ok so the guy i had a short afair with this past summer becames a good freind of mine we used to go out everydaya and have a blast. Now that summer is over and our summer classes have ended i went back to my regular school and he stayeds at the same college. we have made attemps to go out again and he teases me and leads me on but when the day comes up he either wont call or out out some excuse should i keep belive him or should i give him time untill he is actually vaibale to see me again. I feel atached to him still and i dont want to loose him becasue i feel that the bond we made is way strong to let go...
2006-10-18 15:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only reason he is leading you on is because you are allowing him to. If he keeps blowing you off, take the hint and forget about him. Maybe it's time to tell him you are no longer interested and start seeing someone who is good to you.
2006-10-18 15:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by schoolot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure that you have the correction defination of what an affair is. An affair means one or two of you are married or in a commited relationship and you are cheating on your partner with this other person.
Sounds like he was a summer fling. If he doesn't fallow up on seeing you again, then you might have to let go.
You are young and in no hurry to have a perminate relationship...give him time. Maybe back at school he is busy.
2006-10-18 22:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. I am sorry to say this, but the "bond" you felt isn't as strong for him as it is for you. You definitely haven't described a guy who is hooked on you. I say ignore him a bit. If he really is into you, he will come after you if you start to puch away. Otherwise you will need to move on and find someone who will care enough about you to value your needs.
Aloha
2006-10-18 22:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Genji_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like a hit and ran to me and you are the only one trying to stay in touch not him let it go and move on unless you like being use over and over when he wants the sex so think don't be no fool good luck
2006-10-18 22:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, I think he's telling you the bond ISN'T too strong to let go.
2006-10-18 22:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do two things. 1. Don't believe him. and 2. Stay in school.
2006-10-18 22:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him if he really likes you and wants to see you he will let you know sometimes thats all it a summer fling
2006-10-18 22:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow Candy
2006-10-18 22:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Doctor Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bond was so strong, he wouldn't be treating you this way. Don't be his convenience! Drop him!
2006-10-18 22:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by abranch98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give time
2006-10-18 22:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by clownjoker17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋