One night a few months back i was at the corner bar and the bartender and i seemed to hit it off,i gave him my card(for a haircut,i cut hair)and he said"what if i dont need a haircut and i just want to call you"so i gave him my number also.i left the bar and went to a freinds house,he found out i was there and came over(he isfriends with them too)i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor.he drove me to my car in the morning and i left it casual with"see you soon".he never called and i heard through a friend he has a girlfriend.A few weeks later i went up to the bar again and he said hi to me as soon as i walked in,his girlfriend was there,but he did not act strange.she left,later that night i left and he yelled"i love you"to me but i kept walking out the door.A mutual friend told me he really does not want to be with the girl he is with.Everytime im up there he tries to stop me before i leave,but usuallyi just walkout thedoorbecause idont wanttogetinvolved with him+girlfrie
2006-10-15 11:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say that u should forget about him, if he truley liked u and wanted to be with u, he would have dumped that girl quicker than you can say "break up" and have asked you out. It's sounds like the guy isn't too dedicated, if he does this with his current girlfriend, how do u know he won't do the same thing to you?
2006-10-15 11:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by mattyboycommy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right not to get involved with someone that has a girlfriend. but maybe you should just come out and tell him that you are aware that he has a girlfriend and that you are not interested. now lets take this a little further. lets say you find out that he is no longer with this girl and he asks you out then. would you go out with him?? i will give you the advise on that scenario right now before you come on here a month from now and ask. i would not go out with him. because here he is trying to hook up with you even though he has a girlfriend, so who's to say he would not do that to you too.
2006-10-15 18:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away If he has a girlfriend hes the looking worse hitting on you when he is already with someone.
What if you got together he could be doing the same to the other customers to.
2006-10-15 18:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by sexie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never be with a guy you met at a bar...
2006-10-15 18:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋