my parents got divorced in january 2006 and its been real hard for me now i caught my mom on the phone and she kept leaving rooms and i kept following her. she told me it was a guy named Frank and so far im am thinking of him as a total friekin dick! i asked my mom if she liked him and she said yes and i finally got her to fess up that she is going on a date tommorow.I AM PISSED! WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?
2006-10-18 15:33:41 · 28 answers · asked by Jonathan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't be a punk....your mom deserves to be happy.
2006-10-18 15:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at her. Do you want to alone the rest of days . You will grow up and maybe go off to college and find a nice young girl and get married. Then who would she have to take care of her. She has need also. She just moved on with her life. She wants to be loved and she knows you love her to death. But its a different kind of love. Your love for her will last for ever and she knows that. Be there for your mom and support her. There are going to be a day you are going to be in that situation. And your mom will be there for you. Do you want her to be alone in her home when you do move out. What if something happens to her and there wouldn't be anybody there to help her. So think about it. Do you want know when you are away that there is someone there taking care of her. Where you don't have to worry. You will still worry but not as much.
2006-10-18 15:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my personal opinion on this would be that she should always put her kids first because the thing about single moms, as I have witnesses first-hand, is that they feel that them having a BF is more beneficial to them than the father having a GF. Many single moms would flip out of the father had a girlfriend and would instantly think his GF is going to "play mommy." In most cases the child is around the mother more than the father so if anything the father should be more worried about the baby mother's BF "playing daddy"
2016-03-28 01:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single mother myself, I've gotta say to let your mom live her life. She's a grown woman and no one wants to feel alone. Since you're the child, I'm sure you don't know ALL the reasons for the divorce. You don't know for sure what all she has had to go thru. You have to let your mom do her thing. I know it sucks, but just because she's going on a date w/ someone doesn't mean he's going to be in the picture more than that. Give the woman a break.
2006-10-18 15:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just angry because your mom and dad got divorced. It's normal for you too be angry. You need too talk too your Mom, tell her how you are feeling and etc..But you need too know that your parents are only human, they can't and shouldn't have too live life alone. They need a life also. you will grow up and move out, what will your mom have then? You need too think about that.
Don't make your mom feel bad for going out with this guy.you should want her too be happy.
2006-10-18 15:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rose T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOTHING!!
Don't know the circumstances of your parents divorce, but like it or not, your mother is a single woman, who is attracted to men. She is going to go on dates. Don't make things harder for her by acting like she's cheating on you. She's not. She will always love you more than she will love anybody, but she needs companionship.
You don't give your age. Unfortunately divorce makes kids grow up faster than kid with parent s that aren't divorced (I understand your pain, My parents divorced when I was 7). You're going to have to be mature and let you mom have a life.
2006-10-18 15:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you do?????????? What kind of a question is that???????? You keep ur nose out of other people's business................... What the hell is your problem????? How old are you 6 going on 10???? Number 1, just who the hell do you think you are, following your mother around while she is trying to have a private "I SAID PRIVATE"........ get it,,,,,, conversation. It is none of your business who your mother befriends unless it is injurious of your health. Don't misunderstand me, I said injurious to your health, not feelings. Sounds to me like your parents raised a spoiled brat and not a healthy young MAN. You might try thinking of someone other than yourself for a change!!!!! GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 21:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents divorced when I was in high school. I know this is really really hard for you! Everyone deserves to be happy, and your mother deserves your support. At least give this guy a chance. Trust me, it will save you all a lot of grief.
2006-10-18 15:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by abranch98 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldnt be piss off. yeah i understand that it's hurt that your mom and dad are not together nomore. but you need to understand that maybe it's wasnt meant to be. maybe she need to have a life too. you are not a baby nomore. you have your own life too. you will meet a guy too. so what if she meet a guy and she like him. it's not like she marry anymore. she free to do what she want. remember she the parents and you are her daughter. so just forget and dont be mad at her and go have fun with your friends. good luck
2006-10-18 15:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get so mad. Give your mom a chance. Just because she wants some adult conversation, doesn't mean she's going to marry the guy. Just be cool, and give her a chance. She'll always be your mom.
2006-10-18 16:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by Nor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to be mad. But maybe you're mom just wants to be happy too. Just do the mature thing and be open and honest about your feelings w/o being mean. Maybe you can talk it out nicely.
2006-10-18 15:46:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋