hey ladies i need some help here?

Question

there is this girl that always hits on me at the bar down the street from my house and i always flirt with her back she took me out to eat last night and when i went to pay for our food she wouldnt let me and she paid. we get along really great and she tryed to get me to go home with her last night but i dont know if she wants a bf/gf relationship and i got way too much going on right now to where i have like no time for a girlfriend. i declined the offer last night. but any way how would i bring up the just being friends with benifits for now and seeing where it goes from there. and dont call me a pig or what not cause you know(most of you) have had a friend like this before and its not like im doing this with a bunch of other girls or anything(acually none ). but anywho she's smokin hot gorgeus and i think we could have alot of fun together but once again i cant put the right amout of time into being in a serios relationship. so how would i go about askin if she just wants to be f.f.

Answer 1

Just tell her that you really enjoy her company and want to get to know her better, but you are to busy to keep a girlfriend right now. Remember to say "I still want to be your firend" over an over again.Don't just say it once because she will think you really don't want to.Take care :)

Answer 2

as you probably know by now women are much more emotional than men (plz take no offense, its nature) and i dont know this girl, but chances are she may not be interested in a physical relationship. its not always a good idea to be friends with benefits because it can quickly complicate things. i think its best to just be friends with her now and have fun goin out on dates, but not let things get to serious, tell her how u feel, because honesty can gain her respect (it works with me). whenever u have time alone to think, just reflect on your feelings for her and see if u have strong feelings for her or you just like her to be a friend.