me and my husband have been together for 6 years and have been trying to have a baby for 2, but no luck and I think its me because as bad as it sounds I dont enjoy having sex with him anymore dont get me wrong i love him i just more or less feel as if it a chore more than for pleasure so I just cant relax how can i change this?
2006-10-17 04:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by rachel h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU HAVE NO NEED TO RELAX IN THE SEX BUT WHENEVER YOU FEEL TIRED YOU TALK ABOUT THE SEX OF OTHER CREATURE IT HELP YOU TO DISCHARGE YOUR HUSBAND QUICKLY AND ALSO HELP YOU TO BE SEXY.
2006-10-17 04:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not enjoying sex with your husband has no relation to your not having a baby. Pregnancy comes from sex, with or without love. If you don't enjoy sex with your husband, it is probably because of lack of variety. Without variety, everything becomes monotonous at first and then gradually unenjoyable. E.g. food. Try to be imaginative in your love making. Try new positions. And more than anything convince your husband to share the new ideas enthusiastically. This way love making will always be an experience to look forward too. And about not having your baby, I think you need to consult some reputed gynaecologist before it is too late.
2006-10-17 05:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are u not relaxed?? There could be many factors as to why ur not relaxed. Are u sure u want a child?? Are stressed because of constant trying and no results.?? I personally would try a romantic evening, just forget about the baby making business even if its for one night and just let it flow. Go with the motions and enjoy each others company .....relaxing should come easy then.
2006-10-17 07:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him directly. Give him your problem. After all, he is the one totally at fault. Keep your private parts clean and then tell him that he must GIVE you Oral Pleasure, without a second thought; he should just do it! He should bring you to multiple-orgasms without a flaw in his presentation! He must do that . . . Then after you become exhausted that is the time that he should nail you. If he can't perform then dump his ***. I know it sounds kind of "Final" and all ... But men need to learn how to respect women and especially show personal respect toward their wives and honies. Men are basically, immature, selfish, and obnoxious. Tell them to go pound salt if they don't want to act right. I hope you do well. Good luck & take care. LuvYa/SAM
2006-10-18 12:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out have dinner see a movie and dont expect to have sex as soon as you stop trying it will happen.did you ever stop to think maybe you dont enjoy sex becouse all you are doing is trying to make something happen?when the time is right you will have a bundle of joy but not untill you are ready and yes stress has something to do with it.you body produces hormes and and when you are stressed it dosent help it is almost like your body is rejecting him and what he has to offer you and your body as silly as it sounds so stop and have fun first good luck
2006-10-17 04:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany_bare2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back and start doing the same things you did when you first enjoyed having sex with him.Example:foreplay,quickies,sex in the car,etc.Spice it up with some sexy lingerie,toys,videos,fruit juices,syrup,whip cream.Try some new positions.
Sex should never be a chore!!!!!!
2006-10-17 05:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by malenymph69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you not relaxed? First find out why then do something about it to relax. What is the point ofhaving a baby with him if you do not like sex with him.
2006-10-17 04:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by linda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entering the anus isn't quite that easy unless you do it regularly and had the sphincter stretched. I wouldn't worry about it happening again as long as you can recognize when the penis pops out of the vagina and immediately take action for reinsertion. All you need to do is take the initiative and do it yourself if he doesn't respond right away.
2016-03-28 12:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Aline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-17 20:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think of it is an enjoyable thing instead of a "duty" to make baby.
2006-10-17 04:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋