Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

My wife had a surgury that pretty much deleted the idea of sex. I love her very much, but self pleasure only gets you so far. What should I do to get rid of these cravings? I feel horible thinking this way, but that craving is driving me crazy. Any ideas?

2006-10-17 04:08:41 · 22 answers · asked by sum fun 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband used to enjoy giving me oral sex, which I crave. For over a year now, he hasn't devulged in any fore-play and when we do have sex, he just rolls on top of me and does his thing and that's it.
I go to incredible extremes to make sure that I'm asthetically pleasing to all his senses.
Freshly showered every night, shaved, his favorite perfume, etc.
It's a long drawn out process that I put myself through every night before bed just to make sure that in the rare case he wants me, that I'm prepared so that it's a good experience for him.
Should I stop going through all the trouble for someone who obviously doesn't appreciate the effort and just continue with my toys to pleasure myself when I need that kind of stimulation? Or how do I get him interested in oral sex again?

2006-10-17 04:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by princessslave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do to grt her jealous but not mad at me

2006-10-17 04:07:55 · 26 answers · asked by please 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 04:07:19 · 6 answers · asked by Indian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't live without my girlfriend :( my life is going down and I don't know how to get out of this without her being by my side. She told me two weeks ago that she wanted to spent the rest of her life with me and now she hates me and wont even answer my calls. I'm not crazy, please belive me I'm not. I'm just in love with this girl and since she left it seems like my life took a sharp turn for the worse. Please if anyone can relate and tell me how they got over this type of situation, i would really appreciate it.... help please :(

2006-10-17 04:07:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need fast answers! I don't know what to do. There are these 2 girls! They're bullies, they bullied me all last year cause i was the new kid in school! anyway, I have this friend that i met a while ago! At first i wasn't very nice to her cause she asked for paper but i wouldn't give her it, i told her that i needed it! She asked me to help her with her work, i wouldn't even do that, and she wouldn't do anything to help me either! Anyway now these 2 girls taht are bullies. They got in a bit of a fight last week. Now Jamie, one of the bullies is going to meet my new friend in town at lunch time. I don't know what to do! I don't want her to get hurt, she doesn't even know about what's going to happen! I can't find her to tell her not to go! Lunch already just started, and i'm scared that somethings gonna happen! Please tell me what i should do. I want her help her, but i don't know how. I don't want her to suffer the same way i did! What should i do?

2006-10-17 04:06:55 · 17 answers · asked by Kayla B 1 in Friends

please i dont know what to do

2006-10-17 04:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweenychick09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I asking to much from my children's schools bus company? Times have changed.?
I have children that catch the bus from my house. One 1st grader, 2 second graders. 1- 3rd grader , 1- 4thgrader and 1 -5th grader. We live in the Kansas City area and is getting cold. Not only that I am unable to see the bus stop that is at the bottom of the hill at my street. A number of the kids have been labled " hard to handle kids" I and many others have asked that an additional bus stop be made closer to the top of the hill. Were they can be more closley watched. The bus owner has rudly applied that that is were the stop has always been. And there has never been a problem befor. She is very rude and confruntational about the matter and will not even listen to my plea. Other mothers have even called her,and her dimener was the same. I went on line and found a School Bus Scheduling and Routing info for our district. It was adopted JANUARY 18, 1982 revised in 92,99,01. It brakes my heart that they will not acomadate us. Am I asking to much?

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2006-10-17 04:04:51 · 10 answers · asked by Ang 2 in Friends

what did they find irresistable in you?

2006-10-17 04:03:09 · 5 answers · asked by anxiousgirl888 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 7'10 and she is only 4'1.She keeps cuddling my knee when we are out walking. Its handy in the pub right enough as it gives me somewhere to balance my glass when the tables are full;P

Should I buy her a pair of stilts?

2006-10-17 04:03:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Everything was so wonderful between us until about two months ago. One day we got in this huge fight which i admit was mainly my fault and he cheated on me. The very next day he confessed to me what he had done through tears and all. He told me he had kissed her and I broke up with him. I ended up taking him back based on the fact that he had confessed to what he had done and he had only kissed her. Well apparently the guilt was eating him inside out and about a month ago he told me he had not just kissed her but he had slept with her as well. I broke up w/ him again. Well after lots of tears and apologizes and messages from his friends begging me to forgive him, I took him back again. The relationship has been going very well since then but every now and then I think about what he did and it makes me sick to my stomach. I love him so much and i want to be with him. But I don't know if I will ever get over what he did.

2006-10-17 04:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by Jordan23 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a person named "Kushal Samant", whose email address I want find out. He lives in the city of Kudal (India). He is 16 years of age and interested in Computers too. Please, do help me to find his address. Do me a favour and do not post lists of people finding sites, but tell of the results. Thanks for any and every help you render for I an waiting for your positive response.

2006-10-17 04:02:50 · 2 answers · asked by Cephalic 3 in Friends

A man robbed you at gun point, made you take off your clothes, tied u up and performed oral sex on you, than placed your cock inside him would you report this to the cops?

2006-10-17 04:02:38 · 8 answers · asked by ADAM 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband have been together for 6 years and have been trying to have a baby for 2, but no luck and I think its me because as bad as it sounds I dont enjoy having sex with him anymore dont get me wrong i love him i just more or less feel as if it a chore more than for pleasure so I just cant relax how can i change this?

2006-10-17 04:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by rachel h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've only been with one other person (long term - now broken up) and now I'm seeing someone else. I have a really hard time getting over my shyness to do the things I'd like to. Any suggestions? (I've tried having a few drinks, but that just makes me clumsy)

2006-10-17 04:02:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I guess it doesn't matter what sex, but the explanation is usually BS and means nothing more but formal candy-coating so not to hurt the person's feelings. It's never the truth. Am I correct?

2006-10-17 04:01:52 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has stayed out with his guy friends a couple of nights until like six in the morning. He has all these girls on his my space page that talk about how much they cant wait to see him.I dont know what to do. i love him so much.

2006-10-17 04:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by summer2b4u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 04:01:18 · 22 answers · asked by angel_808_69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

last night, a mutual friend of my b/f's and mine came over... and i have been a bit stressed b/c my b/f is acting all nervious when it comes to giving me any type of attention... so therefore my b/f hasn't been giving me hugs/kisses/anything...
also, my family just told me they hated me and dont' claim me as their child anymore, b/c i moved...
so my friend came over... and my b/f knows he comes over on mondays...
i gave him a hug... and we just stopped.. he was holding me... and i fell asleep in his arms... and when my roommates alarm clock wen't off... we just went into my room...
we did not have sex or do anything.. innappropriate... but i am worried that it looks like i cheated...
if you were my b/f would you be upset

well, the backgroud of why i think my b/f would be upset, is that the last girl he dated, cheated with one of his friends...

and i promised my b/f to tell him if anything happens... ever...

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2006-10-17 03:59:35 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or are there more important things she should be given? Why doesnt the female seem to enjoy or look forward to sex as much?

2006-10-17 03:59:33 · 26 answers · asked by kdr32000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a Man of 27 years of age. I am very clear in what 'Real Love' and what 'Lust' is. I have had to contempt with someone whom is 23 years of age ...with their constant inconsistencies ...no matter what ...I have worshipped the floor she walks on, treated her like the Queen, that a woman deserves to be treated right. What i clearly don't understand ...is Hot ...everything is okay, then all of a sudden the usual dose of 'ending it' *Cold* ..which is only a temporary thing. I can be patient ...but i can't hang around for somebody who plays me around ...no matter how much i love them. Why in your opinion is that a woman goes hot and cold with a person ...on / off ...only when it suits them. Always cutting you off ...you always take their **** ...but they are inconsiderate to how the other person is really feeling. Why do Women go hot and cold on a man who they really know loves them ...but yet is abusing the Man's emotions, which would be me. What is one to do. Wait and work it or fly?

2006-10-17 03:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by darkdealx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 03:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by Jim R 1 in Family

what can i do?

2006-10-17 03:57:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriends keeps asking me to play with her puppys but I cant find them

Is it wrong to hide small animals?

2006-10-17 03:56:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 03:55:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to know my mothers and fathers sides if possible.

2006-10-17 03:55:42 · 4 answers · asked by lele 14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you guys look for in a second date? and if a girl kissed you on the second date would you think she was easy? Also when do you expect other things? I am going on my second date with a guy I am attracted to very much and I don't want to send the wrong impression but I also don't want to hold off from sending the right impression. I hope you know what I mean..

2006-10-17 03:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by kalynn h 2 in Singles & Dating

The color i choose for most of my weeding is pink and the centerpieces will have roses as well as the ceremony area

2006-10-17 03:54:06 · 10 answers · asked by twinky 1 in Weddings

2006-10-17 03:53:58 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IT'S BEEN MONTHS SINCE WE HAD SEX. HE CLAIMS IT HAS NOTHING TO DO W/ ME...IT'S A PROBLEM HE HAS. SAYS HE HAS NO INTEREST BECAUSE OF DEPRESSION...BUT OBVIOUSLY HE DOES IF HE IS ON THE PORN SITES??? I HAVE TOLD HIM NUMEROUS TIMES HOW UNSATISFIED AND UNHAPPY I AM...WHY CAN'T HE STILL TAKE CARE OF ME??? I HAVE TOLD HIM THAT PORN DOES NOT BOTHER ME USUALLY...IT'S ONLY BECAUSE I HAVE TO GO W/O...THE FACT THAT HE IS MAKING A CHOICE FOR THAT OVER ME. IF I WERE SATISFIED...THEN I WOULD EVEN ENCOURAGE IT. WHAT AM I NOT UNDERSTANDING HERE???

2006-10-17 03:53:38 · 30 answers · asked by D 1 in Marriage & Divorce