Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

I met a guy a month ago. His friend had asked me out, and we 3 went out together but we got along better. Anyway, we had made out, talked etc. Two days later he calls me and tells me it was surreal because of the things we said. We both got out of long-term relationships recently. Anyway, I see him on campus again 2 days after that and we talk. He texts me 3 hours after that, asking me when I want to hang out again. He invites me to his friend's party, and we go. Afterwards, he comes with me to my apartment without me really inviting him, and he spends the night, but no sex. Just made out half-naked. (I have issues with sex, which is why i'm a virgin after a 5 year relationship..)

Well, he calls me 6 hours after he left the next morning saying he felt he couldn't trust me, but he wanted to. Then I hear he's asking my friend about me, and he told my friend that I was "cool, challenging-which he likes, but a lying b*tch." He told my friend that I was smart but he felt he couldn't

2006-10-15 10:47:35 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

dating a guy for about six weeks now and we ran into a problem last night. He lives an hour from me and we both have busy lives, I have two kids and so for us to get together is a real hassle. So earlier in the week, he asks me so when can I see yo and I said how about Friday, and he says he has a surprise party to go to with his family and I said ok then Sat and he says well I can't make any promises cuz I don't know what the family has planned and I said can't you tell them you have to leave since were trying to make plans? So i drop my kids off at Grandma's so I'll be free and he calls me at 4:30 pm on Sat & says oh I can't make it cuz they got tickets to this dinner and I say why didn't u tell them you were coming to see me? I made alot of accommodations so we could be together. Well, our conversation did not end on a happy note and I pretty much told him I was moving on cuz I know where his importance lies,was I out of line? Or do I have a right to be upset?

2006-10-15 10:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my cousins came of for a sleepover. and yea one of my cousins is such a b****!!! She went into my itunes and my music files to see what music i hear, she hears really lame msuic so i dont like her copying me, i mean what right does she have to go and open up my files? Then this morning i was taking a shower when she was in my room because we all slept there. I was blow drying my hair and i could hear her going into my shelves and drawers!!! I cant belive she did that then since my washroom had two doors i went throught the other door and sneeked into my room and i saw her looking through all my stuff!!!! WHAT RIGHT DOES SHE HAVE TO GET TO DO THAT??? Im my grandparents pet so i tell my grandmother and she does NOTHING about it. and she goes like did she find your nintendo ds? and im like no... but its still not right. Because she doesnt know i have a ds since my g-mom bought it for me. Then we go to the mall together and im pissed of at my grandpa cause the thinks that my

2006-10-15 10:47:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to get back with him somehow

2006-10-15 10:46:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They never leave their wives this I now know...Should I inform his wife that he's been having an affair for almost a year? I'm in the angry stages of our seperation...He's in the Military and deploying to Iraq at the begining of 2007...They have children...I want to tell but I don't! So confused..............

2006-10-15 10:46:27 · 26 answers · asked by Medicsgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 10:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by shelbyfireman 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say there was a football jock, soccer jock, preppy guy, nerd, and a normal regular guy. They all had the kind of qualties you look for in a guy and are nice adn respect your wishes, who would you go for?

2006-10-15 10:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by masterurownmind 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

This question is for married men! I always hear advices from women, but I really wanna know what men think!
What is the best thing your wife can do to bring the romance back to your lives? Red roses on the bed, candles, phone call at your office to tell you she love you..? Tell me what you imagine will be the best?

2006-10-15 10:45:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is 38 years old, and I'm 20 years old....I understand that the 18 year age difference between my cousin and I is a huge age difference. However, this is my junior year of college, and im taking on a lot more responsibilities....which proves that im no longer a child. How can i get my cousin to see me as an adult and not as a 5 year old child?

2006-10-15 10:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by cutegirlie008 1 in Family

I have like heard that guys like uh hit girls when they like them! Well there is dis guy, he is like hella hot. Like uh smoking hot! Well, we were at da bar last nite and he like uh popped me one in the nose, like uh hard! He even like broke my nose! Does this means he uh likes me and wants a more uh sexual relationship?

I just dunno, you know! And then was like told that guys uh like it when we hit and stuff them when we like them. So, I doused him in uh what's that stuff called? Oh yeah, lighter fluid. Then I like lit a match. He went up like a uh Christmas tree! It was like so major funny and he like screamed my name for like thirty minutes. Then the uh, what are they called, oh yeah fearmen came and put him out. The parmists took him in a bus I guess. I dunno, I never saw no bus. Should I tell him I want to be his GF? I dunno what to like do!

2006-10-15 10:45:12 · 20 answers · asked by Social_D 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 10:44:25 · 8 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always worked fulltime while raising my 2 daughters(with my husband)until a few weeks ago. During that time, all my spare time was with my kids and my friends were all coworkers. Now my life isnt at the office and my former friends werent loyal friends after all. Should I worry that I have no friends and how can I get to know people without looking desperate.

2006-10-15 10:43:55 · 19 answers · asked by capecoddmh 1 in Friends

honestly i don't belive in all that bull **** about love. but i guess it would be nice to have a really wonderful boyfriend who doesn't only want sex from me. but most guys aren't serious about relationships, especially around my age (16) but i've seen a few rare couple who've lasted. i am a very sensitive and vernerable person. so if a guy breaks my heart im probably going to give him hell.

2006-10-15 10:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by BuryMe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy that I like found out that I like him and I think he likes me but i'm not sure. There are rumors that he likes me but that s just rumors. He founnd out a week or two ago. What should I do

2006-10-15 10:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well thier this boy in my school that i like but we dont really talk cause we have no class together but one day when i was going in to the lunch room, he was behind me and my friend was saying hi to his friend and his friend told my i like your hair cause i had just dyed it and he was like i like ur hair and he was all touching it but i didnt pay any mind in tell i saw him and he was so cute lol ...well i want to start talking to him but i dont know how help me please!!!!!

2006-10-15 10:41:21 · 3 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Singles & Dating

I get turned on by girls "doing it" and so i think im a lesbian...am i? if i am, is it wrong to be a lesbian? is it wrong in the Bible? Cause i love God but i dont know if what i am is wrong.

2006-10-15 10:40:45 · 29 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend proposed last week and the engagement ring he picked out has a band that is "staggered" (looks kind of like a V) It will need a wrap, and we plan on going back to where he bought it to get one, but does this sound familiar to anyone? I looked on the net but all the wraps I see are for bands that are the normal circle with a solitaire in the middle.
Help??

2006-10-15 10:40:37 · 4 answers · asked by Kat 6 in Weddings

she is goin to have my baby and her family hate me she have to lie to see me and it kill me. we been close for 2 years and came close to gettin married but it never happend, but we are still tring but it just getting hard everyday i dont see her. and we done get to talk alot anymore

2006-10-15 10:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by weezy 1 in Weddings

My ex has asked me to move in with her and my daughter. I love my daughter and I see her every weekend and even more. I would love to live with my daughter and be able to see her everyday but I have a problem with her mom. I can't stand to be in the same room with her. Should I forget the feelings I have for the ex to be able to see my daughter everyday or should I keep things as they are? My daughter is getting to the age where she needs a fathers guidence. (13) I want to do this but the idea of living with the ex is revolting. Can this work?

2006-10-15 10:39:46 · 37 answers · asked by SOXFAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dose n-e one knoe what a condom is, what it look like ect.

2006-10-15 10:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 10:39:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Situation:
A guy gets mad because a girl is wearing a pair of ugly shorts to bed one night. He asks her nicely to change them because he thinks she is too beautiful to be wearing rags. She says no because she says that she is comforatable and likes the shorts and would like to keep them on and would like to be loved no matter what she is wearing.
Guy is upset for hour before going to sleep because he hates to see her in "ugly" clothes.

2006-10-15 10:38:52 · 20 answers · asked by souplane21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just learnt sooo much. And I feel that a prospective employer might be quite impressed with it. I'm looking for creative ways to squeeze it into my resume without making it look like I'm bragging, I mean, after all, I am on level 5!

2006-10-15 10:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Even after 25 years my heart feels numb thinking back to the day my daughter died unexpectedly from a health problem. I go through the motions day in and day out....thinking of all the good memories...that we shared with her. She was 22 when she died just beginning to live and find her place in life. It's so unbelievable so many years have passed. She would be 47 now. Life goes on but it's like you are not complete with the children you gave birth to. I know I'm not alone. Just wanted to reach out to other parents who share the same loss. I have my faith in God and know she is in a better place. My heart tells me this and at the same time I miss her. thanks for sharing with me.

2006-10-15 10:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom found out that i had a BF, she wasn't too happy about it. i tried talking to her about it, but she said she couldn't trust me with him...or any other guy. Mom also told me that i had to break up with him, but i really really REALLY don't want too...i love him way to much! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-15 10:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend "Dee" started chatting on myspace with an author who we both admire. I admire the work because we share a common background & because I am an emerging writer/producer. Dee sought my help to have his work adapted to film. I added the author to my friends list to help promote his book. I got an apology message from him that he told "Dee" we were chatting & she freaked out. He tried to explain to her that he was just joking. In reality, I have never spoken with him until he sent me that message. Now, Dee has deleted me from her friends list. She's obviously upset at me but never even asked me about it & just assumed that what some wack on the internet tells her is true.. This shows how much trust she has in me as a friend. So what do I do? Do I try to explain to her that we never chatted or do I just blow her off? She has used me to get to men in the past. I don't even know if it's the real author or just a fake.

2006-10-15 10:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Friends

I have a friend, me and her have always been close and told each other everything, we used to talk constantly, even if it was unimportant. She lives in another city, and we have always keep close contact through MSN, but meet up every so often. we used to text each other multiple times a day, talk alot in the evening and send one another gifts and the like every now and then.
Lately it seems as though she does not show an interest, I have asked her and she says she does. But when we talk now the convosation 'dies' quickly within minutes, and ussualy results in me scraping to try find anything to talk to her about.
I know she has become good friends with another couple, they live closer and they visit them once a week or so and seems as if they get on very well, maybe as well as we used to.

What should i do to try regain her interest, or isit worth not doing anything at all and letting her come to me? I miss the way we acted to one another. I feel empty.

Can any one help?

2006-10-15 10:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Friends

im getting paranoid about my husband seeing someone else hes started going out more with mates we been together 10 years he never use to go out its driving me mad

2006-10-15 10:36:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a borderline personality and I am bipolar. I am currently getting help for this now. I am talking to this guy right now and he knows about my problems. I over-reacted to him staying out late and kicked him out of my house. I said I was sorry and asked for another chance and I asked him to come back and he said he has to think about it and not to rush him. I don't want to rush him but I have the feeling that he thinks that I'm going to hurt him because he made the comment when I tryed to explain why I over-reacted that he knew it going to happen and that we were going to break up. I wasn't seeing him for the person he is I was seeing all the people that had hurt me in the past and I thought he was going to hurt me to. I made a mistake for not realizing that he is not the people from my past he is himself and I lost sight of that. I didn't give him a chance and I do understand if he doesn't want to give me a chance now after what happen. I don't know what to do any ideas?

2006-10-15 10:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend for a long time. i'm happy, he is great and everyhting is fine. but lately i've been feeling like i need more, in this relationship everyhting feels so the same. i love him and i would never want to loose him as a friend. i dont know what to do. its like u2 said ."i cant live with or without you"

2006-10-15 10:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating