I found out that this boy likes me but I don't like him. The problem is that he is kinda....well...fat.But I want to say NO!
2006-10-18 15:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by datgurlnette601 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to sound shallow. He's cool and I can talk to him about stuff.The problem is that he likes me and he's fat.I dont want to tell him NO because I don't like him.
2006-10-18 15:34:42 · update #1
Look, I know you're probably very sweet, but your question makes you look stupid. Sorry, but it does.
First of all, don't ever call people names. That's just mean.
Secondly, just be kind to him and tell him you don't feel like that towards him but don't tell him it's because he's fat. He will hate you for sure and hate himself even more! Just say you see him more as a friend.
If he's a freind, ask for a hug before you leave to make sure he's okay.
You're going to hurt his feelings no matter what but make sure
to stay friends with him if he wants.
Don't be so superficial.
If you were fat, I bet you wouldn't have a problem
with overweight guys liking you.
Grow up, sweetie.
There are a whole bunch of people you could miss out
on being friends with if you only like skinny people.
Who the heck cares what people look like on the outside!
Think about it, are your family members all skinny?
If not, do you love the overweight ones the same as the skinny ones?
It's all about their heart, isn't it? : ) Good luck.
2006-10-18 15:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with being fat? you mean fat guys don't have personalities or you are suggesting they are not human? for a long run would you be able to maintain the look you have. like it or not appearance vanish in times to come. well, good that you had made your decision. nothing wrong with it but it's your choice but based on because he's fat than it's already such a shallow mentality but could be worst than being honest and tell him just be friends? if you think you could confine in him with anything what's good of loosing a friendship?
2006-10-18 23:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why not tell him that you arent looking for a boyfriend or you dont want to go out with anyone right now. But you would like to be his friend. But if you dont want to go out with someone because they are heavy.... your pretty shallow.
2006-10-18 22:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by maureen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only tell him you don't want to go with him if he asks you out and be nice because you wouldn't want to be treated unkindly. Just tell him you like him as a friend that should do it. If you've only heard he likes you through the grapevine then why be cruel and tell him that you don't like him if he hasn't told you himself.
2006-10-18 22:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by CALAVA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should judge a person by the outside. You'll never know if you don't like someone if you don't try! That poor kid probably can't help his weight and going to have to deal with girls dumping or dissing him the rest of his dating life!
"Don't judge a book by the cover"
2006-10-18 22:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i have the same problem lol. but dont worry about it, just tell him you're not ready for a relationship, and that you would rather just be friends....dont worry about hurting his feelings, cause they will always keep trying,until finally, they get the picture, and will move on.....
2006-10-18 22:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy enough. If he never asks you out, so be it. If he does, tell him no. Just... no. If he asks why, you can choose to be honest and admit that you have no physical attraction to him, or perhaps you can think of other reasons not to want to date him. Good luck to you.
2006-10-18 22:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by feral_black_gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't want to waste his time or feelings thinking that you have any future other than friends, you don't need to be mean, just that you don't feel any chemistry right now.
2006-10-18 22:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like you because you are fat. If you manage to be slim, come back again.
I am a man. that's the things should be told. don't try to tell them different. it sucks. be real for once!!
2006-10-18 22:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by giwrgoulakis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight up that you don't like him. If you go out with him you are going to regret it and just make him feel really bad. trust me people respect it when you just say I don't like you instead of leading them on and going out with them if you don't like them.
2006-10-18 22:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋