shy guy girl help.?

Question

first and formost, plese don't comment if you are gonna make a rude or mean comment please.

ok so this girl in my english class knows i like her, as my freind gave her a note*even though i didn't want him to, though he siad she smiled* and im a shy and quiet guy normally around people i don't know or i like.

now this happend to days ago, and i have seen her look at me a few times, and iv looked at her. the thing is i have come so close to talking to her afew times when she is close, but the words don't come out and i shy away from her.

now when im in a confadent mood i am about to talk but i just..can't....

now please in all honestly, what should i do, i like her but my own shyness is getting in the way.

Answer 1

ok well im a 14 year old girl, and i think you should DEFINETLY talk to her. it sounds like she likes you back. i understand that u are nervous, but think about it. if you KNEW that some girl liked you, and she was afraid to talk to you, wouldnt you think it was weird for her to be afraid? i hope that makes sense!! ok so just TALK to her!!! when things like this happen to me, i try to be extra-nice to the guy. like, if i can tell they have been trying to talk to me, and when they do they say something stupid, i go along with it and try to make them feel like everythings going great and theyre doing the right thing. so what im saying is that the girl u liek will most likely be extremely happy for u to talk to her ((and maybe even ask her out...)). and how bad could a simple conversation be? trust me, u'll be fine, as long as u are relaxed and just act urself. and dont be afraid of her, shes just a harmless girl!! dont get all worried about the possibility of saying something dumb. its not the end of the world. i hope this helps you, and good luck!!!!!

Answer 2

Shy guy+Shy girl=Shy Relationship

Answer 3

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maybe some of the tips i say is gonna help.but most of the time it's ur confidence that is most importance.

1) if u're only shy in front of people u like,
but u're comfortable wif u friends..and loud at times.
- use visualizations -.athletes,world performers use this
technique
imagine u talkin to the girl.
imagine the fears.REMEMBER the fears .deal wif it nw.
practise.
set a dateline.(tell someone about this dateline * just one person u trust most*)
go for it!

2) u need target practise.as cruel as this may sound, u myt just make new friends.
so go ard and talk wif more people.deal wif ur fears of talkin wif strangers head on.
before u know it, u'll be most comfortable to talk wif anyone on the street.

3) look at those people who are comfortable with themselves
whut makes them confident.
see whut goes for them and whut they have that myte werk for you.
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Answer 4

if ya see that person you like turn around take a deep breath and than walk up to that pretty girl and say yo got some time for a talk? If she says yes than bring up something and than keep speaking till you are speak so deep that your heart feels like its bumping 100mph than say you wanna go out and if she says no, say " ur loss' says yes bring her to a movie where you don't have to talk alot but remember you!!! pay all of the money and everthing do watever she wants she wants to watch a barbie movie say whatever you say. B brave

Answer 5

th eproblem is u have to be assertive. girls love a guy that will come out and say it, especially if they give a response like smile or make eye contact, it seem sthat you should just pull it together and tal to her, if naything imagine her as one of ur other frends, and love will take it from there...good luck!

Answer 6

Get over your shyness, or you will never get what you want in life.

Answer 7

go 4 it! shez dying to hear u ask her out! quit making her w8! do it!