Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

this weekend, a few friends and i are going bowling. this girl that i like just assumed that this guy who is "just a friend" was coming. i am 14 and she is 17. this guy is a real prick at the age of 21. he likes her for sure, and all of us dont really want him to come. we all decided that i should be the one tell her. what should i say?

2006-10-18 15:39:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

people usualy don't have any problem with their mate untill after they are married. don't they know that to make it work they have to work on it.

2006-10-18 15:38:25 · 7 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy, and he had asked me to the homecoming dance, but I at first said yes, then I had said no. Now, I want to ask him to the favorites dance. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He always talks to me in homeroom class, and asks me questions, like what I like to do and stuff...So the question is, should I ask him to the favorites dance or not?? And if yes, how should I ask him?? Any ideas??

2006-10-18 15:38:00 · 2 answers · asked by Britney♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

i have noticed that when i first meet someone no matter who it is i decide would u sleep with them first lol just wondering if this is a common thing ?

2006-10-18 15:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by tiffanyh2323 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A girl told me that her sister liked me and gave me her sisters phone number. I wasn't really interested in her sister and don't know the right way to turn her down without sounding like an @$$hole. Worse, my friends were pressuring me into going out with her.

2006-10-18 15:37:26 · 15 answers · asked by HonoraryDiplomat 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends won't grow up! I thought high school would shape them up. I am an active member of my school's GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance) and suddenly I'm a lesbian and they won't talk to me. And all the guys think I'm a lesbian and no one is interested in me. All my friends are either over the age of 20, are seniors when I'm a freshman or go to different schools. I'm getting tired of this, but I am not backing out of the GSA. Any advice?

2006-10-18 15:37:13 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, he sends me tons of mixed signals.

Like yesterday, we were talking, and out of nowhere, he tells me...

"Will you...*pause*...be my friend?"

and I went crazy. Because I thought that we were already friends! But I don't know...BTW, did i mention he knows I like him?

Today, he totally ignored me. I don't know what I did, and I doubt I did anything. But still, he ignored me, and right at this moment, he's calling me and acting as if nothing is wrong...

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!/

2006-10-18 15:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by lovin_him.alex 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u think is the best way to ask a gril out. and what do u think is the best date if u just want to get to know the girl better. and what gift do u like an a frist data. i want to know so i do give the wrong idea

2006-10-18 15:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by etat 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends won't grow up! I thought high school would shape them up. I am an active member of my school's GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance) and suddenly I'm a lesbian and they won't talk to me. And all the guys think I'm a lesbian and no one is interested in me. All my friends are either over the age of 20, are seniors when I'm a freshman or go to different schools. I'm getting tired of this, but I am not backing out of the GSA. Any advice?

2006-10-18 15:34:13 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should we invite her over?

2006-10-18 15:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by spoiledndangerous1 1 in Friends

my parents got divorced in january 2006 and its been real hard for me now i caught my mom on the phone and she kept leaving rooms and i kept following her. she told me it was a guy named Frank and so far im am thinking of him as a total friekin dick! i asked my mom if she liked him and she said yes and i finally got her to fess up that she is going on a date tommorow.I AM PISSED! WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?

2006-10-18 15:33:41 · 28 answers · asked by Jonathan R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy, and we're good friends, but he likes this strange girl, and I want to tell him how I feel but I'm afraid it will make our friendship wierd.....Is a crush worth more than a friendship?

2006-10-18 15:33:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im bored..anyone got suggetsions on how to make my life useful?

2006-10-18 15:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would u not date some one just because your friends dont like it .

2006-10-18 15:31:30 · 12 answers · asked by tiffanyh2323 3 in Friends

Okay. Cosmogirl magazine says that their issue next month is going to tell us how we can get him to kiss us. So before that issue comes out I want to know what you think. How do you get a guy to kiss you?

Let's use this as a basis situation: A guy and a girl mutually like eachother and are comfortable with those feelings. They are exclusive....so what should she do to get him to kiss her?

And another question: Why the hell should she even try to get him to kiss her?? Shouldn't she just do it herself?? Do you think a girl should wait to be kissed the first time?
Whats your opinion......
thanks. =]

2006-10-18 15:31:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 15:30:56 · 16 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I really like, He even seems to like me. Someone asked if we like each other as boyfriend and girlfriend and he wouldn't say no! So I have three questions about him. 1) Does he like me? Why do you think that? 2) Should I give him hints that I like him and that I am single? How would I do that? 3) Should I get all dolled up and act like my normal self around him so he will still see the real me but I will be prettier (because I don't get all dresses up to go to school)?

2006-10-18 15:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by Kristine S 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys,

I was wondering what the big thing about swallowing (***) after a ******* is. Why does it matter if a girl does? How is that a turn on? Does it feel better or something?Give me all the info you can!

Also, is there ANY way possible for a girl to get pregnant after doing so? thanks guys for the info!

2006-10-18 15:28:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been letting this guy friend stay at my house cause he needed a place to stay! We sit and watch tv most nites but he said we should go out for dinner or a movie! Does he like me or is he just being nice?

2006-10-18 15:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do all these people think there in love when they done even understand what love truly is? and then they go get pregnant why?

2006-10-18 15:27:57 · 4 answers · asked by clownjoker17 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 15:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by johan 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls will you go out with a guy who’s English isn’t too good. And if yes what would think and how would you feel. A guy is good looking educated respectful but not well spoken because he came from another country. Thank you for a good answers Take care

2006-10-18 15:27:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The joke years ago was how women weren't happy and so they repainted the house different colors every few months, moved around the furniture, had another baby, got an animal(due to being emotional, which this also makes them great, good mothers,...)...
Now it's "I'm getting a divorce" or "having an affair". He doesn't hit you, verbally abuse you, or cheat buy you're unhappy...
Don't get me wrong... guys have always had their problems(but not all of them), but instead working towards the better, it seems to be moving to the worst.

2006-10-18 15:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Marriage & Divorce

to your SO about if your feelings have changed for them? My gf is pretty closed up and I am a novice at understanding women but she has been acting withdrawn lately. When I asked her about it and dug a bit, she said that, no, her feelings for me had not changed. There's no reason she would lie, is there?

PS - We have been dating for around six months. I have been noticing this happening for about 2 or 3 months now and I swear the more I notice it, the more I dwell on it, and the further she seems to get. I know I just have to ignore it.

2006-10-18 15:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

ok so the guy i had a short afair with this past summer becames a good freind of mine we used to go out everydaya and have a blast. Now that summer is over and our summer classes have ended i went back to my regular school and he stayeds at the same college. we have made attemps to go out again and he teases me and leads me on but when the day comes up he either wont call or out out some excuse should i keep belive him or should i give him time untill he is actually vaibale to see me again. I feel atached to him still and i dont want to loose him becasue i feel that the bond we made is way strong to let go...

2006-10-18 15:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out that this boy likes me but I don't like him. The problem is that he is kinda....well...fat.But I want to say NO!

2006-10-18 15:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by datgurlnette601 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that always hits on me at the bar down the street from my house and i always flirt with her back she took me out to eat last night and when i went to pay for our food she wouldnt let me and she paid. we get along really great and she tryed to get me to go home with her last night but i dont know if she wants a bf/gf relationship and i got way too much going on right now to where i have like no time for a girlfriend. i declined the offer last night. but any way how would i bring up the just being friends with benifits for now and seeing where it goes from there. and dont call me a pig or what not cause you know(most of you) have had a friend like this before and its not like im doing this with a bunch of other girls or anything(acually none ). but anywho she's smokin hot gorgeus and i think we could have alot of fun together but once again i cant put the right amout of time into being in a serios relationship. so how would i go about askin if she just wants to be f.f.

2006-10-18 15:26:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The movies alot of my friends tell not to go (cuz they weren't invited)should I go?i like him but he'll probly suspect something.

2006-10-18 15:26:03 · 8 answers · asked by amygerrero 2 in Singles & Dating

Its not like im innocen but im kinda worried cause i lied to the cops about a close friend who left and stole everything in the house. He had a reason i wouldv left to. his dad is a total control freak and one of those strict cathliocs if you know were im going with this. someone who preaches about the good in life and the kid with the bad reputation shouldnt be living together. it doesnt mix. im unlucky enough to know were he is and if the cops find out that i covered for him i might get in trouble. i worked alot to get were i am now and im not up to risking it. some of my friends say that i should turn him in and let his dad do whatever he wants but maybe he deserves it because he's not a boyscout ethier. i got a lot of suggestions. i no i owe him cause hes covered for me before but i no i sure as hell would not want to live with that guy hes a party killer anyway what am i spose to do now am i going to get completely screwed over?!?!

2006-10-18 15:25:46 · 10 answers · asked by Kara J 1 in Family

I want to get my boyfriend something special to show my love for him for our 1 year together... but the more I think about it the harder it is for me to find that perfect something. Guys are much harder to shop for... I already know what I want to get him for either Christmas or his birthday-whenever I can save enough to get it but this is for a one year of being together and want it to be special and not just cologne or a CD but not overbearing. What do guys think is sweet or like to have from their girlfriends as a resemblance of their love - as jewelry is for woman?

2006-10-18 15:24:56 · 4 answers · asked by Some Girl 3 in Singles & Dating