to your SO about if your feelings have changed for them? My gf is pretty closed up and I am a novice at understanding women but she has been acting withdrawn lately. When I asked her about it and dug a bit, she said that, no, her feelings for me had not changed. There's no reason she would lie, is there?
PS - We have been dating for around six months. I have been noticing this happening for about 2 or 3 months now and I swear the more I notice it, the more I dwell on it, and the further she seems to get. I know I just have to ignore it.
2006-10-18 15:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shouldn't pay attention to her behavor any more. i see that ur everything is base on her right? just let her be, don't talk about anything at all. if she comes around enjoy her as much as u can and if she is not around then try to get urself busy with something else. if u already told her how u feel now it her turn to work things out. u know u have tried. u being all nice and caring is a good thing but if she doesn't understand that then it will be her lost.
just enjoy the moment and let her breath, don't say anything about how u feel or what happened in the past, just let thing the way they are. from that she might see that ah he not saying any thing about my behavor today then she will see that u have been sick and tired of u ****, so now she will try to work things between u 2. then when she sees u r quiet, she will wonder and want to ask u ' babe what's wrong' and u say 'nothin'. try let to things be the way they are, she doesn't have time to handout get urself busy with something else too. little by little, u will know how to deal with her when she is acting out.
2006-10-19 08:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm....No.....Ignore it is the last thing you need to do. If a woman ain't acting happy---She ain't happy!! That's about it!
She may be getting bored with the relationship, or letting her eyes wander elsewhere.....So you might wanna spif things up a bit! Pay plenty of attention to her...compliment her...and don't drill her with questions about her behavior if you're not getting an answer the first time. Being too pushy can drive a woman away! Let her know you'll give her space if that's what she needs, but do not ignore the situation. If you want to keep this woman, just make sure you're doing everything right!! Always put her first. Good luck....we women are some difficult creatures to figure out!!
2006-10-18 22:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy....let me tell you something?when a girl is acting the way your woman is that means she is trying to get away by not really hurting you or saying anything at all. Some girls tend to do that to break away from that one person...she probably thinks or knows your a nice guy but thosen't want to hurt you...then again you guys aren't dating that long so she is just begining to adjust to the relationship,talk to her and let her know how you really feel don't be afraid I mean what can you loose but to gain the truth! hunny don't worry you will come out alright trust me I have been there and done that so maybe your girl those have something on her chest she just thosent know how to tell you....so go for it!
2006-10-18 22:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by sexy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow- That sucks and I know ho you feel. I thought my boyfriend was going though the same thing and I felt a little neglected like he didn't want to be with me anymore and was just waiting for the right time to break up with me. But one day i just asked him how he felt about me and we got to a talken and we worked things out. I hope things work out for you.
Good Luck
2006-10-19 16:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋