I have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Everything was so wonderful between us until about two months ago. One day we got in this huge fight which i admit was mainly my fault and he cheated on me. The very next day he confessed to me what he had done through tears and all. He told me he had kissed her and I broke up with him. I ended up taking him back based on the fact that he had confessed to what he had done and he had only kissed her. Well apparently the guilt was eating him inside out and about a month ago he told me he had not just kissed her but he had slept with her as well. I broke up w/ him again. Well after lots of tears and apologizes and messages from his friends begging me to forgive him, I took him back again. The relationship has been going very well since then but every now and then I think about what he did and it makes me sick to my stomach. I love him so much and i want to be with him. But I don't know if I will ever get over what he did.
2006-10-17 04:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by Jordan23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's within you...can you truly forgive and can you trust him again?
If you find you cannot, then there is no point in staying together...if you think you can (perhaps with the help of a counselor?) then hang in there...
It's a tough call...but a fight is NOT justification to cheat...what will he do the next time y'all have a fight?
2006-10-17 04:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a guy for three years who cheated on me all the time. And to be honest with you from my experiences I think that you should let him go. Love wont always hold a relationship together and it will eat you up until the relationship is completely over. Everything he does you will have to worry about weither or not he will cheat again. That isnt a healthy relationship. Why have a relationship if you have to worry all the time?
2006-10-17 11:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS if you are asking yourself "should I end it?" the answer is "YES". If you are at that point in a relationship where you are questioning why you are still in it you need to either seek counceling or get out of it.
In your case it sounds like your trust in him has been destroyed. He has done too much, broken too many "rules" for you to just ignore.
Ask yourself "Why would I stay? Do I trust anything he says? Is this the way I want to live - always questioning what he says?"
I think you already know the answer.. you just need us to agree with you. Leave.
2006-10-17 11:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no! Girl when he said he kissed her while tears ran down his face you should've known it was more then that because men won't just boo hoo and hand over a i am sorry song over just kissing a girl. When they've fuked another woman and feel guilty for it that's why there are tears in their eyes.
Dump his sorry *** and kick him in the nutts while you're at it. Make payback feel good.
2006-10-17 11:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by llldeliciously_kissablelll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i can compare to this sooo well..
ok well i was dating my b/f for 7 months and like the last 1 1/2 he was being a real big jerk towars me like telling me he would come to my house and see me or just never call and i wanted to know why..well our friend came to me and told me that he cheated on me (and this friend wouldent lie like that) so i confonted him and of course he denied it well i just couldent take him being a jerk so i dumped him but took him back because i really do love him and when he cried to me and told me he would never do that i guess i belived him but then he told me he did to it so i dumped him and at first i dident want to talk to him but he came to my job looking for me and trhings so i gave him the benifit of a doubt and talked to him..we are good friends now....and i still love him but if you dont feel right about it then dump him but you do have to forgive and forget too...
2006-10-17 11:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself; dump the jerk. infidelity is unforgivable that too so early in a relationship. be strong and follow your heart.
2006-10-17 11:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a threesome
2006-10-17 11:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋