ok you all have been very helpful in the past so I need help again. Everyones great by the way! ok now down to business. I broke up with this guy and now we r back together after a couple of months, both of us have been miserable apart. anywayz we were suppose to meet friday night and hang out but he never showed and he told me on wed. he would. so i called his phone a million times and no answer so i called him mom and she said he was with a friend doing some work from thur-sun. Then finally he calles me friday night and acts like im no1 special not even his gf so i was mad and i got over it but he told me he was in lousiana bc he works off shore but he wasnt suppose to be there till this comin thur with his dad. But he did say he was going to try to get a week on and a week off instead of like his dad . his dad gets 2 weeks on and 1 off i think. then i called his phone yesterday and a girl answered what does this sound like to you guys?
2006-10-15 11:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by Hollagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-15 11:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay- I think this guy is messing w/ you. Hes hot one minute & cold the next & I think he's just impulsive & selfish w/ no regard for your feelings. And you calling him a million times & calling his mother makes him think that you have it so bad for him that he can do whatever he wants & you'll still want him & that a BS situation to be in. If I were you I'd move on- & find a great guy who will treat you the way you deserve. Remember; call once, THATS IT until they call you back, even if its a day or two, dont call again! If they dont call you back w/in a day or two they're not worth your time-
2006-10-15 18:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that "Relationship" ASAP.
He does not at all seem interested
usually when people break up and get back together again it is stronger. My guess is that he has someone else and is keepin you on the side. It does not seem like he respects you. I say let him go and start a new chapter in your life with someone who is really into you and would never miss a moment being with you
Best of Luck
2006-10-15 18:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's been pretending you're still broken up! A girl answering his phone when he is suposedly off shore is as good as a slap in the face. Wake up and stop calling him. Find someone else.
2006-10-15 18:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me, he wants you when he wants you and when he does not he does this stupid stuff. He thinks he can pull you along on a leash. I think you need to just cut this relationship in the bud. I know it hurts but you don't need all this mess either. The guy is not into this second time around relationship like you are. Relationships are about trust and honesty and I don't see that from him. You need to just say your good-byes to him.
2006-10-15 18:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...he is like a slippery fish...you have him one minute then he gets away again.....does he have many gfs....do you think and he likes the attention...he might be giving all of them the same story....I think I'd let this fish get away and back into the sea....you can find another one who will treat you with respect and care more about your feelings instead of his....Best of luck.....I don't know the guy..but something smells fishy....on the oil rig....
2006-10-15 18:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not trying to jump into conclusions but if i were in your situation i would be a little distraut. first because he stood you up, then you cannot even find him, and when you call him a girl answers the phone, that cant be good. but i still think that you should talk to him face to face and ask him what happened, and who was the girl who answered the phone. he might be faithful but then again he might not.
2006-10-15 18:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has you as a back up plan. This guy is a player, and he's playin you. Get rid of him! You deserve better than that.
2006-10-15 18:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to dump his sorry *** and get someone that REALLY cares about you. It sounds like he's cheating on you and you need to get out of the relationship b/c you deserve better. good luck!
2006-10-15 18:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Blonde and Proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has not necessarily dumped you fully yet, but is probably seeing at least ONE other gal. If he can have you too, I'm sure he'd be happy. But would you?
2006-10-15 18:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he found someone else ,even if it was just a one night stand ,move on with your life
2006-10-15 18:27:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋