my sister and i fights all the time and she always starts it she starts to punch kick and all that violence i dont no whats her problem i tried mining my on business but then she comes to my room then beats me up when ever i try fighin her im the 1 who ends gettin in trouble and i only need 1 year till i dont see her again and i cant wait that long its just to long!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 13:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
All that violent because you are ignoring her, pay More attention to her next time you will see deferent attitude.
2006-10-18 13:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this. My sister and I used to fight viciously. That was because we were pretty close in age, shared a bedroom and were total opposites. You didn't mention your ages, only that in 1 year you will not see her again. Give it time, you might actually be surprised to find out how much you really do love and need her in your life when you are older.
2006-10-18 20:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by kpsmyln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if she is older than you I think you should fight back. Teach her not to bother you for no reason and to respect you. If she is younger then I would suggest you hit her you can hurt her. know that if they dont start telling her to stay outta your room whic hopefully has a lock on it that you will take care of it your way if they don't put there foot down. The sad thing is that when she does leave she is going to miss you so much and wish she had never done that to you.
2006-10-18 20:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by prettyfalcon197 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where are your parents in all this. Hitting should not be tolerated in any home. Have you talked to them. You are sisters & hate is not a solution. If this is getting beyond your ability to cope with talk to a school councillor. I think both of you need some help. Somebody needs to help both of you through this thing. Give it one more try.
2006-10-18 20:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh i so sorri 4 u!! I am 12 and my older sister bug me all the time!!! i think u need tell ur mother what happen it is not fair that it is you who get in trouble when sister start it. Is she bigger then you? My sister is but many times she tell mother i was doing something so that i get in trouble to and it is very annoyying!!
2006-10-18 22:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, Sister---that's what you are. Remember this. You will only have one sister--if anything happens to her then you will feel really bad. Do what you can to get along with her...Be the bigger person, and take the high road. It looks good on your resume.
When you list your strengths you can say that you work well with difficult people. (smile).
2006-10-18 20:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock your door with a key lock. tell your parents if they don't like it, they should do a better job of protecting you. you could also try hairspray in the face and running. but, be sure to aim it in her face. if things get very bad you can always call the cops. or tell a teacher or guidance counsellor in school. do yo have any other family that will let you move in with them? try to do that.
2006-10-18 20:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Donna L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents or an adult. obviously she has some anger problems and likes to take it out on her. I am sure your parents or a teacher will understand. tell someone that will understand and do something about it. they can get help for your sister. there are ways to help anger issues like that. and pray to God for your sister's sake. it sounds like she has a lot more problems than you! Good Luck! God Bless!
2006-10-18 20:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by ctgirl206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try to sit with her one day that she is in a good mood and ask her why she treats you the way she does, don't feel like you hate her. you know what they say "love begets love" and it's really true especially between siblings.
2006-10-18 20:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember its only one more year!! set some rules and if she don't listen tell your parents to ground her or something
2006-10-18 20:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋