He has stayed out with his guy friends a couple of nights until like six in the morning. He has all these girls on his my space page that talk about how much they cant wait to see him.I dont know what to do. i love him so much.
2006-10-17 04:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by summer2b4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can tell that he is cheating when he starts to blow you off and doesn't want to hang out wit you when he starts to act differnet in front of pepole. he doesn't act like he really likes you any more
2006-10-17 04:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Teri S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always makes things harder when you love them beleave me I know what your talking about. I've been through the myspace thing with my boyfriend. I learned that some people don't care weather your with someone or not. It's hard to know what to do when your not sure your self whats going on because really you have no proof he's doing anything wrong, Right? What I would and did do when I had this problem with my boyfriend was I talked to him I let him know how I felt and what I thought. I let him know that even though these girls on myspace my be in another state or right down the street just talking can lead to anything. You could start exchanging pictures and so on and so on. If you know what I mean. All you can do is explain what your feeling and let it be known what's okay and what's not okay. He will either understand and you can comprimise you know meet half way a relationship is two people not one. Or he won't understand and that is when you will have to deside what you want to do. Either you want to spend the rest of your life the way your feeling right now wondering what's going on with him if he's cheating or not or end it and find someone else. Like mom's always say thereare plenty of fish in the sea.
Only as a last resort if you really want to know SPY and find out the truth your self get his myspace pass word or find out where he's going with his friends and you or send someone you know out to get the dirt. But i do know that 9 times out of 10 if you feel or think somethings going on it probably is. Pay attention there are signs there just harder to see because when you love someone we don't want to see the bad only the good.
2006-10-17 11:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to ask him if he's interested in an exclusive and monogamus relationship - be careful not accuse him of doing anything wrong becuase he may not have done anything wrong. If the girls are saying they'd like to meet him, then that means they haven't met him just yet. He's obviously open enough to keep the girls on his page knowing you'll see them and feel OK about it. If you're insecure and he's not, then perhaps you need to re-evaluate the relationship.
2006-10-17 11:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pierre D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts but if you think that he is cheating then he is. and if yall live to gether and he is staying out untill six in the morning then you go and stay out until seven in the morning
2006-10-17 11:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by ashamalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to see if a man is up to something is check his wallet. I have noticed that a cheating man will keep numbers tucked in his wallet and won't let his wife or gf handle his wallet.
2006-10-17 11:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by llldeliciously_kissablelll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next tme you're with him, take his hand and put them on your face ....close to your nose so you can smell them .... if he is cheating, there could be a 'residual smell' from his cheating ..also, check around his mouth for the same smell ...and don't forget down below too ..
2006-10-17 11:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up, go to the mirror, and say I am better than I am allowing myself to be treated. You love him, but your not loving yourself very much if your gut says he is cheatin' That is not right forget him...Love yourself. You will find someone who truly loves you. It will hurt for a while but honey pull off the bandaid fast not slow.
It hurts less.
2006-10-17 11:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by determined26a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is not cheating on you, he is doing things that you are not comfortable with. Which tells me that your feelings are not very important to him. It is best that you let him know how you feel and if his behavior continues then move on to better things.
2006-10-17 11:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all what you just said is not showing you, than I don't think you will ever know! Just open your eyes!
2006-10-17 11:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things confront him or stake out the place and spy on him.
2006-10-17 11:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋