i've been with my boyfriend for a long time. i'm happy, he is great and everyhting is fine. but lately i've been feeling like i need more, in this relationship everyhting feels so the same. i love him and i would never want to loose him as a friend. i dont know what to do. its like u2 said ."i cant live with or without you"
2006-10-15 10:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for your help guys. but we have tlaked about this. its not that i'm bored. and you might think i sound like a terrible person i guess its the fact that i'm scared. you know. he was my first boyfriend ... it's tough for my to explain how i feel i just wanted to know everyones ideas... thanks guys
2006-10-15 11:50:50 · update #1
May be you got too serious, at a young age, and now you feel as if you have not been out their, In other words, you feel as though you are missing something. Then sometimes. some people, are never satisfy, are you one of those people? they think the grass is greener on the other side, and when they get over their, they find out, they wish they had been grateful for what they had.
2006-10-15 11:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the both of you just need to do different things together. It sounds like you still love him but would rather it be less of a routine relationship. Relationships can only work if there is communication. Tell him how you are feeling!!!
2006-10-15 10:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him. Tell him that things are stagnant right now, and he needs to start getting creative.
Now, another thing you need to realize, bored people are usually boring people. So instead of sitting back and wondering what's going wrong, you could do some things to jazz up your relationship yourself.
You say yourself, you like the guy...things just aren't very fun right now. That's up to both of you to make it that way.
2006-10-15 10:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is wrong with relationship anyway? What changes are you looking for? What differences would you like to see in the relationship?
2006-10-15 10:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you need more of? If you're getting bored, find some new things to try and do. Or busy yourself with other things, so when you do hook up again, you miss him so much, it doesn't matter.
2006-10-15 10:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about your feelings, be honest. You might need to spice up your relationship, try new things, etc.
2006-10-15 10:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by roadnurse_95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want and be completely honest with him and yourself. Don't hold anything back. You have to put your heart right out there. I know it sounds crazy but you will be surprised how well it works. Guys want to know what you want and you will be surprised to find out it is exactly what they want.
2006-10-15 10:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the first entusiasm is gone... It happens sooner or later. Apparently some prefer it sooner but it happens anyway- sooner or later
2006-10-15 10:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by dolcette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something spontaneous, out of the ordinary...if it doesnt work out talk to him, try changing your routines...if you guys love each other, we'll be able to work something out, trust me...dance in the rain, suprise him on occasions, send secret notes, small gifts, kisses and stuff like that...tell him u want something different....
2006-10-15 10:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by cici_amor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is always ask him how are you, and talk more, try and change your relationship not to the max but to the minumum.
2006-10-15 10:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by da202101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋