Or are there more important things she should be given? Why doesnt the female seem to enjoy or look forward to sex as much?
2006-10-17 03:59:33 · 26 answers · asked by kdr32000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm just guessing but i think it's different with all women......some want to orgasm every time. some probably would prefer to, but do not have to. some probably are unable to, some would like extended amounts of foreplay rather than an orgasm. some would just like to be winded and dined....so i guess my answer is that it depends!
2006-10-17 04:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man, it's important to me that the woman has an orgasm. It's my belief that you reap what you sow, make her feel good, and she'll rock your world. Overall, the fact that I can give a woman an orgasm is an incredible turn on to me. I've had a couple of partners who claimed they weren't able to orgasm. Sorry ladies, that's a challenge to a guy like me. :-)
2006-10-17 04:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by A O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...are you an underage teen who has no clue? I hope so... I'd hate to think a grown person would ask such a question...
But here comes the answer.
Yes it is important that a man pay attention to a woman's desire. The reason so many women aren't interested is because, they have had lovers that leave them hanging...because e thinks it's all about him...
But there are times when the woman...even thoguh she may not feel up to the task...may make it all about you and thats ok too... but never ever leave your woman hanging out there... talk about frustration.
2006-10-17 04:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the female in the relationship, I don't mind if I don't orgasm every time. There are other things that my husband does that are more fulfilling and better to me personally then orgasm. My o's are so intense that sometimes they almost hurt, so I don't mind not always having one!
2006-10-17 04:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by momofmodi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is ! Why would you look forward to , or even enjoy sex if it wasn't fulfilling for each of you ? I cannot understand why the question is even asked! Its' selfish, and self centered to be so out of touch with your partner, I'd be finished with them if it wasn't important to them. If she has no orgasm, I'd be finding out all I could so we could make it happen for her. Other wise, why participate?
2006-10-17 04:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by cryptic1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not a scientist, it seems a little impersonal to refer to someone as "the female". You are objecifying your partner/love. Obviously you are in a relationship or you would not refer to "every time". The problem is that you are not communicating with that one person whose needs are unique and whose interests are just that much different from mine or other women. Get to know her a bit.
2006-10-17 04:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by grapeshenry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of sex are you giving. Females like oral stimulation. Meaning put your mouth on the private spot. Intercourse is for the male pleasure and for pro-creation. Who looks forward to some neanderthal jabbing them with his hate stick.
2006-10-17 04:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's important but its not the 'be all and end all' of sex. If she is struggling to orgasm through intercourse, oral will work EVERY time!
2006-10-17 04:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by вℓαмє_¢αиα∂α 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she does not need an orgasm everytime she has sex. She needs touching and kissing... lots of foreplay. She is the crockpot, you are the microwave oven.
2006-10-17 04:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by robinallsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i seduce my honey almost every night... sometime i get mine, sometimes i don't...but the ego boost i get from spoiling him makes me enjoy it whether i get off or not...all women are different though, so i might just be the oddball here! lol i think i actually look forward to it more than him! but i know he loves it, and never forgets to tell me how lucky he thinks he is to have me! answer you question at all?
2006-10-17 04:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋