Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

I have a live in boyfriend the sex has dried up and we never speak i have tried to keep things alive but they have gone totally
Today at work i kissed a fellow worker whom made my heart skip a beat i cannot get this other guy out of my head could you give me some pointers on how to let my boyf down gently we have been together 4 years

2006-10-15 11:05:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess he's kind of my friend now. We sometimes make out, half naked. No sex. We both just got out of long-term relationships. Anyway, we both get lots of action from the opposite sex in terms of them wanting to date us. However, while I'm a virgin at 20, he's been with 7 girls at 23. I don't know what he wants from me. We talk about deep, intellectual stuff, and we don't have sex. He doesn't really pressure me, although one time I went back to his place so he thought that I wanted to have sex with him and he bought condoms. I then rejected him flat out calling him a male slut. He told me I didn't know what I was talkign about. I told him he was cheapening himself. After we party together, he comes back to my apartment to sleep. No cuddling. We talk about other people we date.

We both reject a lot of people, not to sound pompous, but it's true. He said that he's rejected a "a ton of a**" when I asked him if he wanted sex from me.

I asked him "Why do you talk to me if you know you

2006-10-15 11:05:56 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up 5 months ago. We had a bad break up. I lied to her a couple of times. I have been seeing a therapist and she has made me a better person. Before we broke up, we had a date set up for marriage and we were talking kids. We have talk twice since then but it was a quick hello. I would like to know what I can do to win her heart back. She told me she really loved me after we broke up and I want to see if there is still something there. I miss her & do love her. I don't know if she misses me and that is something I would like to know too.

2006-10-15 11:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by Red R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in 7th grade and jake is in 8th. hes my ex, and i never meant to like him again, but our friendship has grew and were always dropping hints that we like each other still. ive decided that i should tell my friend haley to tell him something. jake and haley fight a lot, but he tells her everything anyways. their like friends but they basically hate each other, you know? well jake has told haley that he still likes me and i think we should just...you know...work things out, maybe go out again. but i cant just go up to him and ask him out, because if he says no, 1) ill be embarrased. 2) our friendship may be ruined forever. thats why i want haley to tell jake that i still like him and i wanna go out with him again, just have her tell him like its a big secret of mine that she shouldnt be telling him so he doesnt think i totally set him up or something. so should i? or should i just leave it to him?
btw, dont tell me im too young...my mom even thinks i should go out with jake again!!

2006-10-15 11:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im leaving for 7 weeks an my gfwill b stayin here do u think she will stay faithful we been together for 3 months an she sez she realli loves me but she has been unfaithfulin the past with x bfsdo u think she will wi th me?

2006-10-15 11:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by cobra karn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 11:03:33 · 20 answers · asked by keith0866 2 in Singles & Dating

does it mean he likes you or somethnig else

2006-10-15 11:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl is in a couple of my classes and we speak here and there, but i asked her out and she said she would think about it. Well the next day she said "there was to much drama in her life right now but she would like to remain frineds" What does that mean? Did i get rejected, but in a nice way?


Any help would be grealty appreciated, thanks!

2006-10-15 11:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by Paul 2 in Singles & Dating

We all have our own "love languages"...so for you (and give an example if you wish), what means of communicating love do you respond to the best? A kind word (spoken or written)? Cleaning the house? Just hanging out together? Phyisical affection? A gift "just because"?

2006-10-15 11:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I Gotta song from someone>> (It was all about love and missing the girl after she lefts or is lost from him. He is cryin and tryin to find that girl. )
But i really dont understand why that guy sent that song to me.. I just said like Woow thats my favourite singer.. so can anyone help me..

2006-10-15 11:02:05 · 9 answers · asked by Sensitvie g 1 in Friends

I overheard my husbands friend complaining that his wife of 6 years does not care about her appearance anymore. He was complaining that on her off days, she wears tattered sweats all day and never combs her hair. Sometimes when we go out on a double date she never dresses up. She might wear an old pair of jeans, an oversized t-shirt and some sneakers. He dresses nice all the time and sometimes, they don't even look like a couple because he always looks nice and she always looks dirty. When they first met, she always wore nice clothes, and her hair was always neat and that's what attracted him to her. I do not apply make up everyday but I always put on clean, nice clothes. I always comb my hair even if it's just back into a neat ponytail and when I do this I will put on some cute earrings and my husband always compliments me. I do this for myself because it's the way I was taught as a girl. How many women have kept up their appearance since marriage?

2006-10-15 11:01:35 · 16 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 11:01:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can anyone help? ive recently moved away from the person i loved and i cant stop thinkin of them im always talkin to them and its so so ahrd and i dont know what to do they tell me that they do still care loads about me and im madly in love with them still i wanna mve back and, i moved away coz i was suffering from depression as i lost a close friend last christmas i jus dont no wot to do? please dont say get over her because i cant!!

2006-10-15 11:00:23 · 12 answers · asked by chlo j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-15 10:59:08 · 8 answers · asked by boxer111 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 10:58:10 · 9 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not a queer or anything like htat but my and one of my friends are struggling with this topic

2006-10-15 10:57:19 · 5 answers · asked by Susan Parson 1 in Singles & Dating

how long does it take for the judge to sign an order of default?

2006-10-15 10:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i know if a guy likes me , he teases me and talks to me alot , or guy #2 looks at me alot talks to me , makes me laugh ,throws paper at me . and scribbles on my papers,guy #3 talks to me teases me ,makes me laugh so wich one likes me or all of them or nome of them and how do yo tell?

2006-10-15 10:56:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do with an extra inch or two?

2006-10-15 10:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 10:55:12 · 2 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Friends

I told my girlfriend I will be on a trip for one week,she call my husband after I was gone for just two days 9:00pm, my husband never like her and did not answer her call, when I came home I ask her why she call even she knew I will gone for one week, she said she just want to see if I'm home yet. I know she lie all the times,anyone guess what is acturary in her mind.

2006-10-15 10:54:51 · 33 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this girl in my english class. i talk to her once in a while but wen i asked her if she liked me she said NO !!! but the problem is that now she looks at me with a smile on her face. like for example i was talking 2 my friend b4 class and i was standing by the door and she was looking right at me smiling. like one time i gave her a note and told her 2 stop calling me chi chi, because i dont like it. anyways i saw her walking in the hallway and instead of saying HI chi chi she called me by my first name and wen she said it she had a smile on her face. then the other day she asked me if i can lend her a pencil. then after class she was about to give it back but she was about to call me chi chi then she smiled and called me by my 1st name. one time i was talkin 2 my friend and she came outta no where and asked why i was in her but she had a smile, and one time i gave her a lil tap and she hit back. i don't what is happening does she like me or she doesnt or is playing with me idk

2006-10-15 10:54:10 · 16 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay let's begin.
I wash the dishes, take out the trash, collect all the cans & bottles, clean the bathroom, do the laundry, help cook dinner, mow the lawn, help build sheds, move furniture YET i still don't DO ENOUGH TO RECEIVE AN ALLOWANCE. anyways, when we go out to fast food restaurants he does buy me a meal only my little brother and my little sister. I have to skip studying and my daily reading, which is for a book report because it takes two hours to cook dinner. I can't go upstairss while dinner is being made. I have to wash dishes it there is only two dishes in the sink. He wakes me up in the middle of the night because my brother wet his pants and he does not want to DEAL WITH IT. I don't go out on the weekends because HE NEEDS HELP. I don't party. I don't do drugs. Now I'm failing because i don't have to time to finish my homework or study. any advice, tips, comments, etc.

2006-10-15 10:52:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love him, and I want him to get better, but his penis is only about 4 1/2 inches. How can I work around that?

2006-10-15 10:51:42 · 21 answers · asked by Shal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 10:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hilda L 1 in Singles & Dating

if he really likes me?

2006-10-15 10:50:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a virgo female that has been talking to a pisces male. I like him alot and he knows this. He tells me the same although sends lots of mixed signals and is very vague about what he says. I have tried everything. Not calling him, calling him, sending cute messages, didn't say cute things at all or hint that I like him. What do I have to do to get this pisces male. There is something about him that really gets to me and I don't know why. How do I get him into a relationship? Why are you pisces so hard to pin down?

2006-10-15 10:50:13 · 1 answers · asked by virgoth3virgin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever felt like this?
Have you ever had to move not by choice then missed your home town? I need ways on how to deal with this as I had to move not by choice & am going to get deppression as I'm really missing my home town. How can I get though this?

2006-10-15 10:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Tennis_Ace 1 in Friends

hes started going out with friends texts people all the time tells me he has someone else i need to no if he is cheating or if im paronoid he never use to go out or is it i am jealouse ive got no friends please help

2006-10-15 10:49:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex- boyfriend put some quote up on his msn, "keep on playing our favourite song, I turn it up while you're gone". I googled it and the song is called "In my head" and it's by Queens of the Stone Age. I'm assuming he has a new girl in his life. I got upset when I saw his msn quote, I dunno why. What do ya'll think? Why would he put that song up? and why am I still angry at him?

2006-10-15 10:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating