My MIL is nuts ...
She is 100% Italian and wants to try to tell me how to do everything. Correction -- she DOES tell me how to do everything.
She wants to buy my daugther her "first" everything and wants to be there for every "first" moment, and when she isn't? She goes nuts.
I have tried telling my Husband that his Mom already had her shot at doing the whole "first" thing with her 2 kids. I have tried to explain that it is my turn and that these are some of the things that I have looked forward to as a Mother and that I feel as though I deserve them.
My Husband tells me that he can see where I am coming from but that he has never told his Mother "NO" and that he doesn't know where to begin.
I have been told that my MIL acts this way because HER MIL acted this way to her.
Is that my problem to deal with? I had nothing to do with that but for some reason, I am being expected to deal with those repercussions. Sometimes I want to tell her to butt the hell out. Help!
2006-10-18
13:16:54
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