This girl is in a couple of my classes and we speak here and there, but i asked her out and she said she would think about it. Well the next day she said "there was to much drama in her life right now but she would like to remain frineds" What does that mean? Did i get rejected, but in a nice way?
Any help would be grealty appreciated, thanks!
2006-10-15 11:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by Paul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has a lot going on in her life right now she did not reject you because she doesn't like you..be patient . stay friends with her..
2006-10-15 11:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know for certain. This has happened to me before when a guy has asked me out but I had too many things going on and could not handle it. It really had nothing to do with the guy. There have been other times when I did not want to hurt someone’s feelings and said I preferred to be friends. The important thing to remember is that chemistry between two people is very fluid. There is the invisible X factor that brings two people together and it’s different for everyone. The cutest girl in your school could have interest in you… but you may not feel the same for her. So… if someone turns down your offer for a date… it does not mean there is anything wrong with you. You have a long life ahead of you and there will be many adventurous and wonderful relationships just around the curve in the road. More than you can even imagine in your mind at this time. Hang in there!
2006-10-15 11:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got rejected in a nice way. Maybe she is going thru a difficult time right now.
2006-10-15 11:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by hott stuff!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think she totally blew you off but said to you politely that right now is not the best time. if u are really interested in her i suggest that the next time u see tell her that I am sorry to hear about whats going on with your life and that if you ever need someone to talk to i am a great listner.
2006-10-15 11:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got rejected in a nice way...but who knows..maybe shes just gonig through a tough time...keep talking to her and stuff and then ask her out a few weeks later again and see what she says..if she turns you down again then move on to someone better..lots of fish in the sea
2006-10-15 11:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you were rejected in a nice way, and well that may not have anything to do with you so don't take it personally, girls reject guys for lots of reasons.
2006-10-15 11:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. She did it about as nicely as she could.
2006-10-15 11:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sort of,
but brother give it time n see how it goes
2006-10-15 11:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by TheGuyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY! keep looking
2006-10-15 11:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋