I know this is the first guy that i really like, i like him a lot, but he has a girlfriend. I wouldn't go out with him with him while he's with his girlfriend, and he doesn't know that i like him but he is given me a feelling that he might like me too. What should I do?
2006-10-18 13:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by Frances N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were the other girl, what would you want you to do in this situation? And if you do confront him and he accepts/goes for it...what does that say about him and how long will it be before you start to worry about other girls approaching him (you already know "he'll go for it" - as one idiot put it)
2006-10-18 13:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really did like you, he would break up with his girlfriend and go after you. But since he is not going to break up with her anytme soon, that pretty much describes what kind of a guy he is and how much he likes you, if he even likes you at all. So if I were in this situation, I would move on and find someone else.
2006-10-18 20:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy, casually come on, but don't make any romantic moves, depending on who he is, try to get yourself more into his life, in the sense that you start being friendlier with him, if he likes you, he might dump his girlfriend, otherwise just keep it on the lowdown, but still stay close. Unfortunately it's hard for me to give love advice on such little details and it's one of those tricker situations, but you can choose to try what i've said or what another has said. Don't get mad at me if you take this advice and it blows, you can choose not to use it.
2006-10-18 20:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sensei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih i think you should divert your attention to other guys because he's already committed..you don't like to be called "man stealer" do you?..anyways the feeeling that you think he might like you back is i think a pure misinterpretation...you just misintepret his actions..unless if he is treating like his princess maybe he likes you too but as long as he has girlfriend then the best thing you can do is hope that they break-up soon..
2006-10-18 20:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do anything right now. If anything wait until he no longer has a girlfriend,,if ever. then tell him how you feel. But dont say anything now to him. Let him be with his girlfreind for now,,,u wouldnt want that if you were with a man.
2006-10-18 20:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make friends with him, then give him something to look forward to if the two of them ever break up. Don't do anything to accelerate it, though, and have someone else if this one falls though.
2006-10-18 20:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is exclusively with the girlfriend he has or if he is dating other people.
2006-10-18 20:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by dan_in_la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should like him from afar (or in other words, "do nothing"). Or, better yet, keep your eyes peeled for someone who's currently available.
2006-10-18 20:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the navy.
2006-10-18 20:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop and give me 20.
2006-10-18 20:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋