Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

In the past three weeks 3 of my closest friends have each gotten into their first relationships- while i feel like a 7th wheel- if there is such a thing. Not that I'm not happy for them but just for an fyi- how much of a probablity is it that it will last after high school?

2006-10-18 15:24:28 · 28 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been best friends with a girl since i was about 13, weve always kinda had a "thing" for eachtoher, but never took it to the next level. I am now almost 18. I used to ride the bus with this girl..every day. We've been really close, we talk..we have hooked up...weve talked about dating but she never wants a boyfriend. Shes always the girl that really just wants to be single her high school years, and play the field. As the senior year comes to an end, i know whats at the end. We go our seperate ways. Yes..we might goto the same colllege...odds are slim. I will still talk to her after college..but before she goes ..etc..i want her to know how i really feel. i like her ALOT. I have always wanted to hang out with her more etc...i just want a song which will get all this point though..i just want her to listen to it and be like "oh my god..." because i think thats how she would react. Shes going to new york this weekend, and i want her to listen to it on the plane. Any Suggestions?

2006-10-18 15:24:02 · 7 answers · asked by santeyclause 1 in Singles & Dating

i like someone from work. We talk whenever we see each other but he never emails me. He seems happy to see me but hasn't asked me on a date or anything like that. How can I make things progress further?! ANY advice at all is welcome.

XOX

2006-10-18 15:23:59 · 4 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Singles & Dating

Friend to the point of almost getting into a fight?

2006-10-18 15:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 in Singles & Dating

a girl who is...
shy or outgoing

2006-10-18 15:23:49 · 3 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Singles & Dating

This would be for 4 women and want to spend around $30-$50 for each. Something that is nice and distinctive/unusual.

2006-10-18 15:23:12 · 26 answers · asked by alyssablaque 1 in Weddings

And you see this hot guy that you don't know at a party of people you do know,

Do you tend to flirt with you friends more to try to get the hot guy jealous and approach you?

Are you scared of rejection even when you're drunk?

2006-10-18 15:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going out with this guy and we are going to see a movie and probabley go have dinner and I need help with what I should say because it's my first date with him and I don't know what to say and plus i'm shy. And I need some flirting tips please help me?

2006-10-18 15:22:06 · 18 answers · asked by green_eyed_sexy_bi*** 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont need to know whether pick up lines will work or not..
nor whether i shld be just myself..

'cause this is just for laughs..

2006-10-18 15:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by Maestro 2 in Singles & Dating

so, i guess im goin to my high scool homecoming, and i decided to just go wit frends, it seems to be funner that way, but lately ive been getting really close with one of my guy friends, hes really a great person, and just yesterday he asked me to homecoming, its weird cuz, hes becoming one of my best frends, but im sure i dont like him that way...mainly...HOW DO I LET HIM DOWN EASY???

2006-10-18 15:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 15:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know this girl and she is always wearing tight clothes let everything show - very sluty. she is loud and rude. although she is pretty and has a goodd body i dont understand why guys like her.

2006-10-18 15:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 15:20:01 · 7 answers · asked by J-bean 3 in Singles & Dating

I really wanna talk to her as she is in my p.e class, but i never find her alone. Oh yeah, and i always see her talking to girls and no guys coz shes 2 shy. So i dont know how to approach her. My friends tell me to say HI when i see her in the hallway, but i find that to be kinda weird coz i havent spoken to her bfore. So plz help me coz i wanna become her friend first. Oh yeah and i think she knows that i like her coz i always stare at her so plz help.

2006-10-18 15:19:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I took my ex-husband to court for more child support. I won a substansial increase. 2 days later ACS was called with allegations that I was a neglectful mother. They have since recieved numerous anyomjous calls, ACS found allegations unfounded. Within same time period my ex husband sued for full custody of my children and his mother has filed police report that I harass her by phone. None of this is true and I believe is motivated by the fact that he has to pay more child support.

2006-10-18 15:19:07 · 7 answers · asked by deedee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This past summer I worked at a summer camp and met this amazing amazing guy. Though he lives in Quebec, CA and I live in Michigan. We are close to 12 hours apart. After camp I went home with him for a week and it was amazing, and I fell in love with him this summer or so I thought. He came here for my birthday (a month since the last time I saw him) and I have never been so nervous in my life. I was uncomfortable, and unsure if I even liked him anymore. Then as soon as he got back on the plane to leave I missed him terribly. Now I'm so confused. Should I try to make this work or was it just a summer fling? He calls me like 10 times a day and that is driving me crazy. He is probably the sweetest people I know and I know he's good for me and he will possibly be moving here next year, but I'm afraid. I don't think I want him to move here because I'm am not ready for anything serious right now. What should I do? I'm all stressed out and I do not want to hurt him by any means.

2006-10-18 15:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by crazy4flipin 1 in Singles & Dating

first and formost, plese don't comment if you are gonna make a rude or mean comment please.

ok so this girl in my english class knows i like her, as my freind gave her a note*even though i didn't want him to, though he siad she smiled* and im a shy and quiet guy normally around people i don't know or i like.

now this happend to days ago, and i have seen her look at me a few times, and iv looked at her. the thing is i have come so close to talking to her afew times when she is close, but the words don't come out and i shy away from her.

now when im in a confadent mood i am about to talk but i just..can't....

now please in all honestly, what should i do, i like her but my own shyness is getting in the way.

2006-10-18 15:18:52 · 7 answers · asked by ThemusicalArtist 1 in Singles & Dating

I went home with Jason Gill who then showed me his webbed toes. They did nothing for me and we parted angrily. He said he had mesmorised all other women with his attributes and that I was a cold fish.

2006-10-18 15:18:10 · 10 answers · asked by Harriet 5 in Singles & Dating

okay welll first off i started to date the nerdy math geek and i was a prep and i would be goofy and stuff around him and when im w/ friends and he trys to talk to me im like okay nerdy people sit over there and stuff and now i feel bad about it but i dont im still like that to them i get dared all the time like yesterday i ahd to go up to one cover the eyes and say hey i missed you and i want you really bad and i started laughing and i walked by and they tried hitting on me and i said loser go away cool people only go do math ta ta was that mean? or just rude?

2006-10-18 15:18:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean Im not bad looking and girls be looking at me all the time, but im quiet so um is this good or not? Do girls like quiet guys?

2006-10-18 15:17:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 15:17:26 · 5 answers · asked by GodFather_of_Newyork 1 in Friends

I really like him once me and my other guy freinds were passing a
football back and forth. and he was gonna pick me up over his shoulders, but i started laughing and I moved. but he is strong and hot I ask myself (Does he like me?)

2006-10-18 15:15:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl, but im really shy. I want to talk to her but im worried she might not like me because I know I would stumble over some words. Would it matter more that i tried or if i stumbled over a few words?

2006-10-18 15:14:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married 24 yrs he cheated with some 21 yr old that he now lives with.....my question is after 6 months of silence between us.........we have 4 kids to boot who live with me.......he is asking questions like..........where is mom............is mom home.......is she on the computer...............why now?....am i reading more into it?

2006-10-18 15:14:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Very close friend is married for 3 years. When she married him she was going thru a very tough time and we all told her to wait. It was a very unstable courtship - they guy was always hot and cold on his feelings for her. Well, finally after they were engaged - he went cold again and then he came back and asked her to elope with him. She did it! She's been pretty unhappy for the 3 years with some good times here and there. Now she's telling me that he told her that he loves her, but that it's very difficult for him. He says he only feels love and connection with her about 50% of the time and he doesn't really desire to have sex (make love) to her that often. (She suspects it is because of emotional issues in his past). She is really sad, hurt and comtemplating whether to just call it quits. I hesitate to be sympathetic with her because we all told her not to do it - but now she is realizing that maybe she made a mistake. What do I tell her? He wants to make it work and keep trying.

2006-10-18 15:14:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 15:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by sprtek 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like when your roller coaster of a happy relationship is at it's highest it always seems to fall, you see my girlfriend for 2 years (WHO I LOVE WITH ALL MY LIFE AND HEART) is back to believing that I am going to cheat on her....She found porn on my computer but I DID NOT and I swear look at anything like that nature that could jepordize our love, She thinks I am going to cheat on her with someone on the computer or just overall but That is the last thing I want to do! The last few nights I have felt the love like NEVER before she has told me she wants me in her life and it has moved me to tears, the other night she said she wants to get a house and be together and get married and have kids and that is what I am striving on right now the dignity to get her dream on the move, CHEATING is the last thing I would think about and it is something I wouldn't ever think about! I LOVE HER to death and couldn't live without her, she is beautiful in every way......

2006-10-18 15:11:59 · 10 answers · asked by E.F. Landeros 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and i started dating a guy named ryder chilson and fell in love.but we were to different for it to last.im a loner that most people dont like and hes a prep boy that every one wants to be with and i was the one that had him.i knew it was to good to last.we have dated three times and every time he breakes my heart more and more but i feel like i cant live without him so i always take him back even though i know its a big mistake i dont know how not to love him any more and i dont want to because if i dont stop im gonna kill myself please help me

2006-10-18 15:11:39 · 18 answers · asked by baby_bat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

no matter what i do they all seem the same. they pretend to care then everything u say to them the use it to torment u some more. anything they can find out is like a tool in a game they plan to play later. most of they hide it pretty well then one day it all goes down hill. how do u get out, be in a healthy relatioship

2006-10-18 15:11:29 · 26 answers · asked by J-bean 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to flirt or wat to say to a guy i like i always get blushy on the cheeck and people can always tell i like him.

pls HELP i will die if i never find out

2006-10-18 15:10:30 · 11 answers · asked by me! myself! and guys! 2 in Singles & Dating