick up lines", I use non-threating and indirect way of approaching by asking them a question that would peak their interest with an "opinion opener" Like: Who lies more men or women? I have this friend who's seeing a girl i don't like and..... so on so forth.. after that I would transition the conversation to something else otherwise that conversation thread would run out and create a weird vibe.... ( I recommend doing most of the talking for the first 5 minutes)
2016-03-28 01:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you gotta enlist a few of your mates to chat up the girls friends! Being honest when girls are out with their mates - we find it REALLY boring having just one guy attempting to chat the whole lot of us up - so you're just gona have to pay your mates or whatever to back you up! That way - the 2 groups of mates can have a bit of a laugh - you can concentrate on the woman you fancy and alls well. HOWEVER - maybe you should concentrate on getting a first date or a number for this love interest of yours oppossed to getting her to the bedroom? Walk before you can run and all that!! xx
2006-10-18 21:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the bars, keep the conversations short but make sure to get the digits. Call them afterwards when the bar closes. If they're not leaving with a guy, there's a good chance your in there. Bar bitches are hoes. Easy money!!
2006-10-18 13:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have your priorities all wrong to be honest with ya mate... if your sole goal is to get a woman into bed hire an escort or prozzie...
If you actually want to meet someone to date... then your looking in the wrong places... but like you said its hard to.. with moving around alot... go to a gym... and beleive it or not Friday nights in tesco seems to be singles night...a work colleague who has been single for years recently met someone there and has been meeting up after shopping and having a coffee... now they are dating... and i beleive wedding bells are in the air as well...
good luck...
2006-10-19 00:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget Roofies... You dont need to be as Handsome as me - to score in a Glasgow Pub/Club... a Glasgow Bint after a few Bacardi Breezers is a sure thing....
2006-10-18 13:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is if they have a friend either bring a friend just to help out and dissract the hot girl's friend. or you can get on both their good sides by hitting on the hot one and just being nice to the friend. then pull a trick to get the friend to leave you alone for a second, and then ask the hot girl to come home with you.
2006-10-18 13:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude..you don't want to pick up a chick at a bar and take her home and slam her...what kind of descent chick would hang out in a bar anyway...try the laundry mats,or grocery store..or someone maybe a close friend could hook you up with,unless you are lookin for a "one night" of risky-meaningless sex... anyway... good luck :)
2006-10-18 13:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by curious1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to change the way u think.If u are out for meeting someone for just sex then woman aren't stupid.Especially their friends.So grow up and try to find someone for more then a roll in the hay........
2006-10-18 13:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no defense against the c.ck blockers. very few times they have been defeated . hang in there and you may become one of the few proud ones that win. i have don't it several times. you usually have to get the blockers angry at each other then young Danielson you may succeed
2006-10-18 13:30:16 · answer #11 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋