Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

i like this girl in my english class. i talk to her once in a while but wen i asked her if she liked me she said NO !!! but the problem is that now she looks at me with a smile on her face. like for example i was talking 2 my friend b4 class and i was standing by the door and she was looking right at me smiling. like one time i gave her a note and told her 2 stop calling me chi chi, because i dont like it. anyways i saw her walking in the hallway and instead of saying HI chi chi she called me by my first name and wen she said it she had a smile on her face. then the other day she asked me if i can lend her a pencil. then after class she was about to give it back but she was about to call me chi chi then she smiled and called me by my 1st name. one time i was talkin 2 my friend and she came outta no where and asked why i was in her but she had a smile, and one time i gave her a lil tap and she hit back. i don't what is happening does she like me or she doesnt or is playing with me idk

2006-10-15 11:23:09 · 12 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i have this friend named "Chris". we are totally friends. not close ones, just friends. ok. done.

he seems to act a little interested in me, but i'm not sure! i sure think HE's cute! what would you do?

i don't want to lose this friendship over me pursuing a crush...

2006-10-15 11:22:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I wanna know what makes an ex think "Darn! Wish I hadn't let that one get away."

2006-10-15 11:22:18 · 6 answers · asked by Tericka 4 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i ran into one night and we really hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they are friends)he listened and understood.he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman.things were awkward the next morning when he left,a mutual freind told me he likes me but is freaked about my ex(who is still trying to get me back)i saw him once since then and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there so we had to keep quiet.It has been 7months since and i still think about him.i tried sending him a texta fewmonths ago and never got a reply.there is this yearly party comingup and both my ex and him will be there(i dont mind seeing the ex,fori am over him)i want to see this otherguy inhopes oftalking to himagain,although he rsvp'd forhimselfplus a guest,so i assume he is bringing a date,should I give up?

2006-10-15 11:21:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my friends right now are dating and have boyfriends. I want a boyfriend really badly. I'm jealous of my friends however, in a way I'm happy for them however, I'm jealous I'm I still acting immaturely?

2006-10-15 11:21:14 · 10 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

On my ex's profile, he changed it all, and now apparently he's into a relationship.. yet he did the same thing as he did to his last ex before me.. bragged it in he was into another relationship.
I never knew it was to make someone jealous, until coming towards the ending of the relationship.
The last month, while we were engaged he grabbed my hand, and said.. we should get married. Then around 2 weeks of the split, he was with someone else.. then another, and then finally he said he broke it off cause it was too weird, and he missed me, and still loved me, etc.. then we were going to try to make thing's work, but then when he started to spend all kinds of hours out late, I questioned it, and finally he told me he was dating someone else.
After all this $hit.. I can explaiin why I kept going back, and I know it's wrong for me to consider it.. but it's a rough time now..I can't imagine seeing someone else, can you please give me some advice that helped you into a simlilar time?

2006-10-15 11:21:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met up with this girl recently and we had so much fun on our first date. the way we met was so unique, almost as if it was meant to be. but on the date she told me that i was the sweetest guy she has ever met, and that i was so different and unique than anybody she knows. I felt the sameway about her. couple days later i call her up and she says shes really confused and is gonna call me back later. she never called, but text me. she says her ex that she was seeing for 2 years wants another chance. she said that she used to love him but he always treated her wrong, and that nobody in her family liked him. it got me so mad how she didnt tell me this in the beginning but i like her so much that i still wanted her as my girl. her sister told me that she really liked me and that i should keep trying. so i wrote her a poem gave it to her, but she never talked to me bout it....she just keeps tellin me that shes confused. now im wondering if i should keep waiting for her or should i move on?

2006-10-15 11:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi reacently my wife has been going around a friends house next door but ones! they have been having chats till early hours in the morning.
Last night she went other the the other womens house and she said before leaving that she wouldnt be late. I waited up till 12.30am still no sign, i eventually went to bed! I woke up at 4.50am to my suprise she wasnt next to me in bed! at this time our 16 month old baby was crying I decided to text my wife and ask her were she was! couple of minutes later she came through the bedroom door and dropped the bombshell she had shared a passionate kiss with another man! She says its because we dont connect anymore and the man paid her attention! she said she kissed him at about 2.00am but she never arrived home till I texted her at 4.50am! so what happened in between them hours she wont confined in me! she now tells me she loves me but how can I trust her she must not of thought what the consequeces would of been. has she commited ADULTRY?

2006-10-15 11:20:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just wanted to say i'm really flattered that you care so much about me
and am really happy about it too
you're a really nice, caring guy
and i really appreciate your honesty and kindness

wha do you think ?

2006-10-15 11:18:51 · 28 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that like me and I havt told him that I have a bf but he still flirts with me and did I tell you he has a gf? well yeah and he is alweays writeing me notes and telling me im hot and stuff like that and it is getting really anoying how do I tell him? I don't want to be a jerk.

2006-10-15 11:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by Sabra Lindahl 1 in Friends

ok you all have been very helpful in the past so I need help again. Everyones great by the way! ok now down to business. I broke up with this guy and now we r back together after a couple of months, both of us have been miserable apart. anywayz we were suppose to meet friday night and hang out but he never showed and he told me on wed. he would. so i called his phone a million times and no answer so i called him mom and she said he was with a friend doing some work from thur-sun. Then finally he calles me friday night and acts like im no1 special not even his gf so i was mad and i got over it but he told me he was in lousiana bc he works off shore but he wasnt suppose to be there till this comin thur with his dad. But he did say he was going to try to get a week on and a week off instead of like his dad . his dad gets 2 weeks on and 1 off i think. then i called his phone yesterday and a girl answered what does this sound like to you guys?

2006-10-15 11:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by Hollagirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is almost useless, he has nothing to offer and basically treats me like crap all of the time. He is childish and annoying, and I have no sexual attraction towards him. I miss having a sex drive towards a guy so badly and almost can't stand the horrible sex life we have anymore. He is like a five year old child. He also ignores me and keeps leaving and not spending time with me and then always has an excuse why. He is selfish and uses everyone with no consideration for what they do for him. Yet he always insults me and tells me what a lousy person I am. I am so unhappy and I want to leave this relationship but I get too lonely and bored. It is out of the question to break up with him so what else can I do?

Should I look for other guys while I'm with him and then dump him when I find someone? Should I just treat him like crap back and not do anything I don't want to do for him? What should I do? I'm lonely emotionally and want to be loved and cared for.

2006-10-15 11:18:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I get over my ex if I have to see him almost everyday. I have a baby with him and another one on the way but we are not together. Now he is seeing his son alot. When we see eachother in the park for him to see the baby, he doesnt include me in any activities with the baby. I feel kind of left out on top of the fact that I am broken hearted. He acts like he just does not care about me anymore and it has only been 1 week that we are broken up. He left the house, changed his address, and just calls me for the baby. Its so hard to see him and know that me and him are not together anymore. Can someone help in how to deal with this situation?

2006-10-15 11:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Say that you are you mid-making out half-naked, but no sex..and then we stop and talk. The guy then says "Please kiss me like you mean it for once."

I then laughed at him and said "what is this? Out of a romance novel." And I continue laughing...

What did he want? Why did he say something like that?

2006-10-15 11:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been talking to a girl online and i asked her if we could talk on the phone and she said we can when she is ready too. we have been talking online for two weeks

2006-10-15 11:16:06 · 14 answers · asked by Matthew P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 11:14:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why is i sooo hard to get over someone who you couldnt have? Even though u think u are over it just seems like you still want him at the same time!

2006-10-15 11:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by Tess c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a little older than this guy we've been friends 4 almost 4 months now. he went away to college 2 hours away but we flirt a lot on here. we were very affectionate(hugging mostly). I want to kiss him but he has never kissed a girl b-4 and has no experience with even hanging 1 on 1 with girls, so what signs should I give him(physicallY) that I want him to kiss me or that I might kiss him?one time I almost kissed him. I was laughing and saying I was tired and I layed on him and I almost kissed him but I hadn't told him I liked him yet. a week I told him.that was 3 months ago.he knows I like him, we flirt and are going to see each other on winter break. any advice on what signs I should show him?I know he's nevous so I want 2 help him be more confident about it

2006-10-15 11:13:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its so hard. we've been together for two years & we live together. he took me to look at rings for mos. & told me to pick one for sure & said he wanted to be engaged by Christmas & then 2 weeks ago he suddenly didnt know what he wanted & wasnt sure if it was the right thing & the ring came in the mail 2 days ago & he is sending it back & I am so sad & hurt & I just feel like I have no choice but to end our relationship, because is it possible that he really loves me if he is going back on his word like that? I just think he must not really love me even though he says he does & says he doesnt want to break up-

2006-10-15 11:13:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out yesterday that my boyfriend cheated on me wednesday night. Tuesday morning I was instructed by my doctor to not have sex for ten days so that when I returned for my depo-provera shot the preganacy test would be negative. His reason for cheating the very next day was because he was going to be sexually starved. Eventhough the doctor said no vaginal sex, I was available and open to oral sex as much as he wanted. Supposedly he didnt have vaginal sex, he only engaged in oral sex with a hand job( without protection). So, is his reasoning legit or a sorry *** SOB?

2006-10-15 11:13:26 · 22 answers · asked by mslilbit24 2 in Singles & Dating

One night a few months back i was at the corner bar and the bartender and i seemed to hit it off,i gave him my card(for a haircut,i cut hair)and he said"what if i dont need a haircut and i just want to call you"so i gave him my number also.i left the bar and went to a freinds house,he found out i was there and came over(he isfriends with them too)i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor.he drove me to my car in the morning and i left it casual with"see you soon".he never called and i heard through a friend he has a girlfriend.A few weeks later i went up to the bar again and he said hi to me as soon as i walked in,his girlfriend was there,but he did not act strange.she left,later that night i left and he yelled"i love you"to me but i kept walking out the door.A mutual friend told me he really does not want to be with the girl he is with.Everytime im up there he tries to stop me before i leave,but usuallyi just walkout thedoorbecause idont wanttogetinvolved with him+girlfrie

2006-10-15 11:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i know?
how do i know if a guy likes me , guy #1 teases me and talks to me alot friday he told me his wiener was 5 inches long, or guy #2 looks at me alot talks to me , makes me laugh ,throws paper at me out of nowhere . and scribbles on my papers,guy #3 talks to me teases me ,makes me laugh friday he saw i didnt run 2 laps but 4 and he asked me why and stood up for me when boys where telling me to run when i was done .so wich one likes me or all of them or nome of them and how do yo tell?

2006-10-15 11:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is she trying to tell me im not macho?

2006-10-15 11:11:27 · 22 answers · asked by B B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy at my school and I like him. I recently found out he lives on the same street as me and has the same birthday as me. Also i think he likes me too. We both like some of the same music and we talk almost everyday. does it sound like we should get together if he happened to ask me. does it sound like we would be good together.

2006-10-15 11:10:59 · 9 answers · asked by sykochipmunk 1 in Singles & Dating

i've had boyfriends before but i really want one now!
i' m about to go to high school,
how do i flaunt what i got


(also i'm not like some loser, i'm really popular, but usually ppl dont ask me out...)

2006-10-15 11:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just started going out with this one boy and i am nervous about talking to him.
how do i come up with a good conversation.
i really love him.

2006-10-15 11:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by laura_jamela 2 in Singles & Dating

A first time marriage has a per centage applied to it of the chance of success (success being defined as staying happily [more or less] married till death do one of you part).
With each successive divorce/death of mate and remarriage it would seem like the odds go down.
At what point (mate number n) would the odds become vanishingly small?
That is, Me be your 8th husband? Forget about it. It won't last.

2006-10-15 11:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by deepndswamps 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What they sayabout guys with big hands and feet?

2006-10-15 11:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Chris TM 1 in Singles & Dating

But shes started letting him back into there life again.
Ok last night a group of us where all at the pub and then we went back to my best friends house for a party. It went on till early hours of the morning and she was asleep on the couch and the rest of us where just chatting and listening to music. Her man got up and started dancing and trying to rub his crutch in my face but I laughed it off. A wee while later I decided it was time to go home to my man. And he said he would come outsiade and wait for a taxi with me, outside he started complementing by behind which I laughed of again and told him to give over cos she was hoping they would get back together. Then he started grabbing my butt and trying to kiss me then I told him to stop because she would kill him if she saw him but he replyed 'she cant see this far down the garden I already checked' I ended up just running back in the house and waiting for my taxi.
But why do I feel guity I didnt do anything.

2006-10-15 11:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by sexie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 11:06:19 · 3 answers · asked by nia r 1 in Friends